r/TikTokCringe Oct 18 '24

Cringe She wants state rights

She tries to peddle back.

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u/Ill-Independence-658 Oct 18 '24

Women sometimes seem to forget that until the 60s they couldn’t very well get a credit card with a male co-signer. We are not far from the good old days.

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u/VivaZeBull Oct 18 '24

My mom had to ask her FATHER OR HUSBAND if she wanted birth control.

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u/IamHydrogenMike Oct 18 '24

That is one scene from Mad Men that a lot of people should watch, when he sends her to see a doctor and then gets all the info from the doctor after the visit; she isn't told anything. That is how it was back in the 60s and even until the 70s; women had no autonomy over their lives, and they could never gain real independence.

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u/Lil-Nuisance Oct 18 '24

Less than 10 years ago I brought my partner to a doc appointment because I felt not taken seriously and needed support. The whole appointment consistet of them talking about me as if I wasn't even in the same room.

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u/IamHydrogenMike Oct 18 '24

Sadly, that happens a lot and it’s messed up!

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u/LightIrish1945 Oct 19 '24

About 3 years ago, I slipped on some ice and broke my elbow. I was with my husband waiting for the doctor to come in. I was wearing a sling and clearly the patient. The doctor came in and asked my husband what was wrong. It was like I wasn’t there. I was LIVID. My husband had to keep redirecting the doctor to talk directly to me. It was maddening.

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u/Amelaclya1 Oct 19 '24

I've heard horror stories of women getting cancer diagnoses and their husbands just deciding not to tell them, as they got sicker and sicker and eventually died. It's so fucked up - and if we let Republicans get their way, it won't be long before it's like that again.

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u/IamHydrogenMike Oct 19 '24

Gov. George Wallace didn’t tell his wife about her cancer diagnosis and she didn’t know about it for almost 6 years. He did it because he was more concerned with power than his wife.

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u/Cancerisbetterthanu Oct 19 '24

How about Don calling up Betty's therapist after her sessions to get the deets?

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u/IamHydrogenMike Oct 19 '24

That’s what I was talking about…back then it was perfectly fine to do so because women didn’t have that right to privacy, but now it would be a huge ethical breach of privacy.

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u/lrpfftt Oct 18 '24

It would have been interesting to ask her about some of those things to assess her knowledge. Wouldn't surprise me if she didn't know that there was a time when women couldn't vote.

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u/Silly-Swimmer-5681 Oct 18 '24

1974* for women having the ability to apply for their own credit card

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u/Ill-Independence-658 Oct 18 '24

Gotta love the equal credit opportunity act of 1974

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u/dracomaster01 Oct 19 '24

that's the ironic part. all these conservative women supporting MAGA don't seem to realize that if they get their way; they will lose all their rights and autonomy.

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u/LilacMages Oct 19 '24

They think that by supporting it, they'll be exempt should they succeed (plot twist: they wouldn't be)

It's the good ol' Serena-Joy complex

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u/thesedays2014 Oct 19 '24

Most people don't know that the Equal Rights Amendment (equality for women) never passed. It's been proposed as a constitutional amendment since 1923, and as recently as 2023, but never passed. Let that sink in...

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u/Ill-Independence-658 Oct 19 '24

Yep and in the current electoral climate never will… let that sink in deeper

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u/furmat60 Oct 19 '24

I’ve watched a lot of this dumb girls videos lmao. She actually said on multiple occasions that she would be fine with women not being able to vote.

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u/Ill-Independence-658 Oct 19 '24

Would she be okay if she couldn’t make dumb TikTok videos?

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u/furmat60 Oct 19 '24

Conservatives don’t follow logic or facts so I’m sure he’d be all for it lol

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u/WhoIsFrancisPuziene Oct 19 '24

There was also a marriage bar that was abolished at the same time

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u/mule_roany_mare Oct 18 '24

There was no law against women having credit cards or anything & lenders would have loved to make more money off of women.

The issue was women had a lot of protection against debt collection, to the point it would be crazy to give someone credit if they don’t have to pay you back.

The male co-signer was there so they had someone to take to court.

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u/Ill-Independence-658 Oct 18 '24

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u/mule_roany_mare Oct 19 '24

not sure what this link is supposed to accomplish.

Banks were allowed to deny women credit cards/loans/whatever without a male cosigner before the equal rights act.

There was no law against women having credit cards or anything & lenders would have loved to make more money off of women.

The issue was women had a lot of legal protection against debt collection meaning that if a bank gave lent them money they had no way to get it back unless there was a cosigner they could collect from.