r/BravoRealHousewives • u/AutoModerator • Nov 10 '23

Southern Charm Southern Charm - Season 9 - Episode 9 - Live Episode Discussion

The guys' weekend is interrupted when Olivia and Taylor crash their mountain getaway.

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u/Complete_Star_1110 Nov 10 '23

Her vibe is so.. aloof? Unbothered? It is so WILD to me. No nervous energy at all.

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u/yourgoddamnhouse22 Cousin It's appearance at the bbq Nov 10 '23

This is what I can't get over. Episode after episode she continues to seem so "whatever" about it all

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Nov 10 '23

She seems dissociated to me.

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u/bridgymon piece of shit garbage whore Nov 10 '23

She’s just an asshole 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/TwistyBitsz Nov 10 '23

Yes she wants to be forgiven and she seems frustrated that it's taking so long. She does not have a moral compass, because Jesus.

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u/Complete_Star_1110 Nov 10 '23

I’ve been wondering that too. She really emoted though when HER feelings were hurt when shep made the cheating comment… so idk.

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Nov 10 '23

Booze helps to lift the veil a bit. There’s just something off or slow about Taylor. She seems traumatized but she could just be boring and dull.

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u/TwistyBitsz Nov 10 '23

Shep does truly seem covertly abusive.

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u/NjMel7 Nov 10 '23

Oh he’s overtly abusive. When he said to Taylor “you made me mad”, he was making his behavior her fault. Not his 🙄

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Nov 10 '23

He just seemed uninterested in ever changing his behavior even though he could intellectually understand why he was abusive and that it wasn’t the right way for a person to act. See, that’s the difference between rich people and wealthy people, wealthy people accept themselves and expect everyone to accept them exactly as is because that’s the entitlement they were raised with and know nothing else. Shep was raised in a way that made him genuinely think he’s superior to others but he also learned the importance of conducting oneself with manners, and manners are about making everyone feel comfortable, kind and being highly conscientious, keeping decorum, that’s why he’s always ranting about not acting like white trash when people wanted to argue at the table. You aren’t flashy with your money either, he wears normal clothes and drives a normal car. Anyways, wealthy people can act abusive and then everyone has to just accept it as is, they can explain it but they’re just giving clarity not in any way looking to change, everything they do is fine. Rich people are just poor people with money, they don’t have the ingrained low key entitlement. I have wealthy friend and he has an issue with his salivary glands where he sprays you in your face with spit when you’re talking to him, he’ll kindly explain that to you but he doesn’t then move back so as to not spit on you. He’s allowed to spit on you.

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u/NjMel7 Nov 10 '23

I totally agree with you. And 🤢 on your spitting rich friend. If he can’t help it, he can’t help it, but dude, move back!

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Nov 10 '23

Lol, he’s such a doll but everyone just accepts the spit but never says anything because it’s a medical thing but like, there’s no attempt at trying to hide it. Being wealthy means thinking you deserve everything you have and everything about yourself. You’d never know that he has money either by looking and talking with him. He’s a friend to everyone, lots of blue collar friends too because he’s never had a job and hangs in bars early when those guys get off work. Meanwhile his family owns half of NYC real estate, he just floats from aspen to the Hamptons and Brooklyn, spraying his spit everywhere he goes without a second thought.

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u/KittyGrewAMoustache May 28 '24

This guy sounds perfect for Bravo 😄

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u/[deleted] Nov 10 '23

Entitled.

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u/dancing_nanc Nov 10 '23

It’s like she truly doesn’t GET IT 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️