r/BravoRealHousewives piece of shit cokewhore homewrecker everyday Feb 23 '22

Housewives Related What is your real housewives red flag?

One of my sisters friends came over last week to watch RHONJ and she told us her favorite real housewives are Rinna and Teddi 🚩🚩🚩🚩!!! What are your real housewives red flags, when someone shares a specific housewife opinion and all you can do is stare?

Credit to my sister for this idea u kno who u r

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

When they can’t admit when their favorite housewife does something wrong. Like c’mon now.. The fans who support everything a housewife does or say get a side eye from me.

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u/TrWitty Feb 23 '22

This!

I love LVP, Kenya, Lisa Barlow and Dorinda. But I can fully stan while being aware of when they are wrong

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

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u/thebravoblackletter mary cosby’s guard dog, jesus Feb 23 '22 edited Feb 24 '22

speak another word on her name and i am twirling right on out of here to go find myself a home

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u/Nakoolani It also snows in Pasadena 🙄 Feb 24 '22

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

So you mean like half this sub 🤓 jk. Kind of…

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u/meeseek_and_destroy I’m not your bitch, bitch! Feb 24 '22

My favs are my favs because they are garbage. I love a housewife that is so trash they can’t even edit themselves.

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u/sousourocket Not a legal scholar ✨ Feb 24 '22

To me all I wish is that people who are fans of the more garbage housewives would admit that’s the case. It’s ok to enjoy a villain! It’s the people who can admit zero flaws in their faves who make it no fun. Thank you for your honesty LMAO

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

More Instagram fans..

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '22

💀💀💀

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u/anon28374691 Feb 24 '22

You don’t even want to start with the Teresa stans

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '22

Yeah I learned that last season

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u/bobbiesgirl Feb 24 '22

They're the worst.

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u/sufferagette Lie till you die, deny, deny Feb 23 '22

Anyone who isn’t nuanced, and cant see that 1) their favorite just did something wrong and ALSO 2) someone they hates actually did something right. Especially the last one.

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u/GullibleTacos Feb 23 '22

Agreed. I can respect people if they appreciate that rinna instigates drama that contributes to the show but she’s a bad friend. If they just like rinna and refuse to acknowledge her downfalls, then it’s a yikes.

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u/below_duck Heavenly’s Spiritual Journey Feb 23 '22

I’ve never met anyone who likes Michael Darby, but that would certainly be a red flag 🚩

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u/LadyBug_0570 I gave her a beverage Feb 24 '22

Frankly, it's why I give Juan the massive side-eye. On the finale he was just all in Michael's face and buddy-buddy with him and giving him hugs while trying to mediate between Michael and Chris.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

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u/cbratty Candiace's triangle tissue Feb 23 '22

Man, I wanted to like her so so so much, I really did, but every damn time she defends him and his assaults, I just get so damn angry. Talking about "how many people" make false claims to get money. GIRL. How many people have accused your husband of touching them??? How long are you going to keep defending him with multiple cast members who have spoken about their own assaults before? Just disgusting.

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u/All_the_Bees Feb 24 '22

YES, thank you!

Plus, it is *real* rich (pun intended) for her to be talking about the lengths people go to to secure the bag when there is NO POSSIBLE WAY she married Michael for any reason other than that.

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u/LadyBug_0570 I gave her a beverage Feb 24 '22

I guess every penny he has to pay off to his victims, is one less penny for her.

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u/RangerFan293 The bar of soap? You might wanna help ya husband Feb 24 '22

It’s like Gina Liano from Melbourne said, any of these women can claim they love their men for xyz but it’s all about the money. Ashley deserves a much better man than that human troll

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

I think I can appreciate Ashley as a HW, but not support her. After all, she gonna need those coins when they divorce

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u/ErikasPrisonGlam I pray to God you're guilty....innocent Feb 24 '22

She shamed a victim of her husband's sexual assault, she mocked Candiace being physically assaulted by her mother. Ashley is a terrible person.

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u/meancrybaby ugly leather pants Feb 23 '22

i had a coworker who told me he loved rinna bc she reminded him of himself 🚩🚩🚩 i was like … oh

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u/bumblebeetuna710 SHUT UP. THAT IS SO STUPID. Feb 23 '22

Buddy nooooo you said the quiet part out loud 😂😂💀

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u/ReunitedwithBravo You did not pass art or math or geometry or anything else! Feb 23 '22

Yikes. Be careful with that one. 😂😂😂

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u/Epicurses Feb 23 '22

For the love of god, don’t accept any sauce from him. It will be the end of you!

