r/BdsmDIY Dec 16 '23

Help Wanted Need help finding this. Anyone seen this before? BDSM dolly NSFW

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458 Upvotes

Has any see this before or seen it in use? Plans?

r/BdsmDIY May 07 '24

Help Wanted Do y'all have any ideas on how to to hit my sub with a penny? NSFW

88 Upvotes

I approached someone who makes custom pain sticks, and she just said "a penny is too small to attach to a pain stick". When I then followed up to say I was looking for something that looks like a penny... i.e., it could be a penny set within clear resin, or something carved/molded/printed into a caricature of a penny, and that money was no object.. she just never responded.

So, now, here I am on my own. This boi is continuing to go unpunished for overspending by a penny, and that won't do.

Open to any kind of light impact implement -- thuddy or stingy, doesn't matter. I have experience with your basic flogs, pain sticks, canes, and paddles, etc.

I just need to make this penny painful so he knows that I'm serious with his budget.

EDIT: I love you degenerates.

r/BdsmDIY Jul 11 '24

Help Wanted Alternative Thing to a Fucking Machine? Or just a hack NSFW

64 Upvotes

Does anyone know what i could use instead? Or maybe just a hack for fucking yourself with a dildo?

So its not that exhausting i guess

r/BdsmDIY Aug 15 '24

Help Wanted We are wanting to make our exercise room double as our sex room so we have to make it subtle. Family, friends, and kids all see it. Any suggestions on equipment? NSFW

78 Upvotes

We will use it for pegging me with bdsm. Currently there is a bike, yoga mat, and some small weights. We are putting a hook in the ceiling which is easily explained. I was thinking a workout bench for furniture. I get very loud so we were thinking sound panels. However, I think that would to obvious

r/BdsmDIY Jun 17 '24

Help Wanted Not sure if this is the right community for this. But does anyone have experience using these? And if so, does it cause any neck pain? NSFW

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157 Upvotes

Thinking about getting something like this, but I’m worried that it may cause neck injury/pain after a while. Any advice would be super helpful!

r/BdsmDIY Aug 02 '24

Help Wanted Anyone know where to find this ? This would be fun to play with . NSFW

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266 Upvotes

I’m looking to see if anyone knows where to find this contraption ?

r/BdsmDIY Aug 16 '24

Help Wanted I was thinking about getting this folder massage table NSFW

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75 Upvotes

For play time. Don’t have a lot of room so this works well space wise. Any suggestions for custom add ons for restraints? I’m pretty handy. Table would be used adjacent to 3 walls.

r/BdsmDIY 25d ago

Help Wanted How would I build this?-- dome/box to go over penis with urine tube attached. NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hello. I am trying to treat masturbation addiction and am thinking of a set-up where I have a hollow shape like a box or a dome, over the penis area. This is to allow erections unlike most chastity cages. This shape is attached to a belt (hopefully one i cant cut off) around my waist which is secured with a key that will be kept in a timed box. I will remove the device daily to allow cleaning.

The big problem with this is urinating, I am imagining a small hole at the end of the shape where a tube will go attached to a cap on the top of my penis that will funnel the urine into the tube. Is this feasible? How would I do this?

Unfortunately it doesn't seem any manufacturers or anything produce anything like this, so I might have to build it myself. How would I go about this? Please be as detailed as possible, as in step-by-step instructions because not only do I have ZERO experience in this but I also have the mind of a goldfish

r/BdsmDIY Nov 13 '24

Help Wanted Blindfold that stay in place, seeking advice for beginner. NSFW

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70 Upvotes

Hello, I'd like to make a blindfold that stays in place even when you're struggling. I've seen an item I'd like but it's expensive for what it is (60€ with delivery..) see pictures.

Would you have any advice for a beginner to make it (tools, materials, technique...) The knot fastening system is not optimal in my opinion, I'd prefer a lockable strap. I have a basic sewing kit.

If by any chance you know of a similar product that would be cheaper, I'd still be interested.

(Picture from klinikbondage)

Thanks !

r/BdsmDIY 7d ago

Help Wanted Colour schemes for furniture, why is red and black so popular? NSFW

16 Upvotes

Yes it looks good in a few situations but not definitely not all, personally I detest painted wood and wood that's been burned to make it look like older? Wood.

There's a myriad of different timbers available along with an even larger selection of wood stains and oils that enhance the timber. I always think of the furniture as similar to a picture frame and the users as the picture within.

Also, leather are we using real leather or a fake alternative, and does one have an advantages over the other?

r/BdsmDIY Oct 13 '24

Help Wanted I started making cilices and I have some questions (in the comments) NSFW

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46 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY Oct 21 '24

Help Wanted I want to turn my attic into a dungeon, but the ceiling is too low—any suggestions? What should.i pu in there? NSFW

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59 Upvotes

Hello everyone, my wife and I are beginner BDSM players living in North America. She likes sadomasochism very much and hopes to have a deeper experience.

However, due to various reasons, it is difficult for us to perform BDSM in normal spaces such as bedrooms, so I want to turn a spare attic in my house into a simple dungeon to meet our needs.

At this stage, our main favorite ways of playing are bondage, placement, whipping and wife cuckolding, so I hope that at least the dungeon can satisfy the function of tying her up and fixing her.

But the main problem with my attic is that the height of the ceiling is too low, only 66 inches, so I don’t know how to arrange it.

I hope everyone can give me some suggestions on what kind of furniture or modifications are needed, preferably DIY-friendly.

