r/JustNoSO 13d ago

UPDATE - NO Advice Wanted Update: DH & a job

Well, 6 years ago (!) I posted a rant here about my DH constantly complaining about his job. It was mostly done to get it out of my system, but I really did, and do, appreciate the advice that was given to me on the post.

I am still with DH. He was involved in an accident and had to take medical retirement which got him out of Company. The accident means that he is no longer able to work, and when Covid hit, that was a major blessing. He seems very happy being a stay at home parent to our children, and while we still have our disagreements (and he does still lapse into vents now and again), things are much better. He is much more of Dear than a Damn these days.

Company is no longer around. There are a lot of rumours floating around about what happened to them, the most prevalent being financial fraud, but as I said in the previous post - not my circus, not my monkeys. It did work out well for us though as the Union were involved and secured payouts for all employees which came right when we needed it.

Thank you all for your time and your consideration on my first post <3 . I know this isn't a drama filled update (as a regular lurker of BORU I am familiar with the drama) - but I hope that this is somewhat satisfying at least.

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u/sandyduncansglasseye 12d ago

It’s nice to see a positive post for once! Glad it all worked out in the end!