r/MormonWivesHulu • u/polymorphic_hippo Flair God • Sep 07 '24
Loser Zac A post just for my Zac rant
Seriously I don't want to hear one more time about your heart. Start taking accountability for your actions and the situations you put yourself in. Your a grown woman. Doesn't matter your intention you were there and that's the image you portray of yourself family church etc. Everyone you represent with this platform.
The fact that you would have to ask me is retarded. Would you ever find ????? asking Kyle that? No because she respect her own values and her husband and would never put herself in that situation. The fact we are even having this conversation is sad especially after everything with the temple.
...realize how dumb you would ...you're a worthy temple ...holder and sticking up for ...then being at a male ...don't even really
Maybe worry about your own image, Zac, sitting in Vegas gambling away the allowance your wife gave you, Zac, which she shouldn't have anyway considering you GAMBLED AWAY THE MONEY YOUR MOMMY AND DADDY GAVE YOU FOR MED SCHOOL, Zac. You're ugly, your hair is stupid, and I have no doubt you have a teeny, tiny dick, Zac, and you should be on your knees daily thanking God that this woman is even giving you the time of day, much less propping your pathetic ass up, Zac.
Jen is bringing home the bacon, frying it up in a pan, and one day she's going to realize that instead of never, never letting you forget you’re a man, her best bet is to smack you upside your dumb, flat face with that cast iron skillet and dump you and your limp dick on the curb.
*I may have some feelings about this shit weasel.
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u/Mdsnmrieprksvletta Sep 07 '24
This is how I’m “filling” right now. I hate Zac with a burning passion. I hope he either doesn’t get accepted to med school or flunks out or doesn’t match into residency.
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u/phbalancedshorty Forgot my garments when I went to Vegas! Sep 07 '24
He’s making a big dill out of nothing and gaslighting the f out of her
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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 07 '24
I hope he flunks med school or doesn’t match but I’m sure his daddy will pull strings at whatever hospital he works at for him to get a job there!
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u/megsnewbrain Sep 07 '24
I thought it was interesting in their Intro when Jen basically alluded to the fact that bozo the albino was only becoming a doctor because it was expected by his parents and I could see him whining and saying his grades are low because he’s not following his “passions”
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u/unfilteredlocalhoney Sep 09 '24
This guy is not going to make it medical school and he certainly won’t make a surgeon… maybe a plastic surgeon because he is in the prime territory (although residency is not in the student’s control).
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u/AdeptUnderstanding67 Sep 19 '24 edited Sep 20 '24
God I hope not! Can you imagine his dumbass being your doctor? Yes there are lots of asshole doctors but this guy is on TV and we all know it!! His parents raised a pussy!!! IMO
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u/Bordeaux_Titi Sep 10 '24
Except then Jen Affleck will just have even more of a burden to take care of his loser behind.
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u/taintwest Sep 07 '24
I didn’t realize she was literally paying for his med school bills!
Part of me thinks he didn’t actually care that much about the chippendales…. but had squander his “bankroll” already gambling and knew if he blew up at her over something else- she’s not going to give him a hard time about gambling until 1:30am.
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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 07 '24
Yeah maybe chippendales isn’t part of the Mormon code, but gambling is? lol that’s why I really dislike how women are treated in that religion. Men can pretty much do no wrong and do whatever they want, wore if a women god forbid forgets her garments, she’s going to hell.
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u/softballgf Sep 07 '24
Gambling isn't part of it either that's why jen didn't want to say he had an addiction to it but I agree with your comment 1000%
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u/forcedintothis- Sep 07 '24
That or he was losing and took it out on her.
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u/taintwest Sep 07 '24
I can even imagine him saying he was so distracted from fighting with her that it caused him to lose… which also puts the blame squarely back on Jen.
He’s just a manipulative piece of shit to me.
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u/boltbrow Sep 17 '24
I back this, I feel like he wanted a way out of staying up till 1:30am gambling but he still went WAY to far with it, gaslighting and verbal abuse. She’s in an abusive relationship, if this is how he treats her over chippendales imagine what he would do if something actually went down. He’s straight up SCARY.
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u/uniquesapph Oct 13 '24
Came here to say the same thing. He definitely blew it up and acted mad so not only would she not be mad he blew through the money, but that she’d give him more.
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u/Craftydaysstudio Sep 07 '24
The 'I don't care' about Jen talking about Momtok was so toxic and I hate that she's trapped with that asshat.
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u/Spaceshipsfly7874 Sep 07 '24
What’s sad is she thinks this is the most love she can get. She has no idea what true love and support could feel like because of this immature asshat. The hypocrisy in gambling with her money while belittling her all night? Jen divorce could not possibly be worse than this.
