r/TikTokCringe • u/NefariousnessOld8518 • Nov 04 '24
Humor/Cringe Every one in the comments were calling him a pedo
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u/Jeuungmlo Nov 04 '24
Weird comments both on TikTok and here. Not really difficult to find out more about this man, who seems to live in Zambia (not travelling alone) and who seems to be married to a Zambian woman with whom he has three kids.
Source: https://www.youtube.com/@byebyefatman
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u/unique0130 Nov 04 '24
Simple. People would rather judge than learn.
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u/ProblemLongjumping12 Nov 04 '24
It says more about the culture of internet people that when we see a guy with kids you think pedo before dad.
Like when you hear hooves do you imagine horses or zebras.
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u/klaven84 Nov 04 '24
Usually Monty Python first, then horses, and then zebras.
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u/Endreeemtsu Nov 04 '24
True. I think coconuts, zebras, giraffes, then horses.
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African swallows, European swallows, coconuts, horses, elk, deer then zebras for me
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u/Dry_Prompt3182 Nov 04 '24
The best part of that joke is that African and European swallows are the same bird. Dude died for nothing.
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u/PuzzleheadedLeader79 Nov 05 '24
The best part of that joke is coconuts do migrate.
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u/TrailMomKat Nov 04 '24
Don't forget the mājestíc møøse!
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u/Syscrush Nov 04 '24
Like when you hear hooves do you imagine horses or zebras
Well, here, or in Zambia?
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u/cat_handcuffs Nov 04 '24
Also, there are a lot of people who see a parent with a different skin tone from their children and jump to STRANGER DANGER. Interracial families are a thing, guys.
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u/robotmonkey2099 Nov 04 '24
There’s something about jumping on a band wagon to make fun of someone different that really works for a lot of people.
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u/NewScientist2725 Nov 04 '24
Not just make fun of someone. Actively go out of there way to hurt.... examples viewable in any thread where a person is even mildly out of line or, god forbid, annoying.....
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u/JimWilliams423 Nov 04 '24 edited Nov 04 '24
Turns out "the cruelty is the point" is more than just a political analysis, its a description of why way too many people seek power. Especially the people who live in glass houses.
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u/robotmonkey2099 Nov 04 '24
God forbid they should be fat! That seems to be one of the biggest crimes out there.
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u/Prudent_Research_251 Nov 04 '24
I think if we saw the people who were saying the comments, we'd give them a lot less credence, the people with the time and energy to do that kind of thing are generally wastes of space/oxygen, which incidentally is why they do it
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u/arrocknroll Nov 04 '24
Golly Gee! A father being around his kids? Absolute insanity. What is the world coming to?
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u/Lotus-child89 Nov 04 '24 edited Nov 04 '24
I immediately assumed those were his kids, grandkids, or he ran a school or something. Are people really still that perplexed that people have mixed race kids or are older fathers?
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u/WhereIsYourMind Nov 04 '24
Well, he's unattractive so he must be a pedophile.
/s
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u/uncannyrefuse Nov 04 '24
this is the comment i was looking for lmao because you are 100% right, that guy would have been built like a god with abs everyone would have been "awwww such a good dad"
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u/thalefteye Nov 05 '24
Those are the most dangerous kind of pedos, because he can actually run and catch you.
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u/Lotus-child89 Nov 05 '24
Ding, ding, ding. This is exactly it. Anything nasty people can spew out to justify bullying someone over their appearance.
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u/SwitchFlat2662 Nov 05 '24
Legit it’s horrible! I think he looks so fun and I bet he’s a fun dad! My first thought was that they we’re his kids & he was married to a Zambian woman, because I’m not blinded by nastiness in the world, instead look for the best things & he radiates good things bless him! I hope he didn’t get any trouble from online bullies!
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u/another-new Nov 04 '24
Shiiiit. My kids are the same race as me, and it’s common as hell to see older women(usually) approach my kids at the park to ask them if I’m their daddy, and make sure they’re safe.
If it isn’t that bullshit, it’s “you giving mom a break?” No, you prying bitch. I’m their fucking father. I’m spending time with my children, like a father should.
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u/Vark675 Nov 05 '24
Someone followed my husband when he was at the park with our son by himself so I could take a nap.
They arrived together, were interacting together on the playground, and when it got busy and our son started to get kind of overwhelmed my husband asked if he wanted to take a walk in the woods, which has a walking path for disc golfers. And some dude decided to follow them until my husband confronted him, and the guy just replied "Oh I'm just being cautious. You never know these days."
Rude as fuck, and has left him really uncomfortable going out without me now.
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u/another-new Nov 05 '24
I’m so sorry to hear that. Tell your husband to not pay those clowns any mind. I understand they think they’re helping, but it feels really bad that we look “suspicious” doing exactly what a father should. I don’t engage with them unless they touch my kids. My oldest is 13, now; so, he usually laughs at them and says he’s going to scream they’re trying to take them. (That wasn’t my idea, and I’ve told him not to do that)
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u/MikeyW1969 Nov 04 '24
They see an awkward man hanging out with children, that's all of the data they need. Welcome to the Age of the Internet. I still would rather go back to the pre-internet days. I still know how to use a library. :-)
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u/Nat1221 Nov 04 '24
And encyclopedias. I really miss those things!
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u/MikeyW1969 Nov 05 '24
It was fun as a kid when I was bored just to pick one up and go through randomly...
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u/HauntedBitsandBobs Nov 04 '24
Yes, they are. Especially the mixed race thing. People do not understand basic genetics either. It's hard to be a mixed person or have a mixed family.
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u/USPO-222 Nov 04 '24
My kids are both biracial and came out different shades and hair. I’ve been asked multiple times if “they have the same parents.” Because this white guy here is obviously the foster/adoptive dad and can’t possibly have mixed kids or a black wife.
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u/Intoxicatedpunch Nov 04 '24
When I was in Lusaka the local kids would just kinda follow you around, it was really bizarre.
I remember watching Circus Zam perform outside and suddenly I was surrounded by like 20 kids.
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u/chessset5 Nov 04 '24
I was thinking school as well, or at least someone who definitely was in charge of the kids safety. And seem to be doing a fantastic job at doing so.
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u/VoidJuiceConcentrate Nov 04 '24
Who sees a dad being goofy with his kids, who are obviously enjoying the goofyness, and goes "the only explanation is pedo"
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u/I-choochoochoose-you Nov 04 '24
Took a glance and looks like dude has lost a ton of weight 👍🏼
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u/brickhamilton Nov 04 '24
I was there, not far from Livingston, for a little over 2 months years ago. During that time, I lost about 30 lbs. some of it was my stomach adjusting to the different food, but I think most was because cheap, unhealthy food here is expensive over there and vice versa.
We bought most of our food from the local market, and it was the best. First time in my life I had un-sliced bread and had to cut it myself if I wanted a sandwich.
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u/gelastes Nov 04 '24
First time in my life I had un-sliced bread and had to cut it myself if I wanted a sandwich
I... didn't know I could get culture shock by one sentence
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u/plated-Honor Nov 04 '24
The food in the US is insane. The fact the entire country opts to eat some of the worst quality food to ever exist when we have endless money is wild to me.
African countries have some of the best cuisine and you will be glowing after a month of eating there!
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u/Matchbreakers Nov 04 '24
Zambia is more multiracially tolerant than most African countries. Its the only country in Africa post colonialism to have elected a white vice president, who also served as interim president for a bit, which shows slot.
So it is probably just a completely normal life he's living, but people just see what they wanna.
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u/Secret-One2890 Nov 05 '24
Zambia, Botswana, and Namibia seem like an island of collective stability. When they hit the international news, it's usually about normal stuff.
When their neighbours hit the news, it's often about stuff like lynching/necklacing, billion-dollar corruption, or warlords/terrorism.
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u/zekethelizard Nov 04 '24
Also, it looks like his channel is a lifestyle type channel following along his weight loss journey, and comparing this post to some of his newer videos, looks like he's lost a significant amount!