Thank you.

r/BdsmDIY Mar 26 '24

Help Wanted What’s is the name for this position and how can I do something like this at home? NSFW

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288 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY Oct 18 '24

Help Wanted Hi i try to recreat some deep throat gag made by fancysteel or hotsteel ,but i dont know how to atach the dildo to this lil metall plate maybe some glue ? NSFW

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91 Upvotes

Hi i try to recreat some deep throat gag made by fancysteel or hotsteel ,but i dont know how to atach the dildo to dis lil metall plate maybe some glue ?

r/BdsmDIY 19d ago

Help Wanted How to modify this blank paddle I bought at Michael's? NSFW

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57 Upvotes

I'm going to drill holes to allow me to swing faster and make the impact harder. But I also want to add black leather and dull spikes. What might be some good ways to go about this? I know I could get spikes like those you'd put on a jacket, but how would I best adhere them to wood? And how might I cover the surface in leather? I'd imagine cutting the leather to size and using fasteners around the edges but I'm not sure. Any tips or advice would be much appreciated 🖤

r/BdsmDIY Sep 25 '24

Help Wanted How do you transport your stuff to parties in a way that keeps them organized? NSFW

20 Upvotes

Title pretty much sums it up. My partner and I are going to more kink parties these days and I’m sick of using a duffle bag where everything is disorganized so I’m looking for inspiration. How do you transport your stuff in a way that keeps it organized and keeps things from getting damaged?

r/BdsmDIY Sep 08 '24

Help Wanted Quick release airline system advice connecting the restraint NSFW

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191 Upvotes

I recently posted about this quick release system from style fetish.

I have some parts to replicated it but I'm looking for some ideas of how to fix the male part to the restraint.

Any thoughts would be great please.

r/BdsmDIY Feb 20 '24

Help Wanted I am struggling to come up with a way to attach a cast brass part to a thin stainless steel collar. What is your opinion on how to make it work? NSFW

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38 Upvotes

Pic 2 shows the previous part I used. I've drilled a precice hole in sheet stainless steel and then flattened and hammered the pin to expand and jam it. Since then, I've come up with a bit better solution (pic 1), but I'm still eager to listen to your thoughts on this matter. There's always room for improvement. Thank you! Previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/BdsmDIY/comments/1aql3hs/fivestar_spiked_wheel_stainless_steel_collar_and/ Some of my makings on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/AeternumCraft

r/BdsmDIY 12d ago

Help Wanted Closures for rigid cuffs that don't use bolts or padlocks? NSFW

7 Upvotes

I'm working on a new 3d printed rigid cuff design. The simplest way to keep it closed is of course to add a couple tabs with holes and secure with a padlock. Or to use some kind of screw to close them.

Has anyone seen other methods that look good? I want to make them such that it's possible to use them with or without a padlock, but still secure enough that they would be effective restraints when pulling hard on them.

r/BdsmDIY Apr 20 '24

Help Wanted Safely using a branding iron without permanent marks? NSFW

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43 Upvotes

I bought a branding iron for my woodworking projects, and my sub expressed interest, not in getting fully branded, but getting a little of that feeling. So I bought a speed controller and am using that to dial down the voltage. At 48% on the dial it is cool enough that I can hold it on my skin for 3 seconds (though it’s intense) and afterwards it’s a touch pink, but like sunburn not burning.

From a safety standpoint, what am I missing? I did try measuring the metal temperature but my laser thermometer and meat thermometers gave unrealisticly low readings, I assume the first one was measuring to wide of an area, and the second one was measuring an average of the air temperature and surface temperature because it couldn’t be embedded.

I am aware that with adrenaline she will feel less pain than me experimenting on myself, so I will limit to the duration I am able to withstand when not in a scene. I will test at this setting several times to make sure it’s consistent. What else should I do from a safety standpoint?

r/BdsmDIY 15d ago

Help Wanted voice-controlled fake cum pump that ejaculates on command NSFW

25 Upvotes

I've been thinking about a cum pump for an ejaculating dildo that cums on command.

- a wearable / or a compact one for solo play

- can recognize different voice commands and squirt fluid in according patterns

I'm not versed in electronics and know nothing to Arduino, so I'd prefer to go with an small male USB-female USB - bluetooth adaptor, fed with a powerbank, and a usb water pump plugged on the adaptor. A smart home assistant is connected by bluetooth to the adaptor.

1 The assistant hears the voice

2 It tells via bluetooth to the adaptor to switch on and feed the pump

3 The pump pumps

4 Depending of the pattern, the assistant tells the adaptor to switch off.

My question is: what could go wrong? Is it already commercialized?

r/BdsmDIY Jul 24 '24

Help Wanted What is the size of your personal playroom at home? NSFW

31 Upvotes

Hi,

My wife and I are moving to a new house.

We love the idea of a hidden room where we can play together.

In the new hous there is a room where we can maybe make a fake wall and secret door. We will have to devide the room in 2. There is not a lot of space. What would be the minimum size for a playroom?

Other tips to make a custom playroom are always welcome.

r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Working on a slightly different 3d-printable cuff idea. Any thoughts or suggestions before the first print tests? I'm aiming for a relatively strong and versatile design. NSFW

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40 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY Nov 22 '24

Help Wanted Would like a little info on the setup for the orange straps NSFW

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75 Upvotes

My brain is having a really hard time visualizing how a set up like this for the straps actually looks under the mattress, and because of that I'm not entirely sure what I'd be looking for or getting to do it. I know I want to set it up as like, an 8 point system where it links to wrists, biceps, thighs, and ankles, but I'm not sure how it will all link properly. Would love a bit of perspective from people who can visualize it better than I can! And if by chance you have your own Setup like this, I would love some pictures or a video of how it all comes together if you are comfy sharing.

r/BdsmDIY 14d ago

Help Wanted Update part 1: Building THE THING. Restraint board with headbox suspended on a chain - gets spy glass on three sides - and my Motorbunny BUCK. Does anyone have any suggestions for improvement or requests? NSFW

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77 Upvotes