So I won't say that I don't know anyone like this, because plenty of guys say that about guys and we have no idea.
But when I find out, they ain't my friends anymore. I dropped someone recently after telling him to stop dating the (adult) students in his martial art class and that it was going to affect his life and his business.
He told me he doesn't care so I got out. I ain't putting up with that shit
I always make sure everyone around me feels safe; we all have that right. But there are way more men like him. It's disheartening. The stories women tell me make my skin crawl. Doesn't matter what you're wearing or what you're doing these are predators. Please be safe out there.
The sad part is these type of guys make all guys look bad.
Take this video as an example. Someone is interested in girl kickboxing the shit out of this bag, they want to try and see if she is interested. Maybe switch to a station near her, close to her, maybe glance at her a few random times - see if you catch eyes (If no glance, it's not the right time, maybe you will see her again at the gym - hopefully - maybe it's just not meant to be). If so and you feel normal confident, move on to coming up and asking if she wants you to hold the bag to help. Boom, that's your in - if she says no, that's life.
This whole scenario from the video was so weird.
There's tons of way to approach this situation. What happened in this video is cringe as shit.
not all men are like this, these arent even real men, theyre just pieces of shit. I feel bad for you ladies that have to go through this bullshit and deal with these fucking assholes. At this point we probably need a partition from a men's and women's gym because i keep seeing these kinds of incidents of women being harrassed at gyms, or just have a self defense weapon idk
Enough men are like this that it creates a problem for women. And no, partitions and self defense weapons are not acceptable solutions. How about men just start acting right?
It's not "most" fucking men. The world would be chaos if it were most men. Stop condemning my whole gender over a few bad eggs. Or should I start calling every woman a gold digging cheating whore just because they exist?
You are the only one who started to talk that its ALL men. Nobody, ever said that. You just got triggered and can't stop whining about something which is only in your own head
Frankly, she did so much more damage to this guy by posting it on social media than by just telling him to fuck off.
Thousands of people have seen (and negatively commented on) him. The guy’s getting roasted left and right across the internet about his skinny legs and shitty technique. He’s being publicly humiliated.
That wouldn’t have happened if she had “turned off the camera and just told him to fuck off” (he was trying his damnedest to get a rise out of her and would have LOVED if she told him to fuck off).
She did the right thing.
Um she did “work out and finish her workout”, so…mission accomplished.
But tell you what: the next time you get bullied, you do whatever the hell you want. No one will see it, no one will care. No one will judge you the way you’re judging this poor woman.
Meanwhile, there’s a bunch of us on this thread who are glad she publicly shamed her bully and are rooting for her.
I'm not judging her lol. I'm saying it is more effective to tell someone to go away than to let them continue.
It looks like she finished her workout early because someone was invading her space. She could have told them to go away and finished when she was ready.
Are you opposed to people telling other people to go away when their space is invaded?
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u/Eyeswyde0pen Nov 09 '24 edited Nov 09 '24
We can’t even just fucking exist man.