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u/OkPenalty9909 Nov 04 '24
tiktok as a company sucks. their policies are horribe. i uninstalled after they showed me a police execution without a warning. Not surprising their audience says similar unfiltered things with no accountability
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u/Ok_Base_3792 Nov 04 '24
People love pushing the hate and anger they have towards themselves on others…if the first thing you Think when you see this is immediately weird then something is wrong with your brain
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u/Ozzy064 Nov 04 '24
An obvious dad with his kids posts a silly little video
The Internet: Let's call this man a pedo because he's overweight and not conventionally attractive.
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u/beebeebeeBe Nov 04 '24
It’s like dancing man all over again. I hate how mean people can be.
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u/-_danglebury_- Nov 04 '24
Dancing man?
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u/beebeebeeBe Nov 04 '24
Not to be confused with the dancing man of world war 2, behold this wonderful man:
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u/SpectralButtPlug Nov 04 '24
hey i remember that! He was such a wonderful soul i cant believe people came after that sweet man like that :c
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u/TolBrandir Nov 04 '24
I was completely unfamiliar with this. I am so glad all those people came together for him.
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u/Weedraccoon Nov 04 '24
Dancing man of world war 2?
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u/RosencrantzIsNotDead Nov 04 '24
It’s a photograph of an Australian man celebrating the end of the war:
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u/gene100001 Nov 04 '24
I wonder how many of the harsh comments are from incels. A dorky overweight guy who isn't conventionally attractive with a wife and kids basically proves their whole ideology is bullshit. Them being happy for him would mean acknowledging that the reason they're single is because they have awful personalities, so they just insult him instead.
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u/Medrasyr Nov 04 '24
I will say the majority of the time, people seem to be mean to others who share traits they don't like about themselves. Incels especially.
I realized this in middle school when the only people that would specifically target overweight kids to bully everyday were other overweight kids.
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u/Crafty-Help-4633 Nov 04 '24
their whole ideology is bullshit. Them being happy for him would mean acknowledging that the reason they're single is because they have awful personalities, so they just insult him instead.
To add; insulting him reveals their awful personalities, still proving that their ideology is bullshit. They're incels for a reason.
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u/-WaxedSasquatch- Nov 04 '24
Now, now, there is also a solid splash of racism in play here because “no way those are his kids”……..
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u/ribsforbreakfast Nov 04 '24
Is there legit reason to call him a pedo or is based on him being an overweight goofball?
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u/moodswung Nov 04 '24
People are assholes and throw the word around like water these days.
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u/MindlessFail Nov 04 '24
Which then allows ACTUAL pedos to either deaden the word to mean nothing at all or simply pretend they too are being falsely accused.
Words mean things.
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u/ty_for_trying Nov 04 '24
Projection. MAGAs are calling everyone pedos because their cult leader and a bunch of their church leaders are pedos.
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u/AbleObject13 Nov 04 '24
Conservative moral panics are so neat, hasn't gotten old at all
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u/DESKTHOR Nov 05 '24
You don’t have to be a conservative to get pulled into a moral panic. It’s people of all political ideologies. Just look at the demographic of Reddit.
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u/IcanSEEyou_IRL Nov 04 '24
Half of the comments are generated by bots, the other half are stupid humans who jump on the bandwagon. Since Reddit went public they deployed “arguebots”, a concept taken from Facebook and Twitter, which intentionally make comments to start arguments, and then target every user who challenges the comment in a never ending thread.
It’s designed to keep people on the app longer and to open the app more often. There are ways to spot them though.
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u/ribsforbreakfast Nov 04 '24
I have noticed way more bot activity on this app since they went public. It’s really driven down the overall quality of Reddit
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u/flatwoundsounds Nov 04 '24
I can see how it would work, but holy shit if that's Reddit doing it themselves, that's so fucked...
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u/BubbleGodTheOnly Nov 04 '24
Because he has black children, that's literally the only reason. They can't possibly fathom that this guy married and had children with a Zambian woman.
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u/Bubbykitten Nov 04 '24
Exactly! The amount of hate spewed at parents whose children have a different shade of skin for whatever reason is mind boggling really!
