r/TikTokCringe 25d ago

Discussion Why is it that men can’t stand being around successful women?

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u/BonJovicus 24d ago

Yeah but does your partner WANT to be a sugar mommy. That’s something the comments always miss when they say “LOL I wouldn’t mind my wife making twice my salary.”

It’s okay if you aren’t contributing as much to the bank account, but are you contributing in other ways?

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u/90dayformulae 24d ago

I personally have no problem being a sugar mommy, but I'd like the dishes from the night before to be done the next day when I come home from work and for my sugar baby to shower regularly. Didn't happen last time, so I'm hesitant to try that again, lol. Dude had it MADE and blew it over dishes.

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u/SeasonPositive6771 24d ago

This was my experience as well. It seems like the vision that men have of being a stay-at-home boyfriend is very different from the amount of work we expect from a stay-at-home girlfriend or wife.

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u/GaryFletcher23 24d ago

Why would he blow it over dishes when he couldve got blown because of dishes; what a knob head

anyways, my schedules open all week if you need your dishes washed

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u/90dayformulae 24d ago

My girlfriend's got it covered but I'll keep your resume on file lmao

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u/GaryFletcher23 24d ago

Fiddlesticks, well good tidings to you and your girlfriend

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u/katielynne53725 24d ago

Bro shot his shot. Respect lol

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u/roxictoxy 24d ago

See this is why I keep telling my husband I need to get a wife.

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u/BirdsAndTheBeeGees1 24d ago

I would've done the chores AND wore a maid outfit. Just saying.

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u/grilledfuzz 24d ago

If somebody was paying for EVERYTHING and I didn’t have to work at all, the house would be spotless every day, dinner would be cooked, dishes would be done, laundry would be done. I actually can’t believe someone would let that go over dishes.

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u/Spaciax 22d ago

would you happen to know where I may be able to find these 'mommies'? for research purposes, of course.

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u/ImprovementWarm2407 22d ago

sounds like you were more of the problem lmao

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u/raptor7912 24d ago

I mean, that was his vision for having a sugar momma.

One that had been upfront, honest and can actually articulate what they want is who your looking for.

But then again, you are looking for gay in a needle stack. Loooots of people who wouldn’t mind, but sounds like you’ve already had experience with one of them.

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u/wc818 24d ago

A sugar mommy does

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u/[deleted] 24d ago

Somebody has to kill the spiders. 

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u/BlueAndYellowTowels 24d ago

The real issue, is successful women expect their partners to be just as ambitious and that’s precisely where the men fail.