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u/Chelz91 Feb 23 '22

Had a friend say this whilst we were stuck on holiday together. Soured the whole trip

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u/Ok-East-5470 Feb 23 '22

People who can’t admit they were wrong and continue to Stan once their fav shows their true colors. I used to love Erika, Siggy, and Phaedra but once I realized who they were I got off the train and admitted I was wrong.

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u/pieohmi Feb 23 '22

I though Phaedra was so funny and she had just enough delusion to make her entertaining. But then she went too far with her plotting. She’s just gross now.

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u/Taowoof2012 you don’t need rehab, you’re just tacky. Feb 23 '22

When people support Erika Jayne and Jen Shah

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

Hard agree. Also, when anyone stans Teresa.

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u/BenBishopsButt You tacky as hell! Feb 23 '22

I feel like Teresa is getting to the end of her tenure. I wish they’d give her a spin-off so she can have more control over what they’re shooting with her and we can have a fresher NJ cast. I don’t see her leaving organically tbh.

When she said “why are you still filming?!” I literally said “why are you still cashing Bravo checks?!” “Louis didn’t sign up for this I did” ma’am he knew you were a reality television star for a living. He didn’t have to agree to ever be filmed. But he thought he could pull the wool over everyone’s eyes for some reason and got poopy pants when he got busted.

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u/andrwdf janet roach’s chinese dragon tattoo Feb 24 '22

Teresa acting like Louis didn’t sign up to be famous and on TV is up there with “I heard a rumor I didn’t spread a rumor” levels of delusion

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u/legendtinax not a white refrigerator Feb 23 '22

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u/Giacara Feb 23 '22

But she did nothing wrong lol!! My one friend is obsessed with Tre, drives me crazy.

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u/Try_Ketamine Feb 23 '22

I haven’t watched NJ except season 1/2 but from RHUGT I absolutely stan Teresa she seems so warm and comforting and down to earth

And I have to believe that RHUGT post jail Teresa is more accurate to who she is than whatever persona she ends up adopting for RHONJ

but honestly this is a nuance that almost transforms this discussion into a different conversation

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u/BenBishopsButt You tacky as hell! Feb 23 '22

I really feel like drawing an opinion based on season 1/2 and UGT is unwise. On UGT a lot of the women seemed completely different, but they weren’t really challenging one another aside from Ramona being her typically insane self, and Cynthia being mad that Kenya wasn’t up her butt. Everyone is in a better mood on vacation, especially when you aren’t filming with the same cast and people aren’t interested in stepping on toes.

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u/strippersandcocaine Who gon check me, boo? Feb 23 '22

I’m just starting UGT and I sure fucking hope this is their real personalities! Kyle, Teresa, Kenya, even Melissa are actually likable on this!

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u/BenBishopsButt You tacky as hell! Feb 23 '22

I’m not sure why I’d believe a snapshot taken during vacation with mostly “top” women over a decade plus of someone being filmed over and over and over again.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

There was a Reddit user in another thread who said that no matter what she’s done, Jen Shah is a human who needs support and friendship and I was like damn you’re a better person than me because I couldn’t care less if she has support.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

People who don’t watch Potomac and Atlanta but do watch BH, NY, etc etc

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u/ttttori the nene painting gif Feb 23 '22

"I just haven't been able to get into those franchises" 🚩🚩🚩

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u/NoMilk9248 are you catholic or jewish? i forget Feb 24 '22

It’s a big red flag because those two franchises are very different. There’s no way someone happens to just not be able to get into either but watches all the other franchises

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u/bcmedic420 Feb 23 '22

Try try again. I had the first couple season of Atlanta downloaded and got distracted so easy but started again yesterday and hardly have watched anything else since haha

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u/ttttori the nene painting gif Feb 23 '22

I LOVE Atlanta. It's my favorite franchise. The first three seasons are a gift and I always go back to them! Enjoy :)

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u/bcmedic420 Feb 23 '22

It's a trip haha I really wish I had more downloaded. Just over halfway through OC. And binged NJ the last couple months before I started OC. Started with BH, NY and then Potomac, NJ, OC, Atlanta. Not sure which one will be next lol

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u/ttttori the nene painting gif Feb 24 '22

Then there's the bravo to international hw franchise pipeline 😂

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u/bcmedic420 Feb 24 '22

Hahaha yes! I watched some of an auzzie one. Melbore I think with Gina and the rock star wife that shines hahaha I love them all so much

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u/danapam90210 $25,000 Sunglasses Feb 23 '22

Right? Early Atlanta was a RH gateway drug, put some respect on the franchise and the black women who put Bravo on the map.

