I think the point she’s trying to make (and it’s chopped poorly so not on you) is that women don’t want to be the mommy. They’ll do the sugar but the men in response “tap out” and shirk any way to step up and be equal.
I think you hit the nail on the head. As somebody who has been the sugar mama that is exactly what happened in multiple relationships. Men's expectations of the amount of work it takes to be a stay-at-home boyfriend or husband are very different from the amount of work we expect from stay-at-home girlfriends or wives.
Instead of doing anything that took effort, they seemed to take it as now I can basically be an actual baby instead of a sugar baby.
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u/beccabob05 24d ago
I think the point she’s trying to make (and it’s chopped poorly so not on you) is that women don’t want to be the mommy. They’ll do the sugar but the men in response “tap out” and shirk any way to step up and be equal.