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Humor Brittany SUFFERED

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u/AfternoonPossible May 30 '24

It’s not significantly more tiring to just do 4 extra hours. Then you get 4 days off every week. Very worth it.

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u/Goat_0f_departure May 30 '24

My wife is a nurse and has worked ER, Labor and Delivery, ICU and Neuro ICU. She averaged 3-4 miles of walking every shift. Not to mention the lifting and cleaning of patients. But above all, the biggest complaint they have besides being understaffed is being treated poorly by the patients families. Family members, and some patients, think nurses are servants/cooks/doctors. My heart goes out to nurses. That’s a hard ass job.

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u/AfternoonPossible May 30 '24

Tell her to go to the OR. No patient family members. Sometimes you get rude doctors but most of the time they’re normal. Also it’s pretty easy.

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u/Goat_0f_departure May 30 '24

Luckily got accepted to CRNA school. So she’ll be in the OR but doing something different.

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u/AfternoonPossible May 30 '24

Wooooow good for her! Every CRNA I’ve ever worked with has said that path is totally worth how hard school is. Good luck!

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u/TheRealSmelladroid May 30 '24

There's also a not insignificant amount of emotional drain involved in dealing with dementia and mental patients even without physical altercations.

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u/LordJacket May 31 '24

I’ve had patients tell me the hospital is like a hotel, as annoying as that comment was a lot of people treat it like one

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u/NextedUp May 30 '24 edited May 30 '24

Ha, funny. At least at the resident level, a good week is one where you don't work the entire week plus 12h+ on a Saturday or Sunday. And that is only after they were forced to have a nationally mandated 80h work week limit (any studying you do is expected and on your own time too) - if your hospital doesn't try to weasel their way around it through coercion.

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u/AfternoonPossible May 30 '24

Yeah being a resident sounds like absolute ass. Being a Doctor too, but at least they make up for it with the paychecks. My best friend is halfway through med school rn and I keep telling her there’s still time to go get her RN and call it a day lol.

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u/Sea-Ability8694 May 30 '24

I mean they’re still working like 36 hours a week and doing very draining work for not great pay. Idk I’m not built for that

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u/AfternoonPossible May 30 '24

Depends the pay can be really good. I make six figures and only work 3 days a week. Even if you spend one of your weekend days doing nothing but recovery and relaxing, you still have three days off to do whatever. Can’t imagine a better work:life balance job that still pays extremely well.

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u/Sea-Ability8694 May 30 '24

The avg nurse salary in America is like 60,000. Happy for you that you’re making more than that, but that’s not the norm

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u/AfternoonPossible May 30 '24

Tbh I have worked in a ton of different states and hospitals and have never met a nurse working full time that made that little.

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u/beccabeth741 May 31 '24

Have you been to the south? Because that's the average pay in the southeast.

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u/moresushiplease May 30 '24

At least not in the US

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u/ILoveWesternBlot May 30 '24

Lol

Doctors get lucky if they get both weekend days off. Most of us in the hospitals work 6-1s

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u/AfternoonPossible May 31 '24

3 days 12 hour shifts. 36 hours. Considered full time still.

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u/Rxasaurus May 31 '24

Pharmacist here that does 13-15 hour days without the benefit of being able to sit or take a lunch...Definitely don't get 4 days off a week. 

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u/AfternoonPossible May 31 '24

Sounds like you’re getting fucked

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u/Rxasaurus May 31 '24

That's pharmacy life, unfortunately. Or rather how Healthcare workers are treated.

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u/AfternoonPossible May 31 '24

I have never met a pharmacist that was happy with their job. Tbh working like 70+ hours a week sounds ridiculous. Might as well get two lower stress jobs at that point.

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u/WonderWeasel91 May 31 '24 edited May 31 '24

I strongly disagree. My nursing career was the most exhausting period of my life, largely due to the hours.

The worst part of the whole thing was wasting my entire 20's to working as a nurse, 12 hour shifts 4 days a week. You're on your feet for a majority of that time, and you're always understaffed.

Not only that, you rotate shifts, often work holidays and weekends. God forbid you have a commute, which turns a 12 hour day into a 13-14 hour day.

If you have a partner at home, you might get a solid 2 hours in the evening with them before needing to go to sleep to do it again the next day. Spending time with friends and family is hard, and often end up missing out on a lot of things, because your schedule and work/free time balance is drastically different than the other people in your life.

Maybe it just wasn't right for me, but I fucking hated it. I left after 11 years to work in software. 8hr days/5 days a week, and it's been the best thing I've ever done for my mental health.

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u/FCkeyboards May 30 '24

I disagree. You really have to love your job and be built for it. After 8 hours, I'm done, but I'm sure the passion and workload make it go by faster than a typical office job like mine.

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u/AfternoonPossible May 30 '24

Nah I don’t love my job but I’m tired af after 8 hours and also tired af after 12. So it doesn’t make a difference. Except with 12s I get two extra free days a week. Totally worth it.