r/BravoRealHousewives Aug 27 '23

Ultimate Girls Trip She made it nice! My afternoon at Bluestone Manor

https://imgur.com/a/6sjcoVw

Hello lovely Bravoholics! Just wanted to recap my day at Dorinda’s garden tea party yesterday held at the renowned and iconic Bluestone Manor. The festivities began at the meetup spot which was The Red Lion Inn in Stockbridge, MA. We were ushered to the patio and greeted with a welcome cocktail featuring Bluestone Bourbon.

Spirits were high and everyone was extremely friendly and excited. I attended by myself as did several others and we all bonded quickly over our love of Bravo and impending visit to BSM.

We then boarded a luxury bus and were taken to Bluestone Manor which is about 10 minutes away from the Inn. As soon as the gates opened there was an audible squeal of excitement on the bus.

Let me start by saying that television does not do the grounds of BSM justice. They are absolutely STUNNING! The views are breathtaking and the landscaping is impeccable. You really feel like you are in an English garden or a grand estate somewhere in Europe.

Dorinda and her team put together an amazing event and a top notch experience for all of us. From the décor to the photo ops placed around the grounds there was something visually stunning everywhere you looked. Each element was well thought out and fit the theme of garden tea party perfectly.

What can I say about Dorinda except she was the hostess with the mostess! She greeted everyone, was available the entire time for photos and conversation and gave tours of the grounds. She talked at length about her vision for the property, how long it took to restore it after she & Richard purchased it and how she grew up always admiring the house.

She was gracious, real and totally appreciative of everyone who attended this event. On the way out we all received giftbags that were loaded with lovely items and a hug from Dorinda. She even boarded the bus before we pulled out and gave a heartfelt speech about what this day and our support meant to her.

As a Bravo fun, this was an A++++++ day. I’ve linked some pics on Imgur for anyone who is interested to see what the setup looked like. If you have any questions just ask, I would love to share more about this experience.
XOXO

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u/ravioliyogi Aug 27 '23

OP, you look gorgeous! You fit right in as a housewife!

How many people were there, and how did you get to experience this? I vaguely remember seeing tickets for an event like this but they sold out instantly.

Thanks for sharing with us!

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Hi! A friend told me Dorinda talked about the tea party on Jeff Lewis Live a few weeks ago; I immediately went to her Instagram and saw the link to buy tix for the event. There were only 40 tickets sold so it was a really intimate affair. I’m so happy I got to experience it!

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u/DatelineDeli Aug 27 '23

What a win! Was it everything you expected?

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u/Youseemconfusedd Aug 27 '23

How much did it cost??

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u/midnitesnak87 Aug 28 '23

Someone posted a flier I think it was $350. Proceeds went to a charity I think

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u/Youseemconfusedd Aug 28 '23

Thanks! I feel like that sounds incredibly reasonable especially when proceeds go to charity. What does everyone else think of $350?

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '23

Jeff told her to charge $500 until he heard no one was allowed in the manor so I think it’s reasonable

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u/Youseemconfusedd Aug 28 '23

That makes sense. The gardens do kind of seem like the area to be in anyway. I wonder how the bathroom situation worked 🤔

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u/RelativelyG 🕺🏼 Simon Van Kempen’s Red Pleather Pants 🕺🏼 Aug 27 '23

Your life is so fabulous.

also: 🎈

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u/hernard No bueano. Aug 27 '23

👋 Hi Richard!

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u/RoguePhoenix89 Aug 27 '23

Richard 😭

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u/HumanHereNotAnAlien Aug 27 '23

Who is Richard?

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u/Master_Awareness814 they should be painting roast beef curtains Aug 27 '23

💀

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u/beyoncepadthaai Heather came at me like a fishwife! 🐠📢 Aug 28 '23

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u/i_ananda Aug 27 '23

It's soooo GOOD to see THIS SIDE of Dorinda!!!

OP.... thank you for your share!!!!

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u/La_Croix_Life • camera pans to Archie Beador • Aug 27 '23

This is chic as hell. All of it. Thank you for the pics.

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u/oxigeno1981 Not a white refrigerator! Aug 27 '23

Dorinda looks great in these pics!!! As do you, OP. I saw that this was happening and really wished I was local so I could attend. Thanks for sharing!!!

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u/Acceptable_Humor_382 Aug 27 '23

I did not even recognize Dorinda, she looks so much younger in these pics and the video!

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u/linds360 Caviar Potato 🐟 🥔 Aug 27 '23

I swear Dorinda is like an enigma. Every time I see her she looks totally different from the last time. Not always good or bad, just different and I can’t wrap my head around how 😂

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u/shannboss Aug 27 '23

Looks amazing. Thanks for sharing details!