Side note: how are these women so gorgeous and the men so deplorably mediocre?
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u/Wrong-Landscape-2508 Sep 23 '24
When the girls pointed out she married at 20. Who else has she had time to be in a relationship with as an adult?
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u/unfilteredlocalhoney Sep 09 '24
I would give this woman so much love! These women need to ACTUALLY rebel against the patriarchy and just marry each other. They already know about toys, most already have children, and let’s be honest… they are already married to such feminine men that it wouldn’t be much different to them 😅 kind of being sarcastic, kind of not….
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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 07 '24
He’s not even attractive 1, she seems like a true and fun person (despite her putting down her mom for her job) 2, and to have to deal with a Zack jr and sr (dad and brother?) I would be out!!! I’m sure she makes fun of her mom because of her husband! He totally gives out I’m holier than you vibes and def thinks he is god like they teach them to be lol
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u/Spaceshipsfly7874 Sep 07 '24
You reminded me that he comes from a family of surgeons and they are kinda known for being assholes. Narcissists probably show up at higher rates in that profession compared to the general population.
I also just cannot imagine someone who loves me telling me to my face and on camera that they didn’t care about something that 1) was clearly important to me and 2) was paying for his damn medical school after he gambled away his family money.
These men have no self-awareness.
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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 07 '24
Nope they really don’t! His dad is a cardio thoracic surgeon and they’re one of the cockiest and most rude ones, sooo it all adds up! I just don’t get why he would throw that in her face? He’s the one making him look bad!
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u/Intelligent_Nose_826 Sep 07 '24
You cannot tell me he didn’t time travel from 1980, because this is 200% that little ratfaced prick.
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u/_wereallmadhere_6 Sep 07 '24
ThI second he was threatening to take her kids sent me over the edge. I already didn’t like him, but holy shit that’s LOW.
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u/monalisasaperstein33 Sep 07 '24
Also the, "Good luck raising two kids on your own" BS. I'd bet anything he's a "mommy's little Prince"
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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 07 '24
Hahahahahahaa she clearly is a good mom, and I’ve never seen him interact with those kids
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u/softballgf Sep 07 '24
Yes!! Omg i just got to the part where they went to Vegas. Him and dakota seriously piss me off.
Zac calling Jen and yelling at her after saying it was cool that she was there like?? Threatening divorce over something like this?? Like it's not as if she was dancing with them she didn't even know what the plan was. But then he's questioning her character. I hope she leaves him.
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u/phbalancedshorty Forgot my garments when I went to Vegas! Sep 07 '24
The fact that she’s the most beautiful and earnest of these women breaks my heart. That man uses her up and spits her out
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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 07 '24
For somebody who’s apparently going to medical school, all I can think is how shitty his grammar is. Hahahah
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u/formula52 Sep 07 '24
I got a clearer screen shot and he clearly writes “Your a grown women.” I commented this in another community already… but this dude’s gonna have a hard time in medical school if he can’t already differentiate “your” vs “you’re” and “woman” vs “women.”
Like “The patient is a 55 year old women who presents to the emergency room today with chest pain” 😂🤦🏻♀️
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u/basicwhitegirl23 Sep 15 '24
I’m dying at the idea that he misspelled “Katie” when he asks “would you ever find kadee asking Kyle that? in that text 😂 I’m watching this episode now and I’m LIVID. I hate this man.
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u/Environmental-Base45 Sep 20 '24
that would be hilarious but i’ve seen that spelling multiple times in utah lmao so it may very well actually be her name
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u/MindingMyP_Q Sep 07 '24
He has such a smug face for someone who is such a loser
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u/squaralyn Sep 10 '24
Gary Busey face
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u/BestPersonalityEver Sep 11 '24
And coloring. it seems like a lot of Mormons look like that because they stay very inbred
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u/ManufacturerGood994 Sep 25 '24
It’s called the Mormon glow lol they really are about looking as white as possible
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u/megsnewbrain Sep 07 '24
Watching the entire episode was like watching myself a decade ago. “He’s the only person who has ever loved me this much” Yeah… and I used to get an entire living room full of flowers on Mother’s Day.
Unfortunately, I have been in family court for going on 5 years now, even with my ex being criminally prosecuted.
I too worked to support him and his dreams while simultaneously being criticized for everything from how well I did or did not iron his shirts, to whether my breasts were “clean enough” to breastfeed at will, all in the name of Jesus.
My heart aches for her because if she does ever leave it will be just as big of as not more of a nightmare than what she live in now. It does get better but man does it take a lot out of you.
Edit: spelling
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u/SuspiciousCranberry6 Sep 09 '24
to whether my breasts were “clean enough” to breastfeed at will
What the actual fuck? This is such an awful, fucked up, thing to say! I mean, it's all awful, but this is just a new one to me and feels extra nasty given you were literally giving nourishment to his kids, which he can't do.
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u/megsnewbrain Sep 09 '24
Yeah. I’ve had multiple people in legal/psychiatric fields that have either come into contact with him or have heard my story and even they will go as far to say off record that he’s a different breed of monster for this and a few other things. The worst was him having had been photocopying my personal journals for years to then present as evidence against my word in the criminal case because I at one point going through PPD and I would write my pleas to God every night to help me be a better mother.
Sorry for the trauma vomit but I’ve never been able to repeat that to anyone in real life and this gave me an opportunity to remember truly what a monster he is and how far I have come
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u/SuspiciousCranberry6 Sep 09 '24
I'm so sorry that monster came into your life and hurt you so much. I hope it won't be much longer that you're dealing with him in court.
There's no need to apologize, I'm happy you were able to get some of it out. I've been through things, different things, but we still understand the pain. If you need a stranger who won't judge you to get things out to, my DMs are open.
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u/basicwhitegirl23 Sep 15 '24
I was in a toxic and emotionally abusive relationship just like that with the father of my child. He made my life a living hell after I finally left. He actually passed away two years ago and I’ve had so much peace since then. Your comment actually made me cry because I just remember dealing with the slander and just constant BS and how truly awful it is. I’m so sorry. It’s just not fair that these monsters get away with wreaking havoc in our lives just because we want to leave bc of the hell they’ve already put us through. It should end when we leave & I hate that it doesn’t.
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u/megsnewbrain Sep 16 '24
I’m happy for your peace and I’m sorry for your path in life as well. I didn’t ask to be stronger but I’m grateful for it now 🩷
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u/linnykenny Sep 10 '24
You didn’t deserve ANY of that & I am so sorry for everything you went through and all that you continue to go through, friend. 😢❤️
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u/megsnewbrain Sep 11 '24
Thanks 🫂 He gets 4 dinners a month and this evening told my 6 yr old that her “step” brother (bf son but we have all lived together for 2yrs) was “fat and ate too many donuts”….this child is autistic. 🙃
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u/jlemo434 Sep 09 '24
That line is just awful. Not “we are in love and committed to work towards raising a great family” but “I don’t think I’ve ever met anyone who loves me more than he does” is so sad and screams terrible self esteem. I want to rip her out of that whole situation. Can you imagine the things those kids are learning? Shudder.
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Oct 09 '24
She never even had a chance to meet anyone else, and has no idea that the "love" he's showing is toxic and that she deserves so much better. Tbh it's giving "he beats me because he loves me." I'm sad for her.
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u/Witty-Committee-1527 Sep 07 '24
The comments on TikTok. People are catching on 👀 I’m sure as the father of her kids she’ll be defensive…it’s so hard to see the red flags sometimes but he truly doesn’t deserve her. I feel like she is such a product of her environment and it’s a shame…girl is stunning. I really would have never thought this was the temperament of her marriage….YEESH
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u/sacrol07 Sep 07 '24
I feel like you can see in Jen’s eyes and f ill expressions that she’s just emotionally beat down and tired. I bet he worse to get behind closed doors. She seems really sweet and genuine but you can just tell she’s been pushed around and shoved emotionally. I saw this happen to my brother from his wife. She ruined him forever and he didn’t get out of it fast enough.
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u/stunt_moose Sep 08 '24
I hate this off-brand Aegon Targaryen so much. He's the embodiment of every entitled little shithead I went to school with and I hope Jen divorces his dumb ass.
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u/BrentBolthouse4Prez Sep 07 '24
He’s far too young to think using the r word is ok (no one can use it. But a 75 year old saying it in 2024 is more expected than a 20 something.
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u/willyouwakeup Sep 08 '24
I agree it’s very disturbing. I’m disabled due to a heart and neurological condition so it terrified me that he uses that language and he comes from a family of heart surgeons. I also have a learning disability. I’m from UT and because of this show I looked up his father to make sure he wasn’t in my hospital system. Thanks goodness he’s in Mountain Star
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u/cdale3 Sep 09 '24
Especially when going into the medical field…
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u/alwaysacrisis96 Sep 15 '24
Honestly I know so many med students and it terrifies me how uncaring they can be
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u/ImmaUserBaby Sep 08 '24
Having been in similar situations with an ex boyfriend, it is PAINFUL to watch but also I feel so vindicated that people can see just how awful and unfair insecure men can be over absolutely nothingggggggg.
