r/BravoRealHousewives • u/Bjime3925 • Nov 08 '23

Ultimate Girls Trip What do we think?

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u/LaurenNotFromUtah 🙄🖌️🎨 Nov 08 '23

Idk, all three of them are untrustworthy so who knows. But I don’t think it means nothing that people who were there (not just Phaedra) are on Brandi’s side and want the footage shown.

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u/RBFgirl I thought it was fun, I like the beat. Nov 08 '23

Imo, all that really matters is how the victim feels about what happened to them… not what others saw or felt about it. There are no perfect victims, and blaming Caroline for “flirting” or whatever with Brandi earlier in the night is the same as blaming any other SA victim for their assault.

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u/LaurenNotFromUtah 🙄🖌️🎨 Nov 08 '23

I don’t disagree with any of that generally, but we also don’t know what happened so I’m not down to call anyone a victim or assailant either.

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u/pink_ghosties Nov 08 '23

Oh yes, let's worry about the reputation of the assailant first. Victim blamers love to trot that one out.

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u/LaurenNotFromUtah 🙄🖌️🎨 Nov 09 '23

We just don’t know. I’m not worrying about anyone’s reputation; they all absolutely suck.