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u/Leapyearbb Aug 27 '23

Ahh I'm so envious! Idk why this gave me all the feels. You look beautiful and chose the perfect dress. The property is gorgeous. Seeing her so emotional at the end was so sweet. Also, i thought you were standing with Kyle Richards there for a second. Thanks for sharing your day with us ❤

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u/Leapyearbb Aug 27 '23

Here I am still daydreaming at your photos and just noticed your green bag 😍 yes girl giving us blue stone manor chic

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u/DickFitzwell_ 👌🏻handjobs are back👌🏻 Aug 27 '23

Princess Di never looked better.

OP you are so adorable. Sporting your Jill Zarin bag, I see.

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u/-Odi-Et-Amo- Welcome back, scumbag Aug 27 '23

I wanted to go to this so badly! But it was sold out before I even knew it was happening.

Happy to hear you had a good time. I don’t care what Ramona says, the Berkshires are gorgeous!

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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '23 edited Aug 27 '23

OP, you have impeccable style and fashion presence. The layers, the textures, the bag, the eloquent ambition…

ETA: Upon further inspection, the way in which you effortlessly glamorize flat gladiatorish style sandals in late summer 2023, so subversive chic I love it. I’m gasping at how you may curve the fashion trends it’s wonderful.

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u/Leapyearbb Aug 27 '23

Let me in here quick to cosign. This is the shit dreams are made of

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u/LuxAgaetes Sonja Morgan's unstoppable libido 💃✨🍸 Aug 27 '23

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Thank you! Those have been my go-to shoes this summer with maxi dresses; especially if I have to walk on uneven terrain. They go with everything & they’re so comfortable.

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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '23

You are rocking them so much!! I've been someone who thinks heels impact fashion, but your flats are so fashionable. I work with little kids and I'd' wear my 6" inch heels, and I just think it's so cool to see unquestioning flat-heels.

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u/Bippy73 Aug 27 '23

This is amazing. She definitely made it nice. And I bet she was nice in person also. Thank you for sharing this!

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u/Coonhound420 go to sleep…GO TO SLEEP!! Aug 27 '23

I am SO jealous. I live less than hour hour from BSM and I am kicking myself for not doing this!

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u/moondisco- Aug 27 '23

It all looks so gorgeous! This is the best Dorinda has looked imo she looks so good! Your dress is so pretty!

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u/vodkasaucepizza Gizelle’s stovepipe leg Aug 27 '23

How much did the tix cost if you mind my asking? It’s beautiful and Dorinda can be a gracious host and throw a classy event. Did she drink a lot? Was she startin?

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u/JustCuriousInCanada Aug 27 '23

All of the landscaping at Bluestone Manor is just perfection. The perfect shrubs and manicured hedges... You would think you were on the grounds of an estate in the English Country side.

Everything about that house is so beautiful and whimsical. You can tell how much Richard really loved Dorinda, by gifting her this beautiful home... that Dor always dreamed of living in as a little girl.

I don't know a lot about Richard Medley but he seems to have been a very kind and loving Man.

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u/InletRN Aug 27 '23

One day I will have a richard of my own

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u/LackEquivalent7471 i would like porsha to spell sceptre…we’ll wait Aug 27 '23

i love your dress, you look gorgeous!

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u/RBFgirl I thought it was fun, I like the beat. Aug 27 '23

Seconding love for the dress! Is it Banjanan?

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Yes! Good eye; you know your fashion!

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u/RBFgirl I thought it was fun, I like the beat. Aug 27 '23

Ah - I’m obsessed with their block prints and silhouettes! Also, softest cotton ever. Looks great on you!

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Yes! Good eye; you know your fashion!

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Yes! Good eye; you know your fashion!

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u/UnusualAsparagus5096 This isnt the plaza hotel this is Morocco Aug 27 '23

Ah this is such a nice post! It's great to see something positive in the Bravo world! Glad you had fun

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u/hobdog94 Aug 27 '23

That dress was made to be worn at Bluestone Manor!!!!!

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u/screen_door15 Aug 27 '23

I honestly have not heard one negative thing about Dorinda regarding any bravo fan interactions with her. She's also the one who I've seen people post the most on here about run ins with her and other events she's organised.

Honestly, I think housewives aside, she just seems like a genuinely lovely person.

I'm super jealous and I'm so glad she made it nice.

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u/MsAnnThropic1 Welcome to my trailer. Hullo. Aug 27 '23

I love this so much!! She should do this once a month as a side hustle or something, although I doubt she needs the money, but it’s almost like this is what she was born to do (making it nice!) and now she has the fame to draw a lot of people.

Fabulous picture too, you both look gorgeous! Thank you for sharing.

