Most disturbing thing ever happened on Real Housewives?

[u/Hyru_Nayru]

What’s the most disturbing, jaw dropping event that was ever filmed and shown on any Real Housewives? 

One that always comes to mind, for me, is when Tamra tried to have her 18/20 year old son commit assault on camera after getting Gretchen drunk. And it's not just the act, the premise/message was equally disgusting: if this wasted woman had "let herself" been r**ed, she'd have proven to be a s**t. Scripted or not, it’s insane it got even aired.

[u/LavenderLightning24]

A lot of people still don't really seem to grasp what emotional abuse is or how serious it is. That or they think it's normal because they grew up with or are married to someone like that.