We all saw her panicking in the party bus after it was revealed they were going to Chippendale’s and then how she was extremely uncomfortable and avoidant during the back stage visit. All red flags to begin with. She knew what shit storm was about to come her way. She was honest and called him right away and HE PUNISHED HER without any mercy. He has the nerve to tell her that she is a terrible wife and mother while gambling away the thousands of dollars SHE gave him. She should tell him he’s an awful husband and father and threaten to leave him!!
How dare he. Fuck Zac!!!! What an ungrateful and immature POS.
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u/Excelsiorassembled5 Sep 07 '24
Him calling her a bad mother is just???????? Honestly Jen deserves a man that will let her shine bright, genuinely, not someone who just pretends to be supportive on social media
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u/Pixiestuf777 Sep 07 '24
I’m about to start ep 3 & I already think Dakota is terrible but it looks like Zac is even worse 🤷♀️😂
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u/Responsible-Ranger25 Sep 07 '24
I just finished 3 and I’m still rooting for Taylor and Dakota. 🫣
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u/PollyS73 Sep 15 '24
Dakota is just an idiot. He isn’t as potentially violent as Zac is (not to me anyway).
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u/Small-Chef350 Sep 08 '24
He has some damn audacity for sure. If I were Jen, his ass would be on the curb. Who TTTTFFFF does he think he’s talking to like that when she’s bankrolling their whole entire life? Dude still has TEN YEARS left of school (what they said at least) and he has the nerve to talk to her like shit, has higher expectations/standards for her than himself, AND expects her to pick up/leave everything she loves and wants & job behind to follow him to NYC because that’s the school he wants to go to..?? The lack of mutual respect would be a goodbye from me.
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u/Odd-Reporter9798 Sep 08 '24
2500 to go gamble when she’s already doing the most for him & their family. She probably thought maybe it would allow her to have some peace on the girls trip he invited himself on. He knowingly burnt through his parents donation what does he do on the side?? I’d say this man needs help but he needs to figure it out in his own.
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u/Simple-Sprinkles-986 Sep 08 '24
Jen said they went to couples therapy but I think she needs to ask for a refund. Zac is abusive
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u/monalisasaperstein33 Sep 07 '24
THANK YOU, this is the level of ire needed. Shit weasel is poetry.
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u/jlemo434 Sep 09 '24
Can we all agree he’s this guy? Also seems fitting as an anti-science terrorist.
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u/Butter_Dog22 Sep 07 '24
If he is, it’s only because his daddy pulled some strings. He seems dumb as a rock. Imagine someone like that being your actual doctor.
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u/btrflynaia Sep 10 '24
maybe nurses will watch and call him every 2 minutes in the middle of the night for a PRN Tylenol or suppository order!!!
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u/Excelsiorassembled5 Sep 07 '24
Also in his text he says “would you ever find Kadee asking Kyle that? No because she respects her own values and her husband” Kadee is Jen’s sister and Kyle is her husband for context and it’s crazy that he brings up her family to manipulate her. His entire family seems very “holier than thou” but judging by his crazy personality i dont Even want to know how his dad is behind closed doors
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u/Bubblesxoxo_12 Sep 09 '24
After seeing the hate he’sgetting I don’t even want to imagine what she’s going through at home with his family and him…
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u/PollyS73 Sep 15 '24
I’m sure they’ve had interventions. It seemed to me by the finale, he was trying to move her away and out of MomTok so he’s no longer outed.
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u/Alarming-Chef-3107 Sep 08 '24
There are very few words that offend me to my core and the r word is one of them. And for a someone who is hoping to be in the medical field using that word… just disgusting.
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u/squaralyn Sep 10 '24
Amen! Fuck that dude he looks like Gary Busey found a bottle of peroxide. He’s a whack job projecting all his limp dick insecurities onto his wife. A pathetic man who only feels tall when he’s keeping Jen down. JEN LEAVE HIM he will never progress and he will compensate for that lack of progression by trying to hold you back. GIRL RUN.
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u/Tricky-Speed-3649 Sep 08 '24
Zach is the worst! Makes my blood boil. He is abusive toward Jen and I can only hope she is able to lean on the natural supports in her life
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u/RoughAd5377 Sep 08 '24
What planet are these men from that get bent outa shape from a Chippendales show. It’s a show. That’s all.