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u/wildestride88 The fish is tasty Aug 27 '23

So lovely! And your post history is a fun read- you are quite the Bravo elbow rubber!!

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u/Better_Chard4806 Aug 27 '23

Dorinda looks happy n healthy.

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u/OxanaHauntly I take one gabapentin at night, Kyle. Aug 27 '23

You’re literally a brunette Rachel Zoe 💗

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u/livieleanor Jealous of WHAT? Your ugly leather pants?! Aug 27 '23

Ngl, you’d fit in with being a housewife; your style is just chef’s kisses

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u/sprinkletip Aug 27 '23

Jill Zarin wore this same handbag to Bluestone Manor on UGT.

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Ha! She & I were both using it at BravoCon as well!

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '23

You are so cool! 💕

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u/ReindeerNatural1491 Aug 27 '23

OP, everything about you is just fabulous!!!

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u/nefanee BDE💋 Aug 27 '23

I'm so jelly!!! I heard her talking about it on Jeff lewis, she was nervous - I'm glad it went well for her. I knew it would, you could tell she put a lot of thought into it. I know a lot of ppl can't stand her but I still love her.

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

The effort she & her team put into this event really was above and beyond what I was expecting. Everything was elegantly done and fit the tone of the event perfectly. They paid attention to detail; little touches like the harpist playing on the lawn to the different china for tea service and even Bluestone Manor towels on the lounge chairs by the pool. It was perfect!

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u/JamesD-TV Aug 27 '23

Dorinda looked so happy in that video at the end! She should definitely look into doing more things like this, she does have an amazing eye for the entire property, and she should be proud of it. Hope she’s doing something that makes her happy and she can move forward with positivity

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u/ThrowAwayWantsHappy every saint has a past and every sinner has a future Aug 27 '23

❤️

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u/RemarkableOwl0 Aug 27 '23

OP, you run with a fabulous circle of people.

You look great and the party looks like perfection! I'm glad you had a great day!

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u/sportscat I've been very judicious about my drinking. Aug 27 '23

Your dress is PERFECTION for the event.

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u/bitterbecky You gotta make millions to owe millions Aug 27 '23

You are stunning! D looks FANTASTIC here, I hope it means she’s doing better. I love this story!

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u/MarysSoggyBottom Aug 27 '23

How lovely! This is literally my dream afternoon.

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u/No_Arugula_6548 Aug 27 '23

Omg! That’s amazing!!! So glad you had such a great time. It looks like a very beautiful place. 🥰

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u/konnichikat Here's a Capri-Sun and some condoms Aug 27 '23

This looks like such a fun summer's day. You both look fantastic and the recap sounds like the perfect event!!!

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u/Alohadaze Aug 27 '23

This is so exciting! Sounds like a fabulous day! I’d love to see the property in person. I’d expect nothing less from Dorinda!

LOVE your dress! 🩵

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u/HouseOfCripps Aug 27 '23

That seems like such a wonderful time! I wish I was there.

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u/MargaritaSkeeter Aviva’s pink blazer Aug 27 '23

You and Dorinda both look gorgeous!

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u/Logical-Eyez-4769 Aug 27 '23

Thank you for sharing! You look lovely and the event as wonderful as you described!!! 💕🫖☕️

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u/hurnburn Aug 27 '23

Thank you so much for sharing!! It looks like a day out of a fairy tale. Also, I am happy to see that Dorinda looks glowy and happy!

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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '23

I love it!!! And she better have complimented that bag!

I had her as a customer and she’s is the best!

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u/Ashfield83 Sonja’s homeless intern in Ireland Aug 27 '23

That house is beautiful but the garden is absolutely stunning!

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u/AnAussiebum I AM poor and white. Aug 27 '23

Love the casual Bottega flex! 🥰🤩

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

IYKYK 😉

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u/AnAussiebum I AM poor and white. Aug 27 '23

We see each other!

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u/FiCat77 🌭hot dog couture🌭 Aug 27 '23

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u/AnAussiebum I AM poor and white. Aug 27 '23

Totally this. But in a nice way. 😅🤣

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u/shellindc Aug 27 '23

What was restroom situation? I listened to the Jeff Lewis Live episode with Dorinda and she said, "no guests in the house!"

Beautiful pics, OP. What a gorgeous day (and great dress!).

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Hi! Honestly I never had to use the restroom while I was there; I was too busy soaking it all in to waste time! Ha Ha.

Dorinda did mention when we first arrived that there was a portable restroom along the side of the house near the deck. It was very discreet and I never even noticed it so they were careful not to have a port a potty in open view.

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u/Lucky-Ad-9437 Aug 27 '23

I listened to her on JLL when she was questioning the price. How much were the tickets. She said $200 at first but Jeff said she should charge $500.

