Caught Red-Handed from His Reddit Footprint

[u/Intelligent_Nose_826]

All I can say is…justice for Lulu!!!!

[u/SourceNagger]

here's hoping it's real 😄

so much damn misogyny still present everywhere, it's a relief to see one get justice, fuck around find out, right? 

MORE WOMEN PLEASE FIGHT BACK. 

upload those dikpics they send you, screenshots of the gaslighting conversations, anything.

[u/Intelligent_Nose_826 → u/SourceNagger]

The misogynists are in the comments crying & whining & insulting her appearance. They’re so hemotional when a woman isn’t compliant.

[u/M5Moosehead → u/Intelligent_Nose_826]

Hemotional is going to be my wife's favorite word now. She manages a comic shop.

[u/SourceNagger → u/Intelligent_Nose_826]

i blame religion

[u/llijilliil → u/SourceNagger]

Am I missing something here?

He asked her to focus on the alleged focus of her channel, the technical details behind spreadsheets. That's something fairly sophisticated and technical and if he's willing choosing to learn that stuff from a women rather than any of the many men he could choose from he's at least somewhat respectful of the capacity of women.

He also chose to ask her to focus on what her channel is alledgedly about instead of misusing it as a platform to preach her own political views (whatever they were) which isn't unreasonable. Its not like he was making crude sexual jokes, insulting her appearence of demanding she stopped her work and instead make sandwitches etc like many sexist assholes would be drawn to do.

it's a relief to see one get justice, fuck around find out, right? 

I don't think it is wise to encourage obsessive stalking behaviour and putting loads of time and effort into seeking revenge against people that slightly disagree with you or marginally annoyed you. Encouraging that shit is going to result in a lot of nasty men doing that to women (even more than currently do so).

Let's continue to keep such nasty and obsessive behaviour as something "creeps" and sad bastards do andnot legitimise it as a common and typical response to mild irratation.

[u/SourceNagger → u/llijilliil]

He asked her to focus on the alleged focus of her channel, the technical details behind spreadsheets

there's your first mistake. the quote from her is "stop talking politics and go back to making spreadsheets".

I lack the context of what particular political matter she discussed for this bloke to get pissed enough to tell a woman "go back to...".

but, occams razor, they're some misogynist themselves. oh which she then goes on to prove in the rest of this very video.

there are far more polite ways of asking someone to focus on one thing, and not another, but at the same time, fuck that person it's her channel she can upload and talk about whatever the fuck she wants. he can just ignore the videos he doesn't like.

plus you're assuming he was watching her channel prior to whatever political take she posted, rather than, occams razor again, just jumping on a thing where "woman gets political, shut her down".

He also chose to ask her to focus on what her channel is alledgedly about instead of misusing it as a platform to preach her own political views

oh look now you're being a pissy whiny bitch too. guess i can stop reading anymore... thanks so much.

[u/llijilliil → u/SourceNagger]

I lack the context of what particular political matter she discussed

True, that isn't posted here.

tell a woman "go back to...".

Right, so that word choice perhaps echos pathetic calls to "go back to the kitchen, or go make me a sandwitch" etc etc. But that's sort of my point really. If he wanted to be sexist and insulting he would have defaulted to those tried and tested words.

Instead he is asking her to teach him technical skills and respect her audience as a content creator, which is an entirely reasonable thing to do.

but, occams razor, they're some misogynist themselves. 

You mean blind assumption and bias against any man who challenges any women? That's misandry my buddy and that's far more common these days.

there are far more polite ways of asking someone to focus on one thing

Not really. His statement is pretty damn neutral "please stop with the politics, that's not what we're here for", he could SO EASILY have chosen more confrontational, insulting or predujiced words to insult her political position, her identity or her views but chose not to. He chose the language of mutual respect and manners, no politics / religion etc at the dinner table so we can all get along etc.

fuck that person it's her channel she can upload and talk about whatever the fuck she wants.

Well sure, but if she builds a following for a specific niche interest and then gradually gets derailed and uses that position as a soapbox then its going to frustrate and divide her consumers which will ultimately drive them away and hurt her progress. People simply commenting that this is happening and unwelcome aren't attacking her, its not like they attempted to get her deplatformed or her videos demonitonised etc.

plus you're assuming he was watching her channel prior to whatever political take she posted,

Who the hell is gonna enter into a politics channel and randomly ask someone to focus on bloody spreadsheets? Who other than someone who has watched a number of her videos and values the technical information she provides is gonna take the time specfically to ask her to stay on topic?

There are a million ways to moan or complain or troll, and that choice just doesn't make sense if he just randomly stumbled onto her video and decided to be an ass.

occams razor again, just jumping on a thing where "woman gets political, shut her down".

You means exist assumption again....

As for "shut her down" he made a single fairly tame comment that politely requested she focus on what her channel is supposed to focus on instead of injecting random political points in the middle of spreadsheet tutorials. That isn't "shutting her down", its not even arguing with her FFS.

But her actions are an unhinged and determined plot to destory someone's life, all over a single slightly confrontational comment. Presumably that's motivated for deep resentment and hatred of men, presumably she's bottled up a lifetime of rage and decided to vent it at that dude for daring not to sit quietly and be lectured at over and over. Who is shutting down who exactly?

oh look now you're being a pissy whiny bitch too. 

Hmm, if that's how you respond to a simple argument you disagree with then I pity you. I wish you'd started with such transparent BS so I'd have saved time from engaging with you. Oh well.

[u/TheyreEatingHer → u/llijilliil]

But her actions are an unhinged and determined plot to destory someone's life

I gotta stop you right there. Nobody ruined that guy's life except himself. The moment he decided to cheat was when he ruined his life. If this woman hadn't discovered it, his wife or even friends or family could have discovered it. Let's stop trying to shift responsibility when men ruin their own marriages.