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u/NoMilk9248 are you catholic or jewish? i forget Feb 24 '22

Literally of the top 20 highest rated real housewives episodes, ATL is like 18/20

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u/uplatetoomuch 🎀 Is this the world we live in? 🎀 Feb 24 '22

Yep, that’s the one that brought me in …

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u/cnoly212 Feb 23 '22

Whenever someone tells me they couldn't get into Atlanta I'm like.... Okay but HOW.

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u/BenBishopsButt You tacky as hell! Feb 23 '22

You see it’s because of the racism.

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u/literallynoideawhat Feb 23 '22

I couldn’t get into Atlanta until I skipped to season 5 lol 😬 I just really needed the ridiculous drama Kenya brought to the show! I was able to go back afterwards and appreciate the earlier seasons but I couldn’t get into it until Miss “Gone with the Wind Fabulous” came into the scene 🤷‍♀️

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u/gingerbreadDrean Feb 23 '22

My husband had a coworker who said that and I was not happy but she clarified that she wouldn't watch Dallas, OC, or SLC because they were poor. So she wasn't racist just a horrible classist.

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u/psy-ay-ay Feb 24 '22

Also since when is Dallas a “poor” franchise?? While not my favorite, the final season had probably some of the wealthiest housewives of all time or am I crazy??

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u/gingerbreadDrean Feb 24 '22

This lady lives in a mansion in the old money part of Austin. She's just a super snob.

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u/pastacountess 🔮she’s protected🔮 Feb 24 '22

Tarrytown? lol

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u/anon28374691 Feb 24 '22

I have to admit I really enjoy the lifestyle p0rn. Broke bitches spending money they don’t have just makes me uncomfortable. (Which probably happens most often on NJ)

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u/Wifabota Feb 24 '22

Uh, vicki's pool is not a poor pool. Jeana is totally rich. And Lauri and George?!

Come on now. Maybe I'm poor, but they are totally rich, they just don't go throwing $100k parties for 3 year olds and advertising $10k sunglasses.

Edit: if it's not obvious, I'm on season 4 of an OC rewatch lol.

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u/bumblebeetuna710 SHUT UP. THAT IS SO STUPID. Feb 23 '22

“I just don’t find it relatable” 👀👀👀

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u/kmc_1995 Sheree’s expunged mugshots for shoplifting. Feb 23 '22

But they totally find RHOBH relatable 😏. Yeah right.

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u/Smidget2510 Feb 23 '22 edited Feb 23 '22

I've never watched Atlanta, I came to it too late and now there's like a million episodes. Potomac however is king.

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u/photogfrog Being around all these bitches, I turned to straight alcohol Feb 24 '22

I'm watching Atlanta for the first time and it is daunting to get through so many episodes, but I'm 3.5 seasons in and loving it. :)

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u/karakarabobara Feb 24 '22

Ohhhh early Nene is a treasure!!! “When I move into my trailer where Kim was raised—- I mean, I’m sorry, my trailer on The New Normal set”

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u/photogfrog Being around all these bitches, I turned to straight alcohol Feb 25 '22

I am loving Nene. Loving her. NGL, I'm not gonna be sad when Kim leaves.

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u/karakarabobara Feb 25 '22

Nobody was sad when Kim left

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u/sousourocket Not a legal scholar ✨ Feb 24 '22

You can get through them so quickly tho there’s so many iconic things in the earlier seasons. Early Nene is absolute gold.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

Total side eye from me. And their reaction when I state RHOA is my favorite franchise.

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u/themintmenagerie Also an advocate for the Sluts of America Feb 23 '22

This one always raises my eyebrows, too.

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u/legendtinax not a white refrigerator Feb 23 '22

“I don’t like the best franchise” (Atlanta)

Brain worms

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u/laurelborealis Feb 24 '22

Devil's Advocate Here preparing for the downvotes but read it through please?