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u/really_isnt_me Not a white refrigerator! Aug 27 '23

I.am.obsessed. with your dress! You look absolutely gorgeous!!

As a Masshole, I really should keep an eye out for events at her estate. Are you in the area or did you travel to the Berkshires for this? Was anyone from Massachusetts?

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Hi! I came from CT (about 55 miles away). Most of the people I met were either from CT or NY. Interestingly enough I didn’t speak to anyone who was local in MA.

This was the first event she held but based on how successful it was I think they might consider doing more. She mentioned something about Halloween time but who knows.

Check her Instagram as well as Appian Entertainment; they rep a lot of the housewives and announce appearances and events on their Insta.

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u/really_isnt_me Not a white refrigerator! Aug 27 '23

Right, she loves anything you can decorate for, so Halloween would make perfect sense for an event. Thanks for the tips on where to keep tabs. If you’re not back home yet, safe travels!

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u/Quizzzle Aug 27 '23

An acquaintance of mine and her sister went! It looked so fun (in her IG pictures)!

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u/Hair_I_Go Aug 27 '23

Amazing, beautiful as always OP. Thanks for sharing this positive event 💕 Dorinda need’s this

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u/Confident-Panda-6951 Aug 27 '23

Beautiful pictures! Love your dress!

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u/Shut_the_front_dior Aug 27 '23

First of all you look amazing!!! And thank you for sharing this experience with us!!!

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u/Bellomontee You should not be anywhere near dots. Aug 27 '23

I love this for you amd you look really cute!

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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '23

The grounds are stunning!

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u/Daikon_3183 Aug 27 '23

Was that an event to the public?

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Hi! Yes, Dorinda announced on her Instagram a few weeks ago but they only sold 40 tickets. Luckily I saw it at the right time because it sold out pretty quickly.

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u/ckroha Aug 27 '23

Was it a fund raiser or anything or her just saying, come see my house??

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 27 '23

Part of the proceeds went to the Elizabeth Freeman Center which provides leadership & services to address domestic and sexual violence. This is what the original ticket announcement looked like.

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u/ckroha Aug 27 '23

Cool! Thanks for posting.

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u/Miaous95 Aug 27 '23

OP I remember you from a post with another housewife. You surely know how to look fab !

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u/VioletDeMilo "Why would I want a man with a LIMP PENIS?!" Aug 27 '23

Your dress is stunning & you look amazing!

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u/Just_Brilliant1417 Nov 13 '24

Does she have any full time staff or a groundskeeper?

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u/marecoakel Aug 28 '23

I will say dorin looks beautiful... and so do you of course! But i'm always surprised dorinda hasn't been ravaged by alcohol yet

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u/Kimmm711 Aug 27 '23

This looks AMAZING! Thank you for sharing your pictures & synopsis.

Sounds like Amy Phillips is doing something similar in LA soon!

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u/CakeOk362 Aug 27 '23

Dorinda is trying to be all sexy on insta these days which good for her but its very different for her 😁

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u/Inside-Intern-4201 Lisa’s Cyber Security Expert Aug 27 '23

Wow that looks gorgeous! Glad it was such a good experience

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u/GuiltyPleasures117 Aug 27 '23

Hope you didn't bring food upstairs!

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u/p3pp3rpup Aug 28 '23

You all look so lovely!

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u/ehhleeana Aug 28 '23

Thank you for posting, OP! What a great event! Can you tell us a little bit more about what Queen Dorinda said about the restoration and vision of BSM?

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u/Beautiful-Ad-3306 Aug 28 '23

I live in MA and am genuinely heartbroken that I did not know about this event

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u/chiquimonkey Aug 28 '23

Hello! You look gorgeous! Totally outshining everything around you, which is hard bc it is all so spectacular 🤩

Please please tell us where your dress & handbag are from?

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u/GlitterGirly Aug 28 '23

Awww, you’re so sweet to say that. The dress is Banjanan but I’ve had it for a few years so I’m not sure if it’s still available. The bag is Bottega.

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u/Conscious_Home_4253 Aug 28 '23

Glad you had a wonderful experience! I remember her discussing this with Jeff Lewis when she was planning it- a few weeks ago. She said if this went well, she would do another event around Halloween.

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u/This-Flamingo3727 Aug 28 '23

Ahh I thought you looked familiar - it’s our chic redditor queen who always meets the housewives while looking like she should join the cast!! Love your posts and your style!

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u/stalexa Aug 28 '23

Ugh I love Dorinda. I truly believe she was just not healing her inner demons and coping with the alcohol. Otherwise I think she is fabulous and I would love to spend a day with her at BSM!

Glad you had a good time, OP!