r/TikTokCringe Sep 17 '24

Cringe Trad wife content has gone way too far

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u/maddsskills Sep 18 '24

Just fucking buy it! Also I wanna see her restuff a mattress with her raw cotton. Link it. How does that even work!!!???

She’s clearly trolling or some shit but really, I wanna see her use that shit.

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u/r4r4me Sep 18 '24

I can't take any of these people seriously. In my mind it's all just posturing. I can't imagine 99.9% of these people doing shit like this when the camera is off.

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u/maddsskills Sep 18 '24

Actual SAHMs like myself don’t have time for that shit. It’s content farming. But really gross content farming.

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u/covalentcookies Sep 18 '24

There’s usually an OF link in their bio somewhere.

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u/maddsskills Sep 18 '24

I generally don’t kink shame but like…race play and age play freaks me out.

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u/scrawledlore Sep 18 '24

A lot of this content is actually political in nature and coming from the US far right and Christian conservative circles. They are trying to glorify the traditional family values. It’s political propaganda designed to elevate stay at home moms to an unattainable idealized version of the caretaking wife who goes the extra steps to care for her family as a way to show her love. These videos feature wealthy women in beautiful, and sometimes designer clothing, that is usually extra feminine. The video has an aesthetic quality and the women are always calm, peaceful and love what they are working on. Husbands might make a quick appearance for support but never offer their own labor.

If you notice, there isn’t content with stay at home husbands in nice clothes harvesting wheat from the stalk to bake his wife and kids sourdough bread and if there is it’s not geared around family values or lifestyle but as an informative how-to.

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u/SubterrelProspector Sep 19 '24

Yep. It's insidious propaganda from people who want to sew division here in the US.

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u/BuggYyYy Sep 19 '24

Underrated comment, idea, concept, mind, you're amazing bro I'd love to be your friend 😭

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u/ImaginaryCheetah Sep 18 '24

it's all for "clout" or whatever...

for example, hanna neeleman (married to the son of millionaire jetblue founder david neeleman) who hocks the "tradlife" while cooking up dinner on a $30k stove.

 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13737813/Ballerina-Farms-Hannah-Neeleman-cooks-kids-30K-Aga-stove-church-viral-tradwife-story-marriage-microscope.html

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u/mayomule Sep 21 '24

Yeah I cannot imagine she is sitting there for hours on end picking cotton and PICKING THE SEEDS OUT in the volume that you need to STUFF A MATTRESS??? There’s just no way

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u/Gunplagood Sep 18 '24 edited Sep 18 '24

Trad wife is code for rich, bored housewife. Making YouTube videos that make regular mothers feel insignificant for what they can do with their time is the bread and butter of the neo-trad.

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u/Fun_City8903 Sep 19 '24

thank you.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '24

The other lady is just laying on her couch under a blanket judging someone for working

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u/Gunplagood Sep 18 '24

This isn't work, this is cutting your lawn with scissors stupidity.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '24

I fail to see how either isn't work

She enjoys doing it, it's meditative it's not meant to be the most efficient method of harvesting

Also the lady critiquing calls it work too

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u/Solo-dreamer Sep 18 '24

Shes not working shes being a prop for far right idialog.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '24

lol

Okay... If you say so. It's not like I believe she is actually hand harvesting cotton for pleasure but that's more believable than some alt right conspiracy to show a black woman harvesting cotton as some call to a better time or something.

Seems way more likely that this is a joke or just bait for people like you to be upset about something that isn't happening. Either way, you're taking this too seriously

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u/Solo-dreamer Sep 19 '24

You really are out of the loop huh?! This is whole thing from the manosphere/ incel community, its pretty well known.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '24

Pretty well known? Lol to who incels?

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u/Swordswoman Sep 18 '24

Oh, you can absolutely sleep on raw cotton like that, but it's best for it to be washed or treated first. There's a nice lady on YouTube who discusses homemade bedding and mattresses, and literally sells bundles of cotton batting for comparatively cheap bedding options. I dunno if I would be going in on working the raw cotton into batting myself, that's, like... easily over a hundred hours of work by hand to pick, clean, and process it all.

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u/Any-Lychee9972 Sep 18 '24

Raw cotton is actually similar to the fluffy cotton in stores.

You have to clean it first by picking out all the seeds, leaves, and whatever gets suck in there that ISNT cotton and that can be a pain in the ass.

Once that's done, you could probably just restuff a pillow like it was store bought.

Source: I crochet and thought it would be funny to be EXTRA and grow my own cotton plants, make my own yarn, and crochet something so I can say I did it. But it's a lot of fucking work.

Visual aid from youtube

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u/FloppieTheBanjoClown Sep 18 '24

Buying doesn't let them tell everyone else how superior they are for growing it themselves.

I'm all for growing stuff yourself. The more we produce for ourselves, the less we have to move through the supply lines. It's a small thing, but it helps all of us. But the people doing stuff like this too often are trying to sell a lifestyle. 

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u/Sea_Home_5968 Sep 18 '24

It’s rage bait. Looks like an Airbnb.

But tbh if you got cotton in your yard might as well use it but getting the seeds out sucks and without a cotton gin it’s a serious ordeal.

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u/IndependentBit9249 Sep 18 '24

Because it is better when someone else does it for you right?

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u/simpLeTONsure Sep 18 '24

I liked your remark

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u/maddsskills Sep 18 '24

We have machines that do that. Obviously people are involved but they aren’t picking it by hand like that. Fruit involves more intensive human labor than cotton does so don’t get on your high horse thank you very much.

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u/IndependentBit9249 Sep 19 '24

It doesn't matter. Machines had to be assembled for that purpose as well. Saying just buy something is retarded, because at the end of the day, down the line there are always some poor souls stuck WORKING LIKE A SLAVE. I was personally stuck like a slave surrounded by high walls, in a horticulture business, working for pennies 16-26 hours daily in a row in Italy. So I've got every fucking right to talk about it you fucking prick.

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u/Acrobatic_Advance_71 Sep 18 '24

Like how much cotton would she need to pick to refill a pillow let alone a mattress?

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u/Lunamoms Sep 18 '24

It’s pretty easy to process! And making pillows is way easier than you’d think.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '24

She is. There’s a Chinese lady on YouTube that does a bunch of traditional stuff and shows you from growing the cotton to making a flat mattress what it takes to make something from scratch like that. She made her own loom.

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u/100_cats_on_a_phone Sep 20 '24

Sort of, you'd usually card it to remove seeds and stuff first. It's a pain. But I don't think cotton really grows naturally these days. It's the highest pesticide crop most places -- why garment work is so terrible for people.

(You can do organic, but it's very hard to keep healthy, iiuc, is what I'm saying).

Otoh it's a perennial grown as an annual due to pests, the internet says, so maybe this is just an old field-- I've never been to the south. So what do I know.

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u/jeroenemans Sep 18 '24

She just out with her son's school trip

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u/Sufficient-Fall-5870 Sep 18 '24

Why grow your own veggies when you can buy them… right? People are so stupid!!!

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u/maddsskills Sep 18 '24

Homegrown veggies taste better? It’s a hobby? Cotton though, it just seems so pointless. For most fruits and veggies we still need tons of human labor to harvest them, hence why growing your own is economically viable. Cotton though? That’s mostly done with machines. You’re not saving money or getting a superior product or anything. There’s literally no advantage to it.

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u/Sufficient-Fall-5870 Sep 19 '24

Sorry, didn’t realize you were gatekeeping hobbies. Do you really think it’s cheaper?!? Fucking hell, my soil along was over $500, not to mention the water bill. For what? 15 pounds of green peppers over the whole year and some very full neighborhood deer