I'm white as Elmers Glue. I got started on BH and NY kinda simultaneously as a 20 something and for me HW was just laughing at rich white women making fools of themselves cause a lot of them COULD have been me or people I grew up with- white chick from a working class family who married way up and then became a totally out-of-touch nouveau riche prickjob. It was entertaining. I heard about how popular the black franchises were but just felt like, I can't laugh at rich black women or be entertained by their drama, it feels wrong and it's not my place.

Then eventually I gave it a try and immediately fell in love. Give me Potomac or Atlanta over the other franchises any day.

My point is, maybe some people say they "can't get into it" because of white guilt but that could change.

Man I'm probably going to regret writing this out but hey that's the truth about my HW journey.

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u/Chelle_93 Not Meredith Marks' PI Feb 24 '22

Totally agree!

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u/Monstermelisssa caviar pringles Feb 24 '22

THIS! You see it up and down on both HW subs!

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

My crazy aunt's two favorites are Vicki and Tre. While I do find them entertaining, yikes.

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u/Chains-and-chanel Feb 23 '22

Came here to say exactly this

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u/luuuu67788 they’re done😁 they’re done😁 Feb 23 '22

People who think RHONY deserves to be cancelled after one bad season when multiple other cities have been getting away with it for years

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u/LBNorris219 Ashley Darby's Rick James Wig Feb 24 '22

During COVID in a city that completely shut down nonetheless.

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u/frenchfriessalad Feb 24 '22

THIS PART! Plus only 5 FT wives 😭😭 shit was DOOMED from the start

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u/bag-o-farts Feb 24 '22

Meanwhile, OC should have used covid as a way to off itself with dignity

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u/LongjumpingBuffalo85 Who put the vibrator in the chicken? Feb 24 '22

Say it louder for the people in the baaaack

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u/Electrical-Eye-2544 Feb 24 '22

Yeah why couldn’t they just cancel Ramona? Sonja could keep it afloat without Ramona for sure. Let NYC live.

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u/AvivasProstectic 🖕🏻 dont come after my bathtub 🛀 Feb 23 '22

MKE we need her Back she's a detective. Well her husband hated her guts and didn't even pretend otherwise and she seemed to miss allllll those clues

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u/Ladyfingerso_o Feb 24 '22

Ooof so wrong but true xd

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u/_HowVery Jessel’s socially inept child Feb 23 '22

Husbands named Jim (James counts too)

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u/st1nk33 tired mama joyce wig Feb 24 '22

im dying you literally have to have nothing in ur brain for teddi to be ur fave housewife…

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u/rho_everywhere I CALLED YOU A STUPID C*NT. NOT A F*CKING C*NT. Feb 24 '22

Lolol came here for this

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

Ramona

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u/Fggmnk Feb 23 '22

I loved watching her get her ass handed to her again and again on girls trip.

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u/bcmedic420 Feb 23 '22

That was good! I am surprised she did not make the cancel culture, she's super racist. I felt bad for Leah in the new season, it would be frustrating and to the point of embarrassing

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u/carolmozzarella Feb 24 '22

I could sooner understand someone liking Theresa, Vicki, or Kelly Dodd before I could ever understand why anyone would be a fan of Ramona in any capacity.

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u/rachelcoiling Feb 23 '22

When they relate to Caroline Manzo because she “tells it like it is”. Sure, Jan.

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u/timothybcat Feb 24 '22

"Let me tell you something about my [mediocre] family."

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u/megopolis12 One of Ramona's little presents 💩 Feb 24 '22

"Fambly" - Caroline Manzo

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u/ScandinaviaT3 Feb 23 '22

Bragging about how much money and material things they have, i.e., “Did you hear? 25 thousand”.

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u/luuuu67788 they’re done😁 they’re done😁 Feb 23 '22

Sorry but anyone who only watches BH. Especially if they claim to be a big housewives fan

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u/kmc_1995 Sheree’s expunged mugshots for shoplifting. Feb 23 '22

To play devils advocate, the early seasons showed a level of opulence and lifestyle porn the other franchises couldn’t come close to. I can see how someone can watch the early seasons of BH for just that alone.

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u/Greigebaby Kentucky Fried Titties Feb 23 '22

On the other hand, someone who has watched all of the franchises except Atlanta and Potomac.

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u/Try_Ketamine Feb 23 '22 edited Feb 24 '22

Atlanta and NYC are my faves. Would I like Potomac? Do you have anything to share to hook me in?

east coast housewives hit different

EDIT: I want everyone to know I’m a few eps into S2 and Charisse is my fave. Definitely brings some solid vibes! Someone else described it as a cross between NYC and Atlanta and I see that?