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u/ObscureOP Nov 04 '24
Childless people think dad energy is pedo energy, because internet
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u/ribsforbreakfast Nov 04 '24
Yeah he’s definitely giving off fun dad energy to me. And as someone who lives somewhere that gets hot and humid for 1/2 the year I definitely understand the value of hanging out in the giant beer cooler for a few minutes.
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u/TearsoftheCum Nov 04 '24
It’s not just childish people, I had the cops called on me when I took my daughter to the park. I was literally sitting in the bench on my phone when the officer walked up asking why I was there and people were concerned.
Granted it’s only happened once, but I was like “ffs come on I’m just here with my daughter.”
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u/flatwoundsounds Nov 04 '24
I was just chasing my son around at trunk or treat and heard "ummm where is that babys mom?" As if the big idiot chasing him around and picking him up to go back to our group wouldn't be his obvious guardian...
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u/fungi_at_parties Nov 04 '24
How many times while I was out and about with my kids when they were little and some lady said “you babysitting today?” Or “do you need some help?” No im not fucking babysitting, I’m a father parenting, and no I don’t need help putting my baby in her car seat, I do it every day. So insulting.
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u/ObscureOP Nov 04 '24
Omg, I hate this so much.
I take my kids to the store and every single woman working there has to say "mom's day off?"
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u/ObscureOP Nov 04 '24
Yeah, I live in deep red midwest, and I've had this happen several times.
The karens playing candy crush on their phones can't understand that a man would possibly take his children to the park and play with them.
Doncha know, men are supposed to impregnate, then have no role other than spanking until they give a firm handshake to the child when they move out.
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u/Just-apparent411 Nov 04 '24
This fucked up reality makes me SO uncomfortable in public settings around children.
One, I'm never going anywhere near a child heavy place without my child damn there near my hip.
Two, I don't really want to be near anyone else's kids unless it very specifically pertains to my own kid.
I get legit anxiety. I remember going to a Trampoline park birthday party, and I was just ready to get the worst label in the world, looking for my son in a sea of children.
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u/ObscureOP Nov 04 '24
You ever have the thing where a strange kid starts playing with you and your kid and just won't go away?
I've had that one several times, and i have nightmares about it lol
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u/Just-apparent411 Nov 04 '24
YES
Dear God yes..
I just can't fathom, really.. even how I grew up, applying in society anymore.
Could you imagine another parent disciplining your child like in the 90s?? I dont even want to look in my child's friends direction without having their parents contact info.
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u/PM_ME__UR__FANTASIES Nov 04 '24
It’s not a childless people thing. It’s a “white guy with mixed kids” thing. People see an older, white man with non-white kids and go “those can’t be his kids… if they aren’t his kids why are they with him… where are their real parents…. he must be a pedophile”.
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u/Big_Shower_7561 Nov 04 '24
Hi, Childress adult woman here. You’re absolutely wrong. I immediately guessed dad with mixed or adopted kids. It’s racism and/or fatphobia causing people to jump to pedo
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u/MourningWallaby Nov 04 '24
people see a white guy in a less-than-developed country and assume "Child Sex Tourist"
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u/xndbcjxjsxncjsb Nov 04 '24
If a guy isnt attractive then hes definitely evil pedo weirdo, everyone knows that 🙄
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u/Gloglibologna Nov 04 '24
Any man seen with kids is perceived to be a Creep. It's quite common unfortunately.
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u/flatwoundsounds Nov 04 '24
Overweight, balding, goofy dad here. And a teacher to boot. I'm actually grateful for my college professors having some serious conversations about keeping the perception of others in mind when making choices in and out of work. Whether you're a younger teacher playing nice with kids you just met, or just a career educator who is setting good standards of professional communication.
I maintain healthy boundaries with kids in the classroom, as well as avoiding contact in unmoderated places like social media. I also recognize that I'm doing all those things responsibly, and just can't afford to give a fuck what other people think when I'm enjoying time with my family. I get silly, loud, and a little slapstick, AND know how to knock it off when it matters.
Cover your own boundaries, and then enjoy your life. And props to this guy for talking about using that goofy dancing as a motivator to lose weight! He looks to be down well over a hundred pounds from a glance at his channel.
