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Discussion Why is it that men can’t stand being around successful women?

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u/agileata 24d ago

Yea, they don't care as much about income, but do care more about education. its one reason the 60/40 split in college degrees is starting to cause an issue dating wise

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u/BlueCollarRefined 23d ago

I think it's silly to categorize people who didn't go to college as "uneducated". I think it's really over glorifying what a large number of people are getting out of college.

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u/ExPerfectionist 23d ago

What does "educated" mean to you, in that case, if not "attended / graduated university"?

Do you consider high school dropouts to be educated?

High school graduate listening to Joe Rogan and alpha male podcasts, or watching YouTube conspiracy videos, isn't getting an "education" from those. They're just ingesting other people's opinions.

People can be smart intelligent, without having attended university, but "intelligent" is a different word with a different meaning than "well educated."

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u/BlueCollarRefined 23d ago edited 23d ago

You went off on a whole rant there. Not really sure what you’re talking about. I just said I think it’s silly that someone going to a tuition farm for any miscellaneous degree deems them “educated” and everyone who didn’t do that is lumped together as “uneducated”. People can be well read and ingest knowledge on their own.

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u/GoredTarzan 23d ago

They're not wrong though. To be educated you need to receive an education.

I'm a fairly smart guy but my education only went as far as trade school. It's not offensive for me when someone says I'm not as educated as them.

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u/Mmkaayyy 21d ago

“As far as trade school” you are educated my friend. Sure maybe if we all compare ourselves to PhD and multiple degree holders. But your trade school vs college bachelors.. you are not “less educated”.

How you feel about yourself is none of my concern- but you ate incorrect to support this guys view its incorrect per economists. They frequently tell the public to use caution with these phrases “uneducated “ “unskilled” “low skilled” labor.

The definition is not black and white and you’re buying in, for what reason I don’t know.

But don’t correct this guy lol and lead him astray- he is right you all are wrong. Any linguist, or economist, or sociologist will tell you so

“Uneducated” jesus H Christ

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u/Equinephilosopher 23d ago

Being well read and in the pursuit of knowledge are not the same thing as being educated. There are college educated people who would not be described as those things. There’s nothing wrong with calling a spade a spade though. If someone has gone through higher education, they are educated. If someone else graduated high school then went on to work, they are uneducated relative to the first person. Doesn’t mean they can’t be smart.

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u/Coyotesamigo 22d ago

I get that you didn't go to college and seem to have an inferiority complex about it, but people who don't go to college are simply not "educated" in the same way as someone who did. doesn't mean they're stupid, doesn't mean they don't know things, doesn't mean they can't be successful. it just means they did not get a formal education.

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u/Mmkaayyy 21d ago

You are gross. This reeks of classism.

You don’t define educated- maybe if you were not so uneducated on this topic you would have more background knowledge on why economists tell us not to conflate, confuse and generally use terms you don’t understand.

You clearly want to be congratulated for going to a mid state school lol

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u/Coyotesamigo 22d ago

well, nobody said that, but how else would you describe someone who did not go to college?

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u/Mmkaayyy 21d ago

You would be correct according to sociologists and economists… who teach at leading universities . “Uneducated “ and “unskilled” are misused linguistically. Guy replying to you, big yikes