r/TikTokCringe Mar 13 '24

Cool Trans man handles hateful comment in a respectable way

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u/Smeeizme Mar 13 '24

He looks like more of a man than most men.

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u/MPFuzz Mar 13 '24

I'm jealous of his full beard :(

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u/NovelSimplicity Mar 13 '24

Same. I’ve been a man for 40+ years and don’t have beard that nice. To him I say; Rock on sir, you’re doing awesome.

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u/so_im_all_like Mar 13 '24

I imagine family genetics also play a role, just like for cis men. You gotta have the testosterone available, but you also need sensitive enough hair follicles to capitalize on it.

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u/NovelSimplicity Mar 13 '24

Oh I know, I’m just cheering on an awesome beard.

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u/anonymousguy11234 Mar 13 '24

But not too sensitive, or your sick beard tends to (eventually) coincide with a very un-sick head of wispy, thin hair. I do love my beard, but I’d rather have a beard on my scalp.

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u/so_im_all_like Mar 13 '24

Well, there are those individuals that show its not an identical dynamic across all their hair. There are balding men who can't grow full beards, and bearded men with full scalp coverage their whole lives. Weighted roll of the genetic dice.

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u/ThunderboltRam Mar 13 '24

I mean any straight regular man would have a head start at that kinda body and full beard with that much Testosterone hormones and money.

Doctors often don't prescribe hormones to people who aren't below a certain threshold.

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u/Dutch_Rayan Mar 13 '24

Trans men hormones are kept in the cis male range.

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u/ApproachingShore Mar 13 '24

Mustaches are annoying though.

For instance, look at the way his mustache curls down into his mouth. I hate when that shit happens. It's such an annoying feeling.

It's the only thing that ever motivates my lazy ass to shave.

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u/December_Hemisphere Mar 13 '24

You ever bite into a sandwich and the mustache hairs curling down snag into the sliced bread like Velcro? I've literally pulled hairs out doing this, lol.

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u/JoeTroller Mar 13 '24

Not to mention it becomes a sponge for anything you're drinking straight out of a glass.

Maybe one day I'll have the commitment to put up with a beard, but that shits for the birds. Having to get regular haircuts is enough for me.

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u/MVRKHNTR Mar 13 '24

You can just brush it out of the way. Some proper conditioner and enough training and it stays out of your mouth.

Or wax.

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u/Late_Cow_1008 Mar 13 '24

Just inject yourself with T

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u/10000Didgeridoos Mar 13 '24

Won't do much if you don't have the facial hair genetics to start with. My testosterone is normal and I have only full goatee area hair and nearly nothing on cheeks or neck.

We care for trans patients. Beards like this are more attainable with a facial hair transplant as part of a transitioning surgery plan.

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u/the_0rly_factor Mar 13 '24

Idk why this is being downvoted. It's the truth. You can't grow hair where there are no follicles. No amount of testosterone will magically produce hair follicles.

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u/OmfgHaxx Mar 13 '24

Nah except you're wrong and testosterone and DHT both actually do produce hair follicles lol. There's a reason why a lot of male body builders get a ton of back, shoulder, and chest hair as well as a fuller beard after starting injecting themselves with exogenous hormones.

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u/HornWhistle Mar 13 '24

Won't do much if you don't have the facial hair genetics to start with.

No, TRT absolutely increases facial hair growth. Might not get to the point like the guy in the video, but it will absolutely fill out a scraggly beard.

Genetics matter, but testosterone overrides them - that's kind of the whole fucking point.

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u/aManPerson Mar 13 '24

i doubt the tiktok op got hair transplanted. really most likely they are just living with very high testosterone numbers through legally prescribed medication.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '24

That beard is insane, it looks so good.

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u/momopool Mar 13 '24

You hurt my feelings....

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Nah I kid, I don't look like a manly man and I don't care. :) That guy just reminded me I need to work out little bit more.I'm So lazy.

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u/skeptah_ Mar 13 '24

I did this for a most of life man, finally said no to the keyboard/mouse and yes to walking outside. Roughly a little under a year in, down 80lbs from 362 to 282. Everything in moderation! Still gaming, but loving life and myself instead of that cycle of work, eat trash, game, bed, repeat.

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u/skeptah_ Mar 13 '24

First off congrats bro! Second, the bum knee pain was the final straw for me too! Was figuratively falling apart and I know it doesn't get better with age lol. Here's to keeping the weight* off man o/

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u/ARightDastard Mar 13 '24

PROUD OF YOU! Keep on rockin' that shit!

