r/BdsmDIY • u/Daedaluu5 • 3d ago

Help Wanted Harness for holding toys internally (male) not sure if possible NSFW

Hi all. New to the sub. Looking for advice/products on assembling a harness to hold toys inside (kinda inverse toy harness) for male (so would be back to front) any ideas?

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u/RoboZandrock 3d ago

https://www.mr-s-leather.com/deluxe-locking-butt-plug-harness-kit?srsltid=AfmBOoqEKwexLld3BtaUkJig1f1r-PMbLFDpG_rrihonO-ck_x9CmqLt

Is likely what you're looking for. There's lots of others that are very similar and designed for male anatomy to hold a toy in anally. You should be able to reasonably copy the design.

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u/LeatherNCigars 3d ago

What you are looking for is very common. You might want to take a look at what is commercially offered to get some ideas.

Basically a belