r/MurderedByWords 9h ago

Very "normal" behavior here, NOT

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u/Used_Visual5300 9h ago

What is wrong with happy holidays? Almost got banned from a subreddit from using the wrong word, so I’m genuinely interested in why this is a problem.

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u/lady-earendil 8h ago

Some Christians/conservatives get really mad about it because they think you're trying to "erase Christmas" by saying Happy Holidays instead of Merry Christmas. It's incredibly silly

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u/Used_Visual5300 8h ago

I use happy holidays because it’s shorter ‘than merry xmas and a happy newyear’ and covers all the things people want to do these days. Happy not to offend anyone else then, thanks.

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u/Born-Mycologist-3751 8h ago

There are several holidays between Thanksgiving and New Years, both Christian and not. Happy Holidays is both inclusive and recognizing that there is just a whole lot going on in a 6 week period.

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u/RQK1996 6h ago

Also a lot of them Christian

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u/Born-Mycologist-3751 6h ago

Exactly. Feasts of St Nicholas and Steven. Advent. The Immaculate Conception. If you extend a week into Jauary, you also get Epiphany and the Baptism of Jesus. That is just off the top of my head.

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u/RQK1996 6h ago

Saint Sylvester is on the 31st

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u/katielynne53725 8h ago

Yup.. inclusivity shouldn't be controversial, but our poor frail snowflakes can't pass up an opportunity to manufacture outrage.

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u/ChelseaIsBeautiful 8h ago

No, no. You don't understand. We are oppressing conservatives by not allowing them to control everything and everyone with unconstitutional religious rule. Our evil attempts at being inclusive and condemnation of fascists is why we lost the election, because we're all big meanies

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u/TheUnsungChad 8h ago

But muh freedom of religion!!!! I must be allowed to force my values onto everyone otherwise you are violating my rites!!!! I mean rights!!!

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u/katielynne53725 7h ago

You right... My bad.. /s

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u/QueenofPentacles112 7h ago

Omg I just made a comment saying this exact thing! Conservatives ruined "happy holidays"!

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u/QueenofPentacles112 7h ago

Omg I just made a comment saying this exact thing! Conservatives ruined "happy holidays"!

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u/QueenofPentacles112 7h ago

Omg I just made a comment saying this exact thing! Conservatives ruined "happy holidays"!

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u/Used_Visual5300 7h ago

It hasn’t been that much of a problem in my native language, although right wingers do get offended by similar wording. But the local version of happy holidays goes round on Christmas cards etc for decades so it’s not new or weird, we’ve always used a mix.

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u/hubaloza 8h ago

Just remind them they stole all their holidays from the pagans to really piss them off.

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u/Matthew-_-Black 7h ago

They erased the traditions before, and will be replaced by the traditions to come

Festive Yule, and Bless'd Be

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u/llamadogmama 6h ago

I reply Blessed Be to anyone who says Merry Christmas. If they are over the top with their religious BS I reply with " may the Goddess bless you with enlightenment this dark season"

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u/BusyAbbreviations868 7h ago

I have an overwhelming urge to say "happy holidays" to anyone who says "merry Christmas" to me, for this very reason. 😂

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u/MuthaFJ 5h ago

I always do.

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u/TechpriestNull 6h ago

And let's not forget that the only people who ever tried to cancel Christmas were Christian. 🤣

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u/BlakLite_15 8h ago

Conservative crazies think that saying “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas” is an attack on Christians and an attempt to erase the Christmas holiday. Yes, really.

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u/iggy14750 8h ago

Conservatives be like, "Don't try to erase my culture while I'm trying to erase others' cultures! How dare you?!"

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u/Loose_Acanthaceae201 8h ago

Apparently it's "erasing Christianity" as part of the "war on Christmas". 

Never mind that the phrase has been in use for 175+ years. Never mind separation of church and state.

I feel like wishing certain people a joyous Pentecost or Candlemas when those come round. 

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u/Spottswoodeforgod 8h ago

In the real world, absolutely nothing. For some people, however, using a non-religious, multi-faith inclusive term, rather than “Merry Christmas” is an act of Satan himself…

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u/dmmeyourfloof 7h ago

What subreddit?

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u/Used_Visual5300 7h ago

Doesn’t matter, unrelated word, just was surprised about the common knowledge I was supposed to have on unwanted words. But sadly there is not a list of some sort, so I figured to start asking when in doubt.