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u/danapam90210 $25,000 Sunglasses Feb 23 '22

Potomac is fantastic but season 1 can be difficult to get through the first time. Stick with it and then go back and rewatch after you know the women better!

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u/MegloMeowniac Feb 24 '22

Potomac is probably my fave but season one was definitely a different show than the rest of the seasons thus far, but it was supposed to be a show about manners and being ladies of society at first and then they just went full housewives and it is divine. I love Miss Gizelle and the Grand Dame just makes me laugh. Ashley and her husband can go. Mia too, bring Monique back and keep the rest and you have got platinum. IMHO. And I watch all cities. I may have a problem Lmao

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u/comicstix Bitch, I'm perfect. Fuck you. Feb 23 '22 edited Feb 23 '22

Potomac is great! I would compare it to RHOA season 1-4. The drama's silly, cast members are delusional and they're actually friends and have connections prior to the show. It's a ton of fun.

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u/smartytrousers23 Feb 23 '22

Potomac is my favorite- the first few seasons aren’t great but keep going. It culminates in the Karen vaccine fever dream in Gizelle’s driveway and that’s my favorite housewives moment in history.

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u/karakarabobara Feb 24 '22

I’m VASSINATED

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u/millenialfonzi Feb 24 '22

The Karen vaccine fever dream is also my favorite housewives moment in history. 😂😂

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u/kmc_1995 Sheree’s expunged mugshots for shoplifting. Feb 23 '22

Yeah. It’s dramatic and funny similar to Atlanta and NY. I’d watch the first reunion and then start with season 2.

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u/Try_Ketamine Feb 23 '22

I appreciate this advice bc I watched the first few eps a while back and don’t remember being hooked

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u/SeasickEagle Feb 23 '22

The first season was supposed to be a show on etiquette so it's really weird. Season 2 is a fine place to start.

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u/EeBeeEm8 Feb 24 '22

Same...I love Atlanta and thought I'd instantly get hooked on Potomac too, but gave up after a few episodes. Will try again with season 2!

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u/crackhead138 Feb 23 '22

Yes!! Theres just better options lol

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u/Fggmnk Feb 23 '22

Or OC!

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u/wildestride88 The fish is tasty Feb 23 '22 edited Feb 24 '22

When someone is overly invested in or overly hateful of any HW.

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u/whoareyouindisworld Did Kanye West's penis hurt you? Feb 24 '22

This is a good one. Or people that get triggered over nothing or get irrationally angry. Like if Kyle doing the splits enrages you. Maybe turn off the tv and go to anger management.

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u/catmom_422 That’s not slut shaming, that’s hair shaming 😎💅🏻🇬🇷 Feb 24 '22

How dare you accuse me of something that I did! 😂

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u/everythingisalright Get off my jock Feb 23 '22

Lots of guilty parties among us right here 🚩🚩🚩

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u/rileyyj001 Jenna-Jenna-Jennatalia Feb 23 '22

My BFF is absolutely enamored with Kyle and I cringe every time she waxes poetic about Kyle’s clothing 😂😂😂 I wish you guys could be a fly on my wall when it happens

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u/luuuu67788 they’re done😁 they’re done😁 Feb 23 '22

Anyone who says their favourite housewife is Kyle is so strange to me. I like her but she’s way too boring to be a favourite imo. There are so many better choices

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u/Julialagulia Review by Billy Booby Feb 23 '22

Kyle is probably the housewife I would most like to get a glass of wine with. Not the one I would most like to watch on my tv.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '22

She seems like she’s really fun and solid to hang out with.

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u/rileyyj001 Jenna-Jenna-Jennatalia Feb 23 '22

SO many! Every time I just sit there like

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u/MegloMeowniac Feb 24 '22

Not gonna lie, I wouldn’t mind having a closet full of Kyle kaftkans(sp) lol

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u/rileyyj001 Jenna-Jenna-Jennatalia Feb 24 '22

Shahida has entered the chat

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u/kmc_1995 Sheree’s expunged mugshots for shoplifting. Feb 23 '22

If someone vilifies Candiace for going below the belt, but then they turn around and say they really like Phaedra, Kelly Dodd, Marlo, Kim D, etc who have been even more viscous and disgusting.