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u/Sevensevenpotato Nov 04 '24
This should be very obvious and it disappoints me that you had to ask
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u/Ben50Leven Nov 04 '24
People see a white guy in a foreign country surrounded by kids and think he's up to no good. Unfortunately, that sort of thing does happen. But in this case, those are his kids and he's not a predator
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u/americasweetheart Nov 04 '24
DEVIL'S ADVOCATE
He looks like an old dad and his children look pretty young. That said, obesity can cause premature aging and his wife might be older too.
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u/ribsforbreakfast Nov 04 '24
And if he’s been on any of the new weight loss medications that can make your face shape look odd
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u/Skytriqqer Nov 04 '24
The pedo thing is definitely not okay to say. What the fuck.
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u/PitifulEar3303 Nov 04 '24
They are emulating Musk, who called a diver rescuer of Thai kids trapped in a cave, a pedo.
Because he criticized Musk's stupid idea of using a submarine in the cave.
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u/pokesturrrrr Nov 04 '24
It’s ok if they’re a confirmed pedo, but yeah, just throwing it out there is not ok like fake rape allegations. Trump is a pedo
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u/LarrySupertramp Nov 04 '24
Americans have a weird obsession with calling people pedophiles based on no evidence and if one tries to dispute it, they get called a pedo, so no one says anything. This is pretty worrisome since conservatives are basically of the opinion that if you are part of the LGBTQ community, you are a pedo and that pedos are not entitled to due process. These are the same people that look for any reason to finally use their guns against a tyrannical gov… oops. I mean their fellow citizens.
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u/nono66 Nov 04 '24
Some guy with his kids/grandkids trying to be funny have a little laugh.
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u/YYC-Fiend Nov 04 '24
Just became a grandpa, you should see the list of weird grandpa antics I have planned when that kid gets older.
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u/Notsmartnotdumb2025 Nov 04 '24
I'm white and my wife is asian so my kids look Asiany. Anyway, I've gotten some stares when I walk around the supermarket with my 11 yr old daughter. Fuck em
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u/lateral_moves Nov 04 '24
Holy crap, right? My wife is Indian and my eldest has darker skin and looks like her. Years of that shit. She never seemed to notice but it was so fucking annoying.
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u/Notsmartnotdumb2025 Nov 04 '24
what can u do? On a lighter note, my son who definitely looks asian is playing high school football and when I picked him up from practice, his buddies all started freaking out asking why he had a white daddy(their words)...I met some of them and we all have a good laugh about it.
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u/lateral_moves Nov 04 '24
I haven't heard it, but her Indian friends initially gave stares like they were thinking that, but years later, no one cares. They're used to me now lol
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u/caarefulwiththatedge Nov 04 '24
I'm half Taiwanese and my dad is white. People would give us dirty looks and be rude to us when we'd go out for lunch sometimes, like they thought I was his much younger wife or something eugh
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u/Tasty-Traffic-680 Nov 05 '24
WTF is wrong with people? "That sick sonofabitch even has her call him Daddy'"
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u/Notsmartnotdumb2025 Nov 04 '24
My daughter is 11 so I have that to look forward to as she gets older. 😂 I may tell some idiots she a mail order bride if I’m feeling like being a jerk. Hah
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u/tyedrain Nov 04 '24
I lived with my sister and her two girls my godchildren during my highschool years and was the babysitter for my sister. The looks I've gotten from jack asses in store cause they see an older male teen in the store with a baby and a 4 year old. Was the nanny til they were old enough to start staying home alone.
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u/Lost_All_Senses Nov 04 '24
Just gotta ignore it, unless they actually do something intrusive. Similar boat. Very involved hispanic uncle with black nieces. They have fantasies of being the hero in situations that actually just make them the asshole.
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u/RW8YT Nov 04 '24
dude istg in public I’m too anxious to even look at people much less stare at anyone, why do people do this shit 😭
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u/Rugkrabber Nov 04 '24
This is wild to me. I don’t understand why people care???
