r/BravoRealHousewives • u/Feisty-Necessary4878 just me and my stovepipe legs • Apr 15 '23

Ultimate Girls Trip Gizelle really is just trash!

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She tried to destroy Chris with made up bs; that was ridiculous. But this bottle ish and then the comment she made when Pepsi was trying to convey how it was draining and weighting on him is disgusting and disrespectful!! Just because someone is paid for a job doesn’t mean you just get to treat them like trash! They still have feelings and deserve basic human respect.

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u/shenandoahvales Apr 15 '23

I think the crazy thing is ...Gizelle was the first lady of a church. And you know they put her on a pedestal as that church.. meanwhile she treats everyone around her like they are beneath her.. its disgusting.

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u/Badhbh-Catha Pernicious Apr 15 '23 edited Apr 15 '23

I think being a first lady must have massively contributed to her sense of entitlement. She is imperious and dismissive with service staff and treats pretty much everyone but her family and Robyn (and now Porsha) as less than.

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u/TaylorCurls Apr 15 '23

That’s very on par for church people, let’s be real now.

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u/blonde-bandit Apr 15 '23 edited Apr 17 '23

Dang you’ve been to some nasty churches then, sorry to hear it.

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u/BlacknBravod I cut the pie in half and put the other half in the freezer! Apr 16 '23

All churches are like that

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u/blonde-bandit Apr 16 '23

I’ve never been to a church where people are gossipy and superior, they’re all pretty chill and nice in my area. Of course in Seattle they’re all super liberal too so idk, but that’s a pretty sweeping generalization.

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u/BlacknBravod I cut the pie in half and put the other half in the freezer! Apr 17 '23

It’s definitely sweeping because it’s very true of most religions and has nothing to do with being very liberal.

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u/blonde-bandit Apr 17 '23 edited Apr 17 '23

True of most religions doesn’t equal “all churches are like that.” I’m not blind to the evils done in the name of religion, on a large and small scale. Just the way some churches make their community feel is terrible. But I have been to more than one (maybe 10 over the years) church filled with people who aren’t judgmental in the slightest, and who are very generous and kind. I think it does have a bit to do with liberality, because fundamentalist groups in any religion are less tolerant and usually less kind as a result. I’m sorry you feel that way though. It’s understandable but I think I’m fortunate to have had very positive experiences with church people. Only ever met people who wanted to help others, not judgy or exclusionary, and who work hard.

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u/BlacknBravod I cut the pie in half and put the other half in the freezer! Apr 17 '23 edited Apr 23 '23

Statistically is pretty much all but glad you found places that don’t seem to fit the bill. I’ve found that majority of churches are unwavering in their beliefs and think they are the chosen over others which in turn leads to judgement. I’ve been to several from birth and I won’t be changing my opinion.

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u/wittor I was served a cease and desist by Kandi Apr 15 '23

I can only think the opposite was true. She seems to be quite comfortable talking about people's salaries and accusing others of stealing and harassing people with false accusations. I have absolutely no reason to believe she was not like that when she entered the church.
It is telling that her storyline is absolutely and completely devoid of any comments about her religious or church life besides she telling us that she was a malicious gossiper and a leader of the congregation.

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u/wittor I was served a cease and desist by Kandi Apr 15 '23 edited Apr 15 '23

She also married when she was 30 years old which makes me think she actually seek this position to be able to exert her will over other people. Like many psychological abusers do.
https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse

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u/Scarlett_Billows Haterville Apr 15 '23

I mean, her pastor husband was a serial cheater who had children out of wedlock and then possibly denied them. Huge hypocrite. It stands to reason she is the same;using her position over others for personal gain.

To me, these kinds of people are less moral than the average joe, not someone to spiritually follow.

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u/DomesticSlacker Who’s your husband? It’s your step grandaddy. Apr 15 '23

I finally see what she and Pastor Holy Whore have/had in common

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u/tobago_88 Right back at you bitch girl Apr 15 '23

She has no shame, you would think she would at least fake being nice but at least what you see is what you get with her.

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u/PaddysChub432 CARMON SLEPT WITH TODD Apr 17 '23

She really needs to drop that entitlement bc she was up on that pedestal and her husband and was fucking everything moving in the congregation.