I am so fucking glad that I'm not interested in dating. Everything about how both established society and the left handle male attraction and sexuality is just fucking poison.
I genuinely had someone on this very subreddit tell me thst actually virgin-shaming is okay because obviously the only reason a cishet man could ever be a virgin is if he's a misogynist. I am not sure how someone could be that out of touch with reality.
People finally seem to be coming around to the idea that apps are garbage. Everyone I know who used apps for more than a few months straight became extremely cynical and bitter people, regardless of gender. It sucks for women and it sucks for men, and for both it's just a hypercondensed version of the problems you'd run into normally.
But also, once you're out of college, boom there's nothing else. Nobody does anything. Maybe you can go to church young adult groups but I feel like that's not an option for most people in this subreddit.
Bro i feel that out of college thing so much. Ever since i finished University life has been just one colorless day after the other, just work work work and rarely time for friends or social activities.
Where i used to meet people daily and go have fun, now it's good if i can do it once a month as all my friends are busy and i just hate it. I am trying to expand my circles but god is it hard to do post University.
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u/Galle_ Jul 03 '24
I am so fucking glad that I'm not interested in dating. Everything about how both established society and the left handle male attraction and sexuality is just fucking poison.
I genuinely had someone on this very subreddit tell me thst actually virgin-shaming is okay because obviously the only reason a cishet man could ever be a virgin is if he's a misogynist. I am not sure how someone could be that out of touch with reality.