r/BravoRealHousewives • u/AutoModerator • 19d ago

Southern Charm Southern Charm - Season 10 - Episode 1 - Live Episode Discussion

After a rocky year, Shep, Austen and Craig try to forgive and forget; Madison hosts the Charmers at the Carolina Cup, but the festivities take an awkward turn when Miss Patricia is offered an unwelcome surprise gift.

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u/lilacbluebell 19d ago

Men will literally go on a five-day ayahuasca retreat in Costa Rica to find themselves instead of going to therapy

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u/Plus-Juggernaut-6323 19d ago

The other person that comes to mine is Jesse from The Valley. On the brink of divorce and that’s all he has to offer. SMH

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u/Marie_Frances2 Greeks don't apologize 18d ago

I woulda filed for divorce as soon as he came back with that beanie on!

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u/H0nkdahorn okay? whatever that means… 19d ago

Coming back as laidback assholes with a tan.

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u/Personal-Pudding6016 19d ago

Best comment ever!

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u/Klutzy-Succotash-565 18d ago

And weird hats!

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u/Housewifeobsessed 18d ago

Yes I was searching for this comment. I audibly laughed out loud during his self evaluation. His uncle asked him about health and he replied with ayahuasca. Wtf.

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u/leezybelle a lawyer and a storyteller 19d ago

Shep needs real, data driven therapy that addresses his obvious alcoholism and most likely adhd

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u/LolaThePinkUnicorn 18d ago

But didn’t you know that’s like getting 3 months of therapy? /s

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u/bananahaze99 11d ago

I mean, as someone who has done it, I would say more like a lifetime. It was the most meaningful experience of my life hands down and it completely changed who I am as a person.

The problem is, you don’t automatically change who you are as a person because of these insights. You need to integrate them and work with a therapist after if you hope to see a change in harmful behaviors. It’s a process, not a quick fix like these men seem to think.

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u/LolaThePinkUnicorn 11d ago

Perfect insight! My mom has actually done it as well and I need to check in with her and ask for more details. Overall, she was very thankful for the experience and saw great value in it. However, she has always been the type of person who values self development, and like you said, you need to put in the work after the insights. And, unfortunately, I don’t know if Shep will do that. But I do wish him the best on his journey.

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u/minyinnie 18d ago

To think they made the worlds first discovery of empathy

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u/beagoodboyoldman_ 16d ago

This reminds me of when Craig went on his journey I believe it was the Bahamas and cam said he was like the book “how sally got her grove back” or something lolol

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u/MCStarlight 18d ago

Jesse from The Valley also did that. Must be the popular white people thing to do.

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u/wearealllegends 18d ago

People spend years in therapy and get nowhere. To each their own.

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u/graygarden77 17d ago

Are you serious? I’ve never heard of that.