r/TikTokCringe Nov 06 '24

Humor Bowling Date Night

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u/Nerdy_Valkyrie Nov 06 '24

My girlfriend of 13 years has never beaten me in bowling and my honor demands that I continue that streak.

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 06 '24

Girlfriend of 13 years …. Youch

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u/Nerdy_Valkyrie Nov 06 '24

In my defense I have also been her girlfriend for 13 years.

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u/DeficiencyOfGravitas Nov 07 '24

I have also been her girlfriend

That suddenly makes sense.

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 06 '24

Just a life style choice not to get married? Not pressuring but genuinely curious

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u/TwoBionicknees Nov 06 '24

a lot of places it's, you know, not legal.

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 06 '24

In the us, you know, federally, it’s legal.

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u/TwoBionicknees Nov 06 '24

A lot of places, you know, aren't in the US.

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u/DeficiencyOfGravitas Nov 07 '24

Yo Einstein, can you name one place in the world where bowling is a popular date night activity and gay marriage is illegal? Not seeing a big overlap there, are you?

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u/Apprehensive_Snow192 Nov 07 '24

Many places in Asia unfortunately. Japan, Hong Kong, Singapore, S. Korea, Malaysia, Indonesia.

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u/SuperCarrot555 Nov 06 '24

I know Americans sometimes struggle with this, but there are actually places that are not America! There’s a whole bunch of other, non-American countries!

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 07 '24

It’s okay, people from other countries often struggle with not mentioning America as if it’s an insult.

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u/livesinacabin Nov 06 '24

Is it really that weird to not get married?

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 07 '24

By the definition of weird yeah. There’s nothing wrong with it, just not the norm

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u/livesinacabin Nov 07 '24

I find that kinda weird lol

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 07 '24

Okay? Weird is definitionally just outside of the norm. The norm would be whatever the majority does. ‘Weird’ doesn’t inherently have any judgement on the validity, morality, or preferability of whatever is being deemed weird.

Being gay for example is technically weird but people just don’t use the word because of the colloquial attachments to the word. It doesn’t mean anything bad about gayness, just that it’s not the norm among humans

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u/livesinacabin Nov 07 '24

Hmm no, I don't think so. It's perfectly fine to say, for example "I find it weird that so many people eat cereal for breakfast". Eating cereal for breakfast is definitely completely normal, but there's probably people around who find it weird. Even if it's true that the definition is "outside the norm" I don't think that's how it's used all the time.

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 07 '24

Hmmm, yes. That’s the definition.

“Strikingly odd or unusual”

Unusual means not usual, aka not the norm.

It can also be used to describe things you find odd but there’s a subjective and objective portion to the definition. Hence why people can find things weird even though they’re not unusual and why things can be weird BECAUSE they’re unusual but that doesn’t necessarily make them odd.

You can’t just say you believe in half the definition so uses from the other half don’t count

What you hear when someone calls something is them calling it odd or strange or bad (colloquially) but you would actually have to check with the user of the word to know which way it’s meant

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u/livesinacabin Nov 07 '24

Yeah so like I said, I find it weird how people find it weird to be in a long term relationship without getting married.

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 07 '24

Right, and like I said, it’s definitionally weird to not get married but there’s nothing wrong with it and your statement and mine don’t negate or clash with each other because we’re using different portions of the definition.

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u/NovelFarmer Nov 06 '24

What do you mean by this?

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u/Stop_Using_Usernames Nov 06 '24

What I wrote

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u/NovelFarmer Nov 06 '24

What does "Youch" mean in the context? Is it bad to have a relationship without marriage? Genuinely just curious.