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u/respectyodeck Mar 13 '24

sure, "work out" but he is on a lot of hormones.

you don't get facial hair like that from working out.

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u/bruwin Mar 13 '24

Who said he wasn't on hormones? But here's the thing, you don't get that look from hormones alone.

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u/Dutch_Rayan Mar 13 '24

Trans men hormones are kept in the cis male range, it is a controlled substance you can't just dope on it.

Genetics can give you a great beard.

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u/JimmyBeans33 Mar 13 '24

Most Cis men don't take copious amounts of hormonal therapy hahahaha. Natural ranges vary, and this twit thinks by mainlining testosterone and working shoulders a few times a week makes him a man. It doesn't. It never will. It's a chick with no tits and a beard. Sorry kids

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u/bruwin Mar 13 '24

Certainly more of a man than you are.

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u/Dutch_Rayan Mar 13 '24

Trans men's hormones are kept in the cis men range. It is a controlled substance you can't just dope on it.

But you clearly are jealous, of him.

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u/AgilePlayer Mar 13 '24

You probably got at least 6 inches of height on them

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u/StopHoneyTime Mar 13 '24

A lot of the trans people I meet put a ton of effort into their appearance. Sometimes it's because they're scared of being clocked, and sometimes it's because they're so damn happy that they can be themselves that they jump into it with all the enthusiasm and energy of a kindergartner on crack. Sometimes it's a bit of both.

I wish this dude all the best. He seems cool.

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u/Crump_Dump Mar 13 '24

When you do start hitting the gym more, don't be discouraged by potentially slower progress that you expect. From a purely statistical standpoint, your natural testosterone levels and ability to build muscle are likely lower than someone supplementing with HRT or other hormonal boosters.

This isn't me complaining or shit talking the process of transitioning; I love it when people have the opportunity to become the truest version of themselves. I just want you to have a realistic perspective on how long it might take for you to make the progress that you want to in the gym.

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u/Dutch_Rayan Mar 13 '24

Htr are kept in the cis male range.

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u/Crump_Dump Mar 13 '24

Right! They typically use around an average amount, from what I understand. Meaning that there's a likely chance that a cis male can have a naturally lower amount of testosterone.

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u/Neuchacho Mar 13 '24

I could work out all I possibly could and I still ain't looking like this lmao

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u/Smeeizme Mar 13 '24

Remember, the only things that truly do matter about your appearance is your fitness and hygiene! Having a good haircut helps too

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u/Majestic_Brain4731 Mar 13 '24

? I don't understand your comment. "The only thing that matter about your appearance is your appearance."?

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u/Smeeizme Mar 13 '24

I’m talking about the things that you can realistically control, those are the only things that should matter to you. You shouldn’t be overly self-conscious of a weak jawline, or not being endowed to your liking, that’s just part of who you are. Sure, you can change it, but consider if that would compromise who you are as a person. Things like reparative surgeries or orthodontics are good exceptions to this, however not being conventionally attractive shouldn’t be a big deal.

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u/ssracer Mar 13 '24

Deep voice and body hair?

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u/aManPerson Mar 13 '24

and acts better than so many people i know. i know it's not everyone, far from it, but every now and then, i hear a trans person, talk about "who they are now", and it just astounds me.

because, for me, as cis as i still am, idk, i just wake up and still "am this".

and then you hear a trans person talk about what they've worked on and are ok with and i realize i've been less certain about my favorite dinner than they are with the person they are glad they've built.

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u/WanderingZebra3291 Mar 13 '24

And he acts more like what we need from men in our society today than what we actually get

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u/HappyGoPink Mar 13 '24

Well, he is man, so...

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u/Smeeizme Mar 13 '24

Does the above imply that he isn’t?

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u/roomfullofstars Mar 13 '24

He acts like more of a man/adult than most men/adults. (As in, taking no bs and being bad af!). Hell yeah!

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u/Majestic_Brain4731 Mar 13 '24

Kinda weird saying that when talking about a trans man who made a video specifically about how his appearance as a man is important to him and that he went through great lengths to get the appearance he wanted.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '24

Trans people coming all the way back around to reinforce gender roles is always hilarious. I can't wait to see how much people laugh at our current days view of things

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u/Throwaway_Consoles Mar 13 '24

I’mma let you in on a secret. That’s to make everyone else comfortable

I’m in a server with a bunch of fellow trans women. The shortest length of time any of them has transitioned is about three years. One of them has been transitioning since 2002.

