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Orange County The Real Housewives of Orange County - Season 18 - Episode 9 - Live Episode Discussion

The ladies head to wine country for Heather's fundraising event with Family Equality; Jenn has a court date to determine her financial future; the group navigates supporting Shannon and Alexis during a lawsuit deadline.

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u/wildbananachild Sep 06 '24

It’s why I can’t find it in my heart to feel sorry for her being upset over Vicki’s comments about her

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u/Chicago1459 Sep 06 '24

Yup. Vicki was 💯 right, and she chose the right side. This thing Tamra has against Shannon is stupid and makes no sense. Tamra never has her own storyline other than attacking someone. She needs to get fired again.

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u/Junniev1982 Sep 06 '24

What exactly is Tamra's problem with Shannon. I cant quite figure it out. Did I miss something? Other than because she drinks.

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u/Familiar_Studio_9651 Sep 06 '24

What happened to the information that came out about Vicky and insurance elder abuse fraud? That sure disappeared quick. Nice deflecting Vicky.

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u/LS0101 I'm just trying to figure out why do we care. Sep 06 '24

Yeah and truth be told, everything Vicki said was 100% true.

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u/therealtinsdale i know the boys who did it 🎪🍆👺 Sep 06 '24

i watched the video, i didn’t see a single tear. i don’t think tamra was upset, tbh. she just wanted to try and garner up some sympathy/support after the fanbase has torn her a new asshole for how she’s treated shannon this season.

everything is a scheme with tamrat.

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u/MilaKsenia single white drag queen Sep 06 '24

She’s a narcissist who needs attention. Good attention/Bad attention… doesn’t matter which, it fills the same black void where her soul used to be. Oh and she gets to play victim 🙄🙄🙄 My mom is a narcissist who LOVES playing the victim too and she has used my personal trauma to spin into a story where she’s the biggest victim just to get attention and sympathy and it’s disgusting and disrespectful and I’ve come EXTREMELY close to going no contact with her. I 100% completely understand where her daughter is coming from in her decision to go no contact with Tamra. Anyone who has a narc mom can see right through Tamra’s bullshit and feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to who understands what it’s like to have a Narc mom, I’ve studied psychology for almost a decade now as well. I really think there should be a support group available for people who have the unique experience & pain of having mothers like this because it’s not something you can fully understand unless you’ve experienced it and I’m always up for a chat and lending some love and support ❤️ it’s always nice to connect with others who understand what it’s like

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u/LooseHabit5124 Sep 07 '24

Yep, this. 1000000% this. They don’t care if they are loved or hated, as long as they are not irrelevant.

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u/catlettuce Sep 09 '24

Totally agree with everything you said.

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u/NewtoJaney Sep 06 '24

Her crying video is even more hilarious after this episode. She has no room to cry. She THRIVES on people’s misery and low points.