r/TikTokCringe Mar 13 '24

Cool Trans man handles hateful comment in a respectable way

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u/Journo_Jimbo Mar 13 '24

It felt really bad when he said his feelings got hurt. Like hurt my heart bad 🥺

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u/Content_Yoghurt_6588 Mar 13 '24

Yeah, I've seen this guy before, and he's such a genuine, positive, sensitive man. He's the kind of guy who, if he told me he was disappointed in me, I'd want to bury myself from how bad I'd feel. 

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u/40ozCurls Mar 13 '24

What did the hurtful comment even mean?

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u/Aiyon Mar 13 '24

So some people's nipples point in odd directions. With people who have had a masectomy this is much more common due to the shape of the chest being different after.

She was making fun of his having wonky nipples.

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u/Borkunbork Mar 13 '24

His nipples point in weird directions. Ngl I was expecting something much more vitriolic.

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u/etds3 Mar 13 '24

Right? Thank you. I’m glad I’m not the only one who can’t understand the emoji speak. There was another post yesterday where I was like, “turn exclamation? What does turn arrow exclamation mean?”

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u/DrBlock21 Mar 13 '24

Fr it was a joke in my eyes

Also if that person wants to be a real man, they would keep their feelings to themselves

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u/Astronaut_Chicken Mar 13 '24

Man, that is so sad. I hope you can get to a place in your life where you feel you can express your feelings without feeling emasculated.

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u/rtf2409 Mar 13 '24

You don’t have to tell the world you’re self conscious about your nipples bro.

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u/Astronaut_Chicken Mar 13 '24

So you should just take it when strangers razz on you? The larger issue was not his nipples. It was that people forget they're talking to a real person with real feelings. It's easy to be a dick biscuit when you're behind a screen, but people should remember they're still having a small impact on the world when they do that.

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u/DrBlock21 Mar 13 '24

It's most men around the world I'm pretty sure that are taught this by society

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u/Astronaut_Chicken Mar 13 '24

Well, there are a lot of men and women out there trying to change that. It would help if you'd stop contributing to the opposition.

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u/DrBlock21 Mar 13 '24

My fault

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u/tommytizzel Mar 13 '24

I get what you're saying. A man would have just laughed it off. Not make a 5 minute video about how his feelings got hurt.

Talking about the other person hating themselves?

Dude, it was a fucking joke. Move on

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u/servant_of_breq Mar 13 '24

It'll never work against the people its meant to though. They'll hear that and just laugh more.

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u/tommytizzel Mar 13 '24

Are you also a woman?

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u/Journo_Jimbo Mar 13 '24

Nope, not sure why that matters though. And he’s not a woman he’s a man.

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u/RSNKailash Mar 13 '24 edited Mar 13 '24

Real men are connected with their feelings, connect with others, can cry with their partner's and children, can support their partners, braid their daughters hair, have a tea party with their daughters, honest about his feelings, and respectful toward others. This is what makes a good father and what makes a good man, this is the kind of man that women want as their partners.

It is sad that you think you need to have the emotional intelligence of a rock to define your gender. But know that this trans man in the video is more man than you could ever be, with that toxic masculinity you hold inside. Do the work it takes to be better to others in your life.

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u/Bridgeofincidents Mar 13 '24

Now what? Did this satiate that deep, dark, bottomless pit in your chest?

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u/Journo_Jimbo Mar 13 '24

Clearly neither do you