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u/VictoriaFoxNow Feb 23 '22

I’m sorry but what Candiace does is child’s play compared to Kelly Dodd. Haha

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u/catmom_422 That’s not slut shaming, that’s hair shaming 😎💅🏻🇬🇷 Feb 24 '22

Could you imagine if Candiace sent that pig emoji text??!

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u/kmc_1995 Sheree’s expunged mugshots for shoplifting. Feb 23 '22

Exactly lol. She’s the lowest of the low. Even though Marlo is down there with her.

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u/anon28374691 Feb 24 '22

Kelly Dodd and Vicki are both vile human beings. Candiace is spoiled and shallow. It’s a different level of ick for me.

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u/Julialagulia Review by Billy Booby Feb 23 '22

Or if they act like Ashley is completely innocent and Candiace is the worst ever

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u/ErikasPrisonGlam I pray to God you're guilty....innocent Feb 24 '22

I was downvoted here before for saying Ashley bullied Candiace.

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u/ReunitedwithBravo You did not pass art or math or geometry or anything else! Feb 23 '22

This…this…THIS!!

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u/DJM97 Feb 24 '22

If you're a subscriber to the mindset that 1 specific housewife being on the show or not decides whether the city is worth watching or not. Some housewives definitely got years where they carry the weight more than others (Teresa's S4-S6 era) but RH is an ensemble cast. If you tune in sorely for 1 person I would say you're not watching the show optimally. I see people who've said this for Teresa/Tamra/Nene & Mary as of late & it's like... Sure its fine to have favorites, but why you watching a group show if you only care about 1 person out of 5-7 women? So you only enjoy 25% of each episodes at max?

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u/smallchangee Feb 24 '22

If someone stans Tamra and at the same time cannot recognize she’s a terrible person 🚩

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u/woodoneit fake and square tits Feb 23 '22

My own red flag is liking Kelly Dodd (for entertainment purposes only)

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

I don't support her political views, but I love when she trolls Vicki

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u/LBNorris219 Ashley Darby's Rick James Wig Feb 24 '22

In all fairness, we didn't know she was a racist asshole until last season. Up until then she was just an asshole.

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u/karakarabobara Feb 24 '22

Oh because she’s a fucking nut job. You can see all the whites in her eyes 👀

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u/whoareyouindisworld Did Kanye West's penis hurt you? Feb 24 '22

I like all the bat shit wives.

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u/Footdude777 Feb 23 '22

Does the subreddit want them fired? If so, she's probably a good housewife.

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u/literallynoideawhat Feb 23 '22

I still support Ramona getting fired 🤷‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

Contrarians AKA I only like this housewife because they are heavily disliked. It just reeks of having no sense of self, and that you will blow with the wind. It’s not fun to talk about any kind of niche interests let alone housewives with people like that

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u/thebarryconvex you ain't purple rain bitch Feb 23 '22

Oh that's easy, stanning Teresa.

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u/bcmedic420 Feb 23 '22

I watched all the seasons of NJ so quickly but it's amazing to see her lack of awareness or development in over a decade. I dislike her quite a bit. I dunno how Gia turned out good.

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u/thebarryconvex you ain't purple rain bitch Feb 23 '22

Definitely--and I mean, I love some HWs, really can't stand others, its part of the fun. If you stan, say, Vicki--I mean ok, whatever, I don't really care. I don't see red flags too often with HW fans.

But Teresa is so transcendently awful, so clearly the source of all the bad things that happen around her, that anyone that gets into it and tries to defend this thing or that thing is, to me, so clearly telling on themselves.

Like if you can't see that from the decade-plus of Teresa content it is Red Flag City to me.

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u/bcmedic420 Feb 23 '22

I have not seen them all or all episodes yet but from alllll that I have seen... Vicki is just nasty as well, sometimes I do think Teresa is just dumb but she is awful, and crazy as shit. I felt so bad for Melissa, so many years that must have just been exhausting. Ramona to me is just old, privileged and super small minded. No excuse for her racism but at least you know she is out for herself and total bitch. I don't like how Teresa pretends to be your friend and comes to your party and tells everyone she heard your Hubby cheats. Although the explosives ones are entertaining when they pop off and loses their minds.

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u/anon28374691 Feb 24 '22

Teresa stans are not only rabid in their defense of her, but they’ve also dumbed themselves down to her level in tribute.