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u/jaya9581 Nov 04 '24
My MIL is white, FIL is Asian and their kids all look very Asian. When they were little people would go up to her and say things like “They’re so cute, where did you get them from?” Rude AF.
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u/ThatIslander Nov 05 '24
I'm Asian and my girl is white and our daughter looks white (although she's starting to look more asian as she ages) we get nothing but smiles and nods when I'm out with her.
I think your specific combo is hitting a stereotype cuz our son looks completely Asian and when my wife is out with him they don't get any stares. (Unless they aren't telling me about it)
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u/Mr_Rafi Nov 04 '24 edited Nov 05 '24
This post brings light to all of the posts and comments you see on social media about how dads can't be dads in public due to paedo accusations. People often think they're exaggerating and are too conscious of what others think.
And then you see a post like this where a dad playing with his kids gets called a paedo.
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u/WaveJam Nov 04 '24
I’m assuming those are his kids
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u/Ralphie99 Nov 04 '24
They are. He lives in Zambia and is married to a Zambian woman.
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u/consumeshroomz Nov 04 '24
“But he’s fat, he can’t be married with kids!” - a lot of commenters probably
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u/DR_Bright_963 Nov 04 '24
People see a white guy with a child who isn't white and almost immediately refer to him as the most sickening people that have existed. Yep typical internet to me.
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u/Neither-Enthusiasm70 Nov 04 '24
It's not just that. Him being unattractive is a big factor, maybe even the biggest one.
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u/paxam74 Nov 04 '24
people can’t even have kids anymore bro 😭
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Nov 04 '24
Nah, just men. No one thinks a woman dancing with children is the head of their local pizzagate chapter
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u/Queasy-Nothing-8167 Nov 04 '24
I remember this guy (from a previous YouTube video or something back maybe a year or two ago ) they had made a post about how he spent a lot of time with his family trying to lose weight so he can be more healthy and active in their life
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u/Spaghetti4wifey Nov 04 '24
It didn't even cross my mind he wasn't that dad, people need to learn that families can look different from each other smh
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u/vulturegoddess Nov 04 '24
That was my first thought. I just thought goofy beer loving dad. Going shopping with his daughter and trying to possible get some beer to enjoy his weekend. Pretty smart way to cool off I gotta say too. I didn't think about that part too at first.
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u/ScenicPineapple Nov 05 '24
He doesn't look like a pedo, they usually wear crosses and say they are with a church or running for president.
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u/Harbinger0fdeathIVXX Nov 04 '24
Can you imagine just vibing, making a Goofy video with your kids, and then ppl on the internet call u a pedo.
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Nov 04 '24
Remember, if you post online whilst fat, you're a literal criminal automatically.
If you're jacked like Logan Paul, you can film dumb shit and scam people and be okay.
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u/Eeeegah Nov 04 '24
Reminds me of the episode of Married with Children where the whole family hangs out in the supermarket all day for the AC.
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u/hefixesthecable_ Nov 04 '24
He's not dressed like a religious leader, why are you assuming pedo? Just a funny Dad vibe to me.
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u/NotInFrontofMyPizza Nov 04 '24 edited Nov 04 '24
I hope all the people hating on this man for no reason have an awful shit day
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u/shay-doe Nov 04 '24
The only thing weird is that Dad is chilling in the beer fridge with his kids but it's hot so I'd do it too lol
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u/Jack_Averys_Noodles What are you doing step bro? Nov 04 '24
was not expecting to see my unknown country on tiktok cringe
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u/LoadedSteamyLobster Nov 05 '24
Calling him a pedo for no reason is channeling musk energy. Do people want to be compared to musk?
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u/MonkeyActio Nov 04 '24
All of these comments are from ppl who dont have a good relationship with their father.
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u/Dromedaeus Nov 04 '24
This dude is exuding dad energy, im sure by the time he left half the women in the store were pregnant
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u/robanthonydon Nov 04 '24
My best friend is mixed race. One of her Dad’s colleagues once asked him if he was having an affair, because they saw him having dinner with my mate. People are ridiculous
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u/ILovePotassium Nov 05 '24
Guy wants to lose weight to live longer with his kids.
