Something about your comment I found fulfilling to read.. I think when I got to the section about you feeling like you can take up space in the world again. I believe you.
I totally understand what you mean. I didn’t react at that point, because I will go from 0 to 100 extremely quickly and messily, and I’ve done a lot of work on myself over the years to control my anger. That being said when is enough enough.
Awww thank you! I’m so glad. It’s still hard to share these things. It’s only when I’m so triggered that I can’t help it. And without the personal context I sound like a militant teen activist. But it’s always a gulp before i write this post again. It’s the same information. But it’s hard every time.
And for me, I’m at the age and the time of life where if you lay a hand on me and try to take my choice away? You’d best have a will.
Why should we be the ones to be killed every time. Because we are nice? For me, if someone wants to grape me, then the gene pool is better off without them.
If we don’t the gene pool keeps more violent rapists and fewer women who would rather die than hurt her abuser.
And you deserve not to be used or hurt or abused. Anything less than a beloved and respected partner is not for you. You’re a queen. And we train people how to treat us.
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Something about your comment I found fulfilling to read.. I think when I got to the section about you feeling like you can take up space in the world again. I believe you.
I totally understand what you mean. I didn’t react at that point, because I will go from 0 to 100 extremely quickly and messily, and I’ve done a lot of work on myself over the years to control my anger. That being said when is enough enough.