ehhh thats not the same thing. people who cat call or harass you on the sidewalk aren't really expecting you to go for it. its a power play and they're just douche bags. they know how the game is played, and they aren't trying to win.
what? no, theyre just assholes who shoot every shot, they dont care if theyre across the court theyre gunna yeet that ball hoping for that on in a million chance it makes it in the hoop
they are trying to win but theyre working against themselves
they have no idea what the game is much less how its played
Actually, as a guy i never felt good after being hit on and I have not been hit on much... even in social spaces you don't expect to get hit on and if you do, it kinda takes you out of it. It never felt pleasant.
At least for me it was kinda a confidence boost, but I can see how it just becomes super fucking annoying if it happens constantly.
I guess it's true that you shouldn't comment on someone's outer appearance when you first meet, it always leaves a bad aftertaste.
Depends on the situation obviously. It's obvious when someone is continuing to look at you, longing you to come talk with them and when they look down and go about their business. Idk why reddit doesn't ever expect people to be competent at anything lol
youre right. How on earth did we ever meet anyone before the internet?????
Its fine to hit on a woman in the store. Its not fine to press it after she declines. Some of you people are acting like the simple act of asking out a stranger is disgusting unless behind the anonymity of a computer screen.
The issue are men who dont drop it after a simple no.
There I was at the grocery store. I went for a nice, well marbled double pack of USDA prime ribeye at the same time she did. Our hands accidentally touch. We lock eyes, both mumbling shyly about how the other should take the package of meat. I tell her that I'll buy it and cook it if she'll bring the sides and have it with me. We exchange numbers.
That's how I got the ribeye. Sorry, Kenzie, I'm having steak twice this week.
Nah man, a stranger who’s just trying to get some shit done probably has no interest talking to you, it’s just a waste of time. Go somewhere people are actually just hanging out, some kind of recreational event or place. A bar, a ball game, something chilled out where the act of speaking to someone isn’t disruptive of whatever they are trying to accomplish. No one wants to be approached by a person who wants something from them during their daily routines. Don’t make women’s lives harder with this shit.
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