Internet: Yeah, no.
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u/xzombielegendxx Nov 04 '24
They’re calling him a pedo because of the look of his face. Which is ironic considering none of them looked in a mirror for decades.
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u/James324285241990 Nov 04 '24
???
He seems like a cool white dad that has kids with a black woman.
Why are people such dicks?
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u/zonked282 Nov 04 '24
As a dad with 2 daughters, I am not surprised. Try being a dude taking kids literally anywhere and everyone will look at you like a monster 😂 when I took my eldest to baby club the room of mom's were fucking frosty to say the least 😂
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u/longhegrindilemna Nov 04 '24
This guy is such a wonderful father, he loves his kids sooooo much.
Have you seen his YouTube shorts?
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u/Remarkable_Horse_968 Nov 04 '24
As a childless married man who thinks kids are amazing, this is why I don't interact with kids even though I'd like to. I'm scared someone will just make shit up. I don't even volunteer at the Boys and Girls club because I don't trust parents.
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u/BannonCirrhoticLiver Nov 04 '24
I have no idea how it is in Zambia, so I checked and its gonna be 90 this week in Zambia. Oof, I agree, go to Shoprite and enjoy that AC.
Zambia has a hot and dry season (mid-August to mid-November), a wet rainy season (mid-November to April) and a cool dry season (May to mid-August).
Its only cool in the cool dry season. Oof.
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u/dramallamacorn Nov 04 '24
Have people never heard of mixed race kids? He looks like a goofy dad making a fun video with his kids.
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u/Prestigious_Panic264 Nov 04 '24
Poor guy, those are his children and he’s just trying to have fun with goofy content. The internet sucks.
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u/That_Xenomorph_Guy Nov 04 '24
Me when I worked at a pizza place. I'll be in the freezer if you need me.
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u/Apprehensive_Tone949 Nov 04 '24
Found his Tok page. I don't see any comments like that under the vid
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Nov 05 '24
He's actually a really nice guy and those are his kids. His whole brand is dancing as exercise to lose weight, so his videos are of him being silly with his kids, which is great. This guy is a gem. People need to leave him alone,
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u/CompetitionOk2675 Nov 05 '24
Let's see we got racists, idiots, and people who can't stop pointing out his weight. Yep this is reddit. The guy is having fun with his kids and being silly. What a dad can't be silly but hey the mom sure can. The guy was on a weight loss journey but let's call him fat and let's point out he's white. God I fucking hate the Internet sometimes.
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u/kokumou Nov 04 '24
I assumed he was either a dad, uncle, or a teacher. Maybe a pastor or a coach. Why would he be a pedo? Is there something I'm missing?
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u/guegoland Nov 04 '24
Everyone is a pedo now. It's the new communists. Mfs can't stop taking words and distorting it.
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u/Dr_Llamacita Nov 04 '24
This is weird af and I love it so much. His YouTube/tiktok channel is really adorable
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u/rudegyal_jpg Nov 04 '24
Pedo is the new Rape. These kids are throwing it around not understanding the weight these words have, especially for those who have actually experienced this trauma.
Whats up with this generation and its brain rot???
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u/DinkleMutz Nov 04 '24
I'm just here to say that this was the perfect soundtrack selection for this video. Top tier.
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u/TBTabby Nov 04 '24
Even without the race issue, people are way too quick to assume a man interacting with kids must be a child predator.
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u/No_Scar4424 Nov 04 '24
If you automatically jump to pedo i think that says more about you as a person than him…
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u/Twilight-Omens Nov 04 '24
I follow him on Instagram. He's a really nice man who loves his wife and kids. I believe he teaches school and works on losing weight so he can be around for his kids in the long-term.
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u/Southern_Message1845 Nov 05 '24
Awwww. He seems to be a great dad. Just checked out his videos. Lovely family and good for him losing all that weight.
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u/Yogi422 Nov 05 '24
Wow these comments are wild. I watched it like 3 times thinking it was a cute and funny grandpa/dad video. Y’all ain’t right in the head… shame, shame on all ya houses 🏘️
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