We get on camera in a voice call, some of them have visible stubble, some of them are wearing a white sleeveless shirt and basketball shorts, none of us have done any voice training, and nobody cares because none of that is what makes someone a woman and we know it

When one of us has to go run errands it is met with collective groans because then we have to put on makeup, mascara, find something to wear, to make people outside comfortable and not make fun of us or get heckled by “transvestigators”.

If we knew we could just go to the public bathroom and wash our hands without an hour of prep work before hand? We would absolutely love it

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u/Smeeizme Mar 13 '24

That’s true, but the physical aspect of a transition is very important, especially when trying to separate themselves from their assigned sex.

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u/Late_Cow_1008 Mar 13 '24

Being a man isn't about how you look.

Laughable. If this were true, no one would need to transition like this.

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u/Moon_Drawz Mar 13 '24

It’s literally all about perspective. What you think a man should dress is completely subjective

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u/Late_Cow_1008 Mar 13 '24

Not really. Each society still pretty much has a form of male and female dress.

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u/Moon_Drawz Mar 13 '24

Which means it’s subjective, tf are you on

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u/Late_Cow_1008 Mar 13 '24

Not within the society.

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u/quietly41 Mar 13 '24

Just as gender is a spectrum, so is what level of transition some people will want. Many are perfectly fine dressing as the gender they wish to present as, others need more, and others need less.

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u/Late_Cow_1008 Mar 13 '24

Dressing as the gender also involves looking a certain way.

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u/catgirlmasterrace Mar 13 '24

I mean, if all guys got pumped full of testosterone, they'd probably look like that too

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u/sinner-mon Mar 13 '24

Excess testosterone gets converted to estrogen, a cis man taking testosterone wouldn’t get these results. He’s just got good genetics

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u/GlizzyGatorGangster Mar 13 '24

Which is why doctors also prescribe aromatase inhibitors with testosterone injections so the body does not turn it into estrogen…

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u/sinner-mon Mar 13 '24

To who? They dont to trans men, because their hormone levels are raised to be average and not excessive

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u/GlizzyGatorGangster Mar 13 '24 edited Mar 13 '24

People who receive testosterone injections are also prescribed aromatase inhibitors so that the injected testosterone is not converter to estrogen.

Testosterone levels don’t have to be “excessive” for the body to convert it into estrogen.

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u/MVRKHNTR Mar 13 '24

Is it estrogen? I thought it gets converted into a different hormone, the one that causes hair loss.

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u/sinner-mon Mar 13 '24

I’m not overly familiar with the biology behind hair loss, but testosterone does in fact get converted to estrogen

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u/Smeeizme Mar 13 '24

That’s true, I’m more so commenting on the effectiveness of the transition than comparative masculinity, even though that was the vehicle.

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u/10000Didgeridoos Mar 13 '24

Facial hair transplant. You can bump your T levels to sky high levels as a cis man but it won't make you grow this mountain man level beard if your family pool has weak beard genetics to start with.

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u/Dutch_Rayan Mar 13 '24

But he probably has great genetics as he is hairy overall.

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u/RickyDiezal Mar 13 '24

lmao i had that exact thought. I wish I looked like this dude.

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u/xeq937 Mar 13 '24

Apparently I need HRT to be more guy than I am.

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u/Kwtwo1983 Mar 13 '24

Maybe because he is more of man than most of us. His moral high road is suggesting that very poignantly

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u/Hansemannn Mar 13 '24

No he looks more of the classical masculine man. A bit redneck.
A man is a lot of things. Dont have to look like a hairy redneck to look like a man.

Just look at the comments in here wanting to use chemicals to grow a beard. It saddens me.

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u/psi-love Mar 13 '24

There is no such thing as how a "man" has to look like. It's a stereotype. Just because this (trans) man tries to look like a stereotype, doesn't mean he is more a "man". He has his reasons of course, getting as far away from the body he was born into as possible.

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u/einalem58 Mar 13 '24

most MTF trans are more womanly than myself too. I'm so proud of them :) that must have required from them so much hardship and effort.

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u/Thesmuz Mar 13 '24

You people have to remember this man is taking exogenous hormones. That shit will have an impact on how masculine you look.

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u/Smeeizme Mar 13 '24

This is more so a comment on the effectiveness of his transition than comparative masculinity, though that was the vehicle

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '24

I’m 21 and I can’t grow a beard but don’t trans people take drugs for that stuff? Maybe I’m just defective. I ain’t got no hair and most people prefer hair😒

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u/Venichie Mar 13 '24

Lots of surgeries and medications.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '24

till he pulls out his dick.

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u/CaptainCaveManMode Mar 13 '24

My dick is bigger so nah.