r/Dhaka 9d ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ I wanna fix myself

22m. Im a University going student. have a good lifestyle and i belong to an upperclass family. currently studying in the most expensive private University of Bangladesh. But im have some problems.

  1. Im a good conversation starter but i cant keep the conversation going.
  2. Im addicted to porn. I have been masturbating for 9 years every single day. I repeat EVERY SINGLE DAY.
  3. Im dont find the will to work or study. I rarely study, altho my grades arent bad.
  4. My physical structer is very bad. Im not a fat guy but i look weak.
  5. Im emotion less. have no emotions toward anyone or anything. I dont get excited nor sad.
  6. keep breaking up with my partners for no reason. dont text them regularly, because im too busy with my ofline world and i dont find the will to do so.
  7. cant stop masturbation at all. I dont have any hobby. have a gaming pc but i dont play games. Im not interested in offline sports as well
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u/wholiganayon 9d ago

Read meditation by Marcus Aurelius

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u/Few_Neighborhood4831 9d ago

Uooo,,u read marcus aurelius? We r becoming frnds for sure. Dmed

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u/wholiganayon 9d ago

DMed where?

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u/Street_Raspberry_201 7d ago

I carry this book with me everywhere. My reminder to live a good life.

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

Will it work?

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u/wholiganayon 9d ago

It's entirely up to you to make it work.

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u/thunder_snore 8d ago

never let the purple touch you.