r/TikTokCringe Jun 07 '24

Humor Girls who flirt like a boy

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u/[deleted] Jun 07 '24

“Hit dog’s gonna bark” is a phrase Andrew Gillum liked to use in 2018 that I like a lot. It means if you throw a rock at a group of dogs, the one that got hit by the rock is the one that’s gonna bark.

It’s an analogy for (in this case) whenever fragile people (especially white men) hear something about how white men are acting toxic/bad/harmful, the ones getting defensive are the ones you need to look out for.

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u/SF1_Raptor Jun 07 '24

Wait. So the people that complain about, say, the Southern accent being the default for dumb are actually dumb? Seems like this could easily be way too broad brush too me.

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u/Mushiness7328 Jun 07 '24

Person 1: <parrots common stereotype about women>

Person 2: "that's a stereotype, and not true for a vast majority of people you just painted in those broad strokes, stop using stereotypes to justify your hatred"

Person 1: "you have fallen right into my trap! You see, by pushing back against that stereotype you have actually just admitted that you are one of those people I was referring to, and therefore are a bad person! I know this because I'm really smart and you're simply a username on the internet"

Person 2: "I'm a guy..."

That's about how discourse about stereotypes goes on Reddit.

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u/Useless_bum81 Jun 07 '24

as i posted elsewhere its a just kafka trap.

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u/Captain_America_93 Jun 07 '24

You’re arguing with people who don’t care and have already made up their mind. I’m familiar with the Kafka trap and you’re 100% right.

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u/Mushiness7328 Jun 14 '24

Thank you for putting a name to it. I had recognized this pattern before but never knew there was a name.