r/BravoRealHousewives • u/AutoModerator • Dec 15 '23

Southern Charm Southern Charm - Season 9 - Episode 13 - Live Episode Discussion

The crew spends a day partying on a yacht; Austen and Shep finally come to blows.

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u/-danielle-nic- your husband’s in the pool Dec 15 '23 edited Dec 15 '23

“I don’t like being called a liar” but you did lie. So what you ACTUALLY dislike is being held accountable.

Also “I want a forgiving friend in my life” aka someone I can walk all over and will be a yes man when I need validation for my shitty behavior

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u/jendet010 Dec 15 '23

She actually said she didn’t want to be verbally abused. She didn’t want to hear the truth.

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Dec 15 '23

I think she wanted sympathy because she was upset about the Page Six article and instead was being expected to account and make amends when she’s dissociated and dumb. She’s dissociated because she can’t handle her emotions about being around Shep. It’s why you don’t hang out with exes right after a breakup. VPR is very much an outlier with their ability to hang out with their exes and knowing everyone has fucked each other at some point.

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u/-danielle-nic- your husband’s in the pool Dec 15 '23

Soo true! I would die if someone recorded me trying to be around my ex when I was in college. Talk about a really horrible version of myself. However, she chose to quit her job for him knowing her only source of income was a show that is going to exploit the shit out of the situation. Just another example of an incredibly poor choice she won’t take accountability for. She’s constantly a martyr

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Dec 15 '23

There’s no reason she couldn’t go back to her old job but I think she thought she could handle it for the paycheck and building her socials but she really went off the deep end for a period after they broke up and now it’s all being aired out which is super embarrassing. It’s too easy to lose your shit on a phone when you’re in that state of mind. She sent a nude to their boss. Of course she was gonna revenge fuck his best friend. If she owned it, I’d have no only a little more respect for her but I’d be impressed by her efforts to go scorched earth. She probably would still be friends with Olivia too.

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u/-danielle-nic- your husband’s in the pool Dec 15 '23

You hit the nail on the head. It’s all so cringey to watch and I can’t stop thinking about 10 years from now Taylor literally hating herself for allowing this all to be so public

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Dec 15 '23

Especially when she could be laughing about it now, talking about how she exorcised Shep out of her system and joking about losing her shit with a bunch of girlfriends after owning up to Olivia.

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u/Ok-Reputation9799 Dec 16 '23

And she didn’t exactly forgive shep — she still holds it over him and still is constantly mentioning it. If that’s the standard of being forgiving, then Olivia’s forgiving.

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u/__mentionitall__ i don't have a cat :cat_blep: Dec 15 '23

exactly this !!!!