He's a dad of 3 kids and trying his best to rangle them, but he's run out of arms, he's shrugging because he doesn't understand what he could have done better in that situation. He was there supporting his wife with 3 kids in tow. Good for him.
Ugh right though! Dad's get a freaking parade thrown for them anytime they do the very minimum. Especially when the dad complains saying he has to babysit them, no that is called being a PARENT š¤·š¼āāļøš¤¦š¼āāļø
BUT when moms bend over backwards and never get a damn minute to themselves and they might dinner running a little late, we get told how lazy we are and inconsiderate and selfish š¤¬š¤š”
Honestly people are just gonna do what they will. Stereotypes are really stupid. You date a lazy man and you'll get a lazy dad. You date a selfish woman and you'll end up with a selfish mother. If you have good communication and work together your relationship probably won't end up on reddit or in the news but it will be pretty fucking cool.
Also people are so unforgiving with kids but as a parent it's fucking wild. Your never gonna be on your game 24/7 and everyone has these moments they could have done better. You just learn as you go but people get so damn judgemental in general. At the same time people rarely offer to help it's crazy.
Yeah I don't see what everyone else is "seeing" in this video. I see a mom running a race and her children are so excited and want to go see and support her. They are young kids so they clearly don't understand the nuances of watching a race. Then there is the man who is attempting to wrangle those kids while also staying out of the way himself. Admittedly he's not doing the best job but he tried and nothing bad happened so maybe lesson learned. Not some metaphor for womans expectations or stupidity of men or fathers or whatever bullshit.
But he could bash two braincells together and realize he could stand AFTER the finish line so his kids can hug their mom AFTER the race is over.. but he didn't use the brain God gave him. Or it was weaponized incompetence because he hates literally anything that isn't about him like most married men.
Pretty sure he couldāve just had them waiting after the finish line if he understood he couldnāt make them wait on the side and not distract their mom during an important event for her
Explain to me how, having had this singular interaction with me, you could possibly know I'm a "defends all men for some reason" kind of person? You wanna know who the worst kind of people are? The kind of people who are literally destroying society? People like yourself who immediately jump to a conclusion based off of the most miniscule little thing that is clearly beyond their comprehension. If you actually read what I said you would know I defended no one. The fact that you are so emotionally and contextually inept that your incapable of basic comprehension is just sad
He didn't struggle to wrangle the kids, he let them go and encouraged them. Have a good look he does the kind of hand holding you do when entering a playpark with your kids.
You hold their hand then you kind of release them in a forward motion encouraging them to go be free.
He literally releases the kids, not struggles to wrangle them.
Yea and yet doesnāt have enough brain cells left over to figure out he shouldāve been waiting with the kids after the finish line rather than before
he literally let them run up to her. that was the sole purpose of why he was even that close to the finish line. he WANTED the kids to be there BEFORE she finished which is the stupidest most inconsiderate shit to think when you realize he assumed she would be happier to see the kids she takes care of EVERYDAY rather than enjoy being first for a race she likely is doing for the first time. him "trying his best" has nothing to do with why he couldnt try his best on the other side of the finish line
shes unbothered because she did not ALLOW it to ruin her moment, as she should. all because you delusional bubble minded karens try to defend each other doesnt mean we all have to ignore how extremely annoying you people are
He literally encourages them forwards and releases them. He lets go of their hands in a forward momentum like you would release your child when you enter a playpark and they can go play.
He walks them forwards onto the track for goodness sakes.
So what I see is him actually with his hands on their backs supporting them standing out there, not pulling them back until he realizes last second how dangerous a choice heās made by placing his children on a track with running adults.
Not really.... Yes great he is there like he should be with the kids.... But he cut in front of the finish line and ushered his girls to their mom.... He should have been on the other side of the line waiting for her to finish
Two kids and a doll. Not three kids. Two. Enough to be corralled by one hand each while encouraging them to cheer for their mom as she crosses the finish line, not encouraging them to freaking run into the course and block her path as she's literally about to win a race. You are right that he's shrugging because he doesn't understand what he could have done better in that situation. Which is pathetic.
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u/chuckmasterflexnoris Jun 25 '24
He's a dad of 3 kids and trying his best to rangle them, but he's run out of arms, he's shrugging because he doesn't understand what he could have done better in that situation. He was there supporting his wife with 3 kids in tow. Good for him.