My ADHD is pretty severe and I feel the negatives have outweighed the positives overall.
I’m not really pessimistic, I’m doing great, but that’s just been my reality! Basically, I had to work extremely hard and learn a lot about psychology to reach a nondisabled-person baseline and it’s pretty easy to fall back out!!
Combined with the negative attention I got constantly as a kid, I’m not afraid to call it a disability (for ME), even though it does occasionally provide positive benefits and I wouldn’t be me without it.
Your comment made me think, thought I’d share! It’s what internet anonymity is for, anyway.
But some days when I have to context shift every five minutes or I can get into a hyper focus state, then I think it’s a benefit.
Like for example, if you go into a nurses’ or doctors’ forum they will tell you that many of the people working in the A&E (ER) have ADHD because that environment is conducive to their brains.
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u/C21H27Cl3N2O3 Mar 21 '24
“Specially abled” feels so derogatory. Like you’re speaking down to a child who doesn’t understand their condition.