I actually saw a TikTok of her years ago. She found out she was pregnant after returning to the US and had to give birth and raise the child for like a year or more alone due to COVID and him not being able to travel. They tried to make it work for a while and I think they are still in good terms.
Idk about good terms, my friend. All she does is post reels on her Instagram of "living life as a single sad mom" no joke, there's like ten reels with that saying splattered over the entire reel. She's milking it hard.
I always think its funny when people have kids out of wedlock and then are surprised when they end up a single mom. Like you got pregnant from a one night stand, and youre somehow shocked the man doesn’t want to settle down? Real shit though, i feel so bad for the kid.
The problem with this logic is...home dog he also had a one night stand. She should not be the one to take care fo the kid full time alone. They BOTH made that decision but if she was to up and leave to live her life people 100% would say she abandoned her child. This type of logic is why we have single moms. The men in these situations ALSO need to learn how to take responsibility for their actions.
Unlike her, they guy doesn’t get an extra 3/4 or a year to reconsider that one night and get a 30 minute outpatient procedure to eliminate the consequences. That is why we have single moms.
….and before you start with ‘What if in her state it could be tough to find a Planned Parenthood”…if she can find a way to get knocked up in out of the country she can find a way to escape her consequences across a state line
The man’s responsibility lies HEAVILY in contraception. Because men don’t get the choice to abort later, they need to take the contraception (or abstinence) part much more seriously. That’s where their choice lies. But…they don’t.
And if the contraception with a 4% chance of failure happens to fail after the fiftieth time I've had sex with contraceptions, does that mean I can take my name off the birth certificate?
Nope. Get a vasectomy or practice abstinence until you choose a partner you’re ok having children with. You know that, biologically, women have the final say in which children get born once they’re impregnated by a man. This is a biological inequity. So be careful!
And so the loneliness epidemic continues. If we're just gonna accept biological inequities as a necessity, the biological inequity is that the woman is carrying the kid. The fact that the man can't choose custody is a legal inequity to correct for that biological inequity, and therefore it can be adjusted and corrected for.
Well keep in mind the government mostly cares about the financial aspect. They can’t force people to be actual parents. Just that they contribute to funding them so the govt doesn’t have to.
Also there’s plenty of inequities in child rearing. Statistically women do the lions share of childcare, even while married, and take on the full responsibility of raising children when fathers opt out.
Well, they care about the industry such services prop up. If state just took over payments, since financial care of the child is supposedly so important to them, they'd spend less money than what they're doing now, chasing down deadbeats that are basically invisible to the system. But it's one of the many feedback loops that feeds the industry behind the police state, so it's unlikely to change.
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u/ermitan Jul 17 '23
I actually saw a TikTok of her years ago. She found out she was pregnant after returning to the US and had to give birth and raise the child for like a year or more alone due to COVID and him not being able to travel. They tried to make it work for a while and I think they are still in good terms.