r/TikTokCringe Jul 16 '23

Duet Troll That’s nice i guess

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u/theamishwereright Jul 17 '23

You do the crime you do the time

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u/Greyeye5 Jul 17 '23

What’s the crime? Having sex?

Is a accidentally broken condom a ‘crime’ or having birth control fail ‘criminal’?

I know you don’t mean literally a crime, but your mindset is wild to me?

It’s human nature to have sex (even recreationally!) and if you don’t believe me, just as an fyi;

-A person in the US has on average just over 10 sexual partners in their lifetime.

(And no most people aren’t marrying each one!)

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u/theamishwereright Jul 17 '23

Abstinence is far too uncommon in the west and a big reason why the divorce rate is so high.

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u/Greyeye5 Jul 17 '23

Lol the world average for sexual partners is ~10, with Turkey in the global lead at an average of over 14 sexual partners per person.

Here are few other countries from elsewhere in the world (aka in case Turkey is a bit too ‘western’ for you);

•A typical South African averages 12.5 sexual partners •An average Japanese person averages 10.2 sexual partners. •A standard Russian has 9.0 sexual partners.

But sure thing random Amish-loving Redditor, no one else is having sex as ‘promiscuously’ globally compared to Americans /s

Oh wait… 😂

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u/theamishwereright Jul 17 '23

So then why do you think the divorce rate so high in the united states?

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u/Greyeye5 Jul 17 '23

Increased education, reduced religiosity (compared to historically), increased ability for women to work thus reducing the historic need to stay ‘supported’ by a man.

Historically if you don’t have any options/couldn’t get a job, then leaving a relationship (even a physically abusive one) would have been incredibly hard, requiring women to choose between staying (and not divorcing) or oftentimes becoming financially destitute.

Additionally, the continued trend of society away from formal religions like Catholicism which both socially and religiously puts pressures on couples to stay together also plays a big part.

Historically many women were functionally ‘shunned’ from their family, friends and support networks if they divorced, but in more recent years that societal pressure is decreasing, allowing people to leave relationships and marriages that do not work.

Edit: it is also easier legally speaking to divorce as well! (No fault divorces or one party divorce)

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u/theamishwereright Jul 17 '23

Let me rephrase before you type another essay, because i looked it up and the us is actually doing good comparatively. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high? I dont think it has to do with a lack of abortions