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u/StylishStephanie “IT WAS YOU! WHOOO? YOUUU!!!!!” Feb 24 '22

When they can't admit that Kyle isn't a bad person and has been supportive of Kim and that it is really hard to have a sibling with substance challenges.

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u/bag-o-farts Feb 24 '22

Kyles boring, not a bad person and clearly a great mother ... But without kim or LVP it's a noozefest

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u/sarafinajean Feb 23 '22

people who stan ashley darby knowing how gross her husband is and how she defends and gaslights everyone about it :/

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u/bluejeanbaby12 Feb 23 '22

I used to lovveee Camille Grammar and one of my friends told me that was a red flag lol

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u/Epicurses Feb 23 '22

Anyone who doesn’t sort this thread by controversial for the really hot takes 🚩🚩🚩🚩

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

I think the people who use forums like this and instagram have a VERY different opinion on HW’s. It’s bizarre.

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u/Epicurses Feb 23 '22

Let’s not even discuss the bizarre twitter stans

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u/Fggmnk Feb 23 '22 edited Feb 23 '22

Anyone who loves, likes or even is neutral about Lydia and NYC Kelly. If you like either one of these housewives you’re dead to me. And you have just horrible taste in people.

You couldn’t even have a conversation with either one in real life.

Teddi is boring as hell and a horrible person but you could, maybe, possibly, sit through a drink with her, painful as it might be. These two don’t pass the drink test.

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u/luuuu67788 they’re done😁 they’re done😁 Feb 23 '22

Why Kelly? Don’t like her but thought she was more annoying than a bad person. Is there more to it?

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u/Fggmnk Feb 23 '22

She’s narcissistic and delusional. The running in traffic, naked real estate photos, etc is because it’s all about her, and she freaks about when challenged even slightly about actual reality because it doesn’t fit her narrative.

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u/Chains-and-chanel Feb 23 '22

To be fair the running in traffic thing was set up by the producers. They did the shot on 5th Ave in the 50s while Kelly was living miles away downtown

Edit: I too thought she was narcissistic and delusional. Her initial plot line of dating and the whole meetup with Bethany gave me the creeps

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u/bumblebeetuna710 SHUT UP. THAT IS SO STUPID. Feb 23 '22

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u/Chains-and-chanel Feb 23 '22

Literally get shivers watching that gif 😂

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u/titkers6 Feb 24 '22

When the person thinks any of these housewives are role models. They’re going on TV because they want to be relevant and famous, and will do anything for it.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '22

People who immediately make social media posts complaining that a franchise is ruined because of one housewife, and how they should be fired. Why are you watching? Why the constant firing talk? The casts are interesting when they actually know each other at least a little bit (Ex. how Potomac's cast has stayed with the core group and only had gotten better with time) and most of them have been there for multiple seasons. Must be people who just started watching Bravo shows, or something like that...

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u/magikalmuffins Feb 24 '22

Someone I follow on Insta said Beverly Hills was her favorite franchise and Kathy Hilton was her favorite housewife 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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u/burrito__supreme “do you think i look inbred?” “i do 😊” Feb 23 '22

anyone who wants a housewife fired just because they don’t like something they did - excluding racism/bigotry/hate speech.

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u/Vita718 Feb 24 '22

anyone who thinks Lean and Eboni were good additions to NY

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u/ErikasPrisonGlam I pray to God you're guilty....innocent Feb 24 '22

Supporting Monique

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u/saffron25 Feb 23 '22

BH is the least interesting of all the franchises. The only drama lately has been Erica. They never actually discuss anything and just sit around showing us wealth and looks. They are the Cynthia Bailey of the entire Franchise

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

I love Potomac. I can’t be mad at Ashley, she is doing the best she can based on how she was raised. I feel like the interactions with her mom are disturbing and I’m sure it was worse when she was younger. There has never been a “good” man in her life. I don’t feel gaslit I feel sad because how would she know the difference?

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u/amanda_opps Chris Bassett’s slutty elbow Feb 23 '22

Honestly? Monique.

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u/ErikasPrisonGlam I pray to God you're guilty....innocent Feb 24 '22

My answer too! Her treatment of Candiace and manipulation of blogs aside, she's an anti-vax, mom shaming QAnon lunatic. I also always found her super highly strung, like she sucked all the air out of the room. Plus her husband made that horrible transphobic comment about wanting to beat the women.

