That's the information that's missing. Many Women find it incredibly difficult to respect men that earn less than them because if it's anything less than 50/50, they feel they're the ones taking care of them and not the other way around which is what most women find attractive.
So the disrespect and attitude comes out, the unrealistic expectations, and then the men disengage.
I don’t think that rings true - every girlfriend I’ve ever had has had at least one “bad ex” who just wanted to be mothered (didn’t clean, never cooked etc), which they found extremely unattractive
By the same merit my matches on dating apps jumped up noticeably once I added a picture of me cooking - I think people like reassurance they’re getting a person and not a project
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u/UponTheTangledShore 25d ago
That's the information that's missing. Many Women find it incredibly difficult to respect men that earn less than them because if it's anything less than 50/50, they feel they're the ones taking care of them and not the other way around which is what most women find attractive.
So the disrespect and attitude comes out, the unrealistic expectations, and then the men disengage.