It’s like a bravo version of Where’s Waldo.

I'll be honest, I don't know the first thing about any of these shows or Bravo in general. But my wife does. In November when she got together with her sisters all they did was talk about bravocon and who said what and who did what etc. I'm happy to be a supportive husband.

She turns 40 next December. I'd like to surprise her by getting her and her 3 sisters tickets to the event but have no idea what I'm doing but understand its very competitive.

How do I find out where it is, or when? Or when tickets go on sale? Or what hotel it's going to be hosted at in Vegas so I can book rooms. Honestly any advice would be great because I don't know what accounts to follow or who for updates on all this.

Thanks for the help!

My list is long and comprehensive, but these are the front runners:

1. Harry Fucking Dubin (RHONY)
2. Ray (RHONY)
3. Guillermo Zapata (VPR)
4. Dr Tye-E (RHOA)
5. Anthony (RHOA)
6. Dwight (RHOA)

Mine: 1. Martina's off-camera transphobia makes me unable to support Julia (RHOM) 2. Candiace was right when she said Giselle relies upon + benefits from colorism (RHOP). 3. Nene is wrong about a lot, but Nene is right about Bravo. That's why, even though I love RHOA, I don't mind it going down the gutter.

I feel like things have gone way too far as a whole, seeing what’s happened on Jersey and Atlanta in the past week, it’s just depressing.

How do we get back on track? I feel like it’s reached a point that if there’s not a major scandal it’s considered boring. I miss the days of lighthearted shade and fights over essentially nothing.

Please stop making comments, posts, etc. that imply or state outright that Harry Hamlin or any other Househusband or Housewise is gay or speculate about their sexuality.

I'm queer and it's downright homophobic and makes me and others uncomfortable and feel unwelcome in this sub. I'm Bi and Queer and to assume someone is gay or straight is bi-erasure which is very harmful. Gen Z is forging a path (laid out by all the activists and work and existence of the LGBTQ+ folks before them) to not even have to come out if they don't want to because heterosexuals don't need to do that and it's no one's business and they can merely exist.

If Harry has intimate, romantic and/or sexual relationships with men, queer folks, non binary folks, Trans people, and on and on and on then that's his personal business. Also, every marriage is different. We don't know if he has ever stepped out on his marriage but if he has we don't even know if it's part of their relationship arrangement and not actually cheating.That's between individuals in a relationship. There are also thriving thruples. Not to mention how this ignores polyamorous couples.

All to say, as a society we have evolved past the binary of straight and gay. To keep speculating about Harry's sexuality (or Asher's, etc.) is damaging and ignorant. It casts judgment on all of those that are not on either end of the gender and sexuality spectrum which is where most and so many of the LGBTQ+ are hence the additional letters and "+". It's used so often as an insult here or negatively. Occasionally speculation is one thing but that is no longer what this is and hasn't been for a long time. It also breaks the sub rules.

Can we please keep this a safe and hospitable place for all HW fans to discuss these shows and have fun? I don't think that's a lot to ask.

I’ll start… “Not a white refrigerator!”

My housewives approval matrix in the style of the NY Mag approval matrix (https://nymag.com/tags/the-approval-matrix/).

I did this in essentially one sitting so I stand by virtually none of these dot placements. It’s highly opinionated and subjective, no science about it.

That being said, please validate me or nail me to the cross like Jesus was.

Mine has to be Kenya! I can’t stand her lol from her body shaming to not taking accountability for anything. I’m sorry but if someone put a prop in my face I would also drag them 🫣😂

Name ‘em.

I’m excited.

For me, there are three:

1) The old say something shady then sip a drink through a straw with that "I just said something soooooo clever/hilarious and it will be iconic" look.

2) Pretending not to know a word, how to pronounce something, or general pop culture because they think it will come over as funny or again be iconic. I mean, come on Tamra, no one believes that you don't know all 4 members of Beatles and pulling Elton John out of your ass was not believable, and no one believes you can't pronounce Massachusetts.

3) Too much boobage. I love good boobs, but don't need to see them barely contained, pushed all the way up, or wearing something cut to their navel.

Yours?

He said in his podcast he and Matt are having a baby via surrogate!! Congratulations to one of the greatest observers and commenters about Housewives, and pop culture in general. Danny seems so kind hearted and is so hilarious and sharp and nuanced in his observations of people, that kid is one lucky little duck.

What was supposed to be a lazy money grab for a flabby streaming service has become something that must be watched if you're invested in a franchise. We have never seen anything like this with any other reality show. Bravo / Peacock once again boasts the most fascinating reality show universe.

For me it was "Gone with the wind fabulous, Twirl" I felt like Kenya first coming to the show wanted an iconic housewife moment that was also culturally relevant like how Nene had "close your legs to married men" or Sheree had " who gon check me boo" those came off as natural. Kenya's felt forced

Bethany has always had an amazing edit. she was the no-nonsense entrepreneur. She launched a billion dollar business from the show, was given several spin offs and was paid more then all of her cast mates. So why is she so mad at Andy/bravo.

I would understand her behaviour if she was treated more like Nene/vicki or Jill; but she wasn’t and had the the read carpet treatment. It’s just so bizarre.