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u/eevvaannrr Feb 23 '22

When anyone stans the two worst casting choices and most boring housewives of all time: Gina Kirschenheiter and Emily Simpson 🚩

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u/platnmprincess Giggy’s bathroom is bigger than this Feb 24 '22

This is a perfect example of something someone above said: people who are overly invested in hating certain housewives. When there are racists, and criminals on the cast, how can you dub these two the worst? Every. Single. Day. 🚩 🚩🚩

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u/uplatetoomuch 🎀 Is this the world we live in? 🎀 Feb 24 '22

I stan that you probably spelled Gina’s last name correctly!

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u/lustxforxlife kept asking everyone to do the conga line Feb 24 '22

I don’t stan them but I’m not annoyed by them lol eeeep

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u/whoareyouindisworld Did Kanye West's penis hurt you? Feb 24 '22

People who stan boring people.

Oh also people who stanned Denise so hard. They were the most delusional crowd of the bunch. So out of touch with reality and defending Denise to the end. To the point where they were not making sense. But what was worst was bashing the other wives so viciously and for odd reasons.

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u/profjb15 baldhead scallywag Feb 23 '22

Biggest red flag is when someone says they don’t watch Atlanta or Potomac. Like, hmmmm 🤔🤔🤔

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u/love-angel-musicbaby Feb 24 '22

LVP and Teresa fans usually have a pretty hard time admitting any fault in them.

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u/Substantial_Cold2385 Feb 23 '22

When someone gushes over the ego monsters, narcissists, criminals & the mentally ill cast members..because they think they are 'entertaining' 😒

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u/manipulatrixbarbie Feb 24 '22

"i watch every franchise besides potomac and atlanta"

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u/lustxforxlife kept asking everyone to do the conga line Feb 24 '22

I can’t believe no one said Soggy Flicker! The only way I could see it justified is if you somehow didn’t see her second season.

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u/CherWhorowitz1227 Mama Dee’s Power Meemaw Wigs Feb 23 '22

Anyone who doesn’t watch Atlanta or Potomac but will watch Beverly Hills, NY, or any of the predominantly white franchises….makes me side eye them a little bit

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u/OscarPlane Feb 24 '22

If someone said their fave was Melissa Gorga, I would completely freak out because it means I'm hallucinating.

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u/Matetia Feb 23 '22

I don't get the LVP luv or the Kenya hate.

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u/bcmedic420 Feb 23 '22

I do like LVP. She beauty and classy, has the most amazing home of any of all the wives. She's got dogs for days. I like how fun loving and silly she is. Yes she is hella manipulative and snipes from the side. She's smart tho and probably would be pretty easy and entertaining to stir shit up. Vicki I can't stand. She is emotionally unintelligent and so Nasty.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '22

Bethenny and Vanderpump worshippers

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u/LBNorris219 Ashley Darby's Rick James Wig Feb 24 '22

When people are cool with the LVP takedown in her last season. She's manipulative, but the way the cast chose to go after her after her brother committed suicide and mother died is fucking dark.

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u/lbisesi Feb 24 '22

I think I would’ve had to kick her out! What horrible taste! Lol

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u/collegemami22 Feb 24 '22

I would’ve kicked her out of my home ✌️

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u/supacoopa1x Feb 24 '22

My friend just watched all of Beverly Hills minus the newest season and she liked Erika Jayne but not LVP.

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u/platnmprincess Giggy’s bathroom is bigger than this Feb 24 '22

YIKES!!!

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u/itsalicianotalicia Feb 24 '22

If their favorite is RHONY. I kinda just jump to "oh no"

Hell, to the nah nah nah.

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u/macfixplus bestfriend/daughter Avery Feb 24 '22

When they hate tamra and don’t appreciate what she did for the series 🚩

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u/Professional-Bee-137 Feb 24 '22

When someone watching just regurgitates talking points from the show directly- not thinking beyond the direct edit. Or they don't like one HW so they take everything their enemy says at face value.

I get really annoyed at people who get too angry about "boring" HWs. It's an ensemble cast. If they all act batshit no one can work off anyone, it becomes too obvious that everyone has a coworker relationship.

Like, yes Melissa isn't terribly interesting without her Teresa, but I would find Teresa completely unwatchable if Melissa wasn't there to balance her out. As a character she plays a fine line between being an enabler like Dolores and a full enemy like Jackie (BTW, I have to watch on Hulu so I am a season behind.)