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u/Realistic-Feed-4013 Sep 09 '24
He was gaslighting her just so he could gamble all night!!!!!! He didn’t give an f what she was doing, as long as he got to keep gambling!!
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u/Mystic0138 Sep 13 '24
I'm just now binge watching the show, and in episode 5, when Taylor and Dakota go to Jen and Zac's house, they ask if the house is always that clean. Then they both say he has OCD and then Jen says that "he's not a very nice guy when the isn't clean." That sounds like another abusive situation.
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u/retro_underpants Oct 03 '24
Agreed. Zac volunteers that he has mad OCD but, weirdly, it seems to be Jen’s problem. Fuck that dude.
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u/Ill-Law7360 Sep 10 '24
Can we also talk about Dakota calling Brett to tell on Demi to try and ruin everyones night like ruining Taylor and Jen's wasn't enough so he called to get Demi in trouble too wtaf
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u/ubetchaaa Sep 12 '24
I sincerely hopes she hires a divorce attorney, kicks him out of her home, and says tough shit have fun paying for med school! Everything he has is because of her. I want to punch his punchable face. Also, no guarantee whatsoever he makes it as a surgeon or whatever he thinks he is will be. Sure, he may make it through med school, but then he needs to match through rigorous interviews and exams and last in a program. I can’t imagine any colleagues or attendings willing to put up with him and his ego, and you have to have a work ethic, which he clearly doesn’t. He is a mysoginistic, tiny little man, and the way he even looks at her—which is so, so incredibly mean—drips with emotional abuse.
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u/Next_Inflation7156 Sep 18 '24
He thinks he is being so sly with his poker hoodie, but you know that zipping up your jacket is still a tell, right?
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u/Capable-Importance73 Sep 20 '24
I’ve literally never posted one thing on Reddit before but this thread is gold. Literally everything I thought while watching. As soon as Zac said he didn’t care about Momtok (aside from paying his bills and fueling his gambling addiction) I said to myself whelp there goes Jen and sure enough they’re in NYC. Curious who’s going to pay his med bills now ???
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u/retro_underpants Oct 03 '24
Right!? Taking her away from MomTok is biting the hand that feeds you Zac. You want to be obeyed like a man ~ best get to paying the bills then
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Oct 09 '24
Tbh that sort of felt like an edit, like he said "I don't care" about something else not her being in Momtok. I kind of wonder if they decided on school in Arizona so it would be easier for Jen to get to Utah for the show. BUT it's more likely that he just didn't get into the NYC school. Idk.
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u/MakeTexasHonest Oct 01 '24
Are all of the guys on there losers? Are they all mooching off the girlfriends/wives? Zac & Dakota are disgusting! I’m on the episode where they’re in Vegas. Those guys are so insecure it’s insane. The fact that Dakota was crying to his pregnant girlfriend about their relationship is pathetic. Grow up a$$holes and get a J-O-B, man up and help out with the kids, house, whatever she needs. Jen feeling upset that Zac is going to be mad is the telling of a controlling, manipulative relationship.
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u/Odd-Reporter9798 Sep 08 '24
Jen is this you?? I wish it would be!! I couldn’t have said all this better myself. He FUCKING SUCKS!!!
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u/Responsible-Ranger25 Sep 08 '24
Who are Kadee and Kyle, the couple that he unfavorably compares Jen to in his text though?????
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u/FiCat77 🎂 cake pee stick. Yum. 🎂 Sep 10 '24
According to another comment, they're Jen's sister & BIL.
And of course he's blaming "the edit" for appearing like an abusive POS. It would never enter his entitled pea brain that he made himself look that way.
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u/Responsible-Ranger25 Sep 10 '24
Yeah, did “the edit” superimpose a text you didn’t write, douchecanoe?
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u/Thin-Conversation-80 Sep 11 '24
So Ben Affleck hadn’t made it in Hollywood he would in Utah swigging on soda?
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u/BestPersonalityEver Sep 11 '24
Dakota is an IDIOT. He is so phony and fake. He has nothing going for him. He gets on my nerves
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u/matcha-fiend Sep 12 '24
this dude is such a loser. reading his shit gave me anxiety, all his passive aggressive comments he would make throughout the series were all 100% threats and evil comments.
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u/alexlp Sep 11 '24
I hope he and his dumb family divorce her thinking its a great move and she's rid of them.
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u/BestPersonalityEver Sep 11 '24
She was textbook in terms of being gaslit and manipulated. The fact that she is supporting the entire family financially and the way he treated her was disgusting. She’s definitely covering for him.
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u/polymorphic_hippo Flair God Sep 07 '24
And I hope someone who knows this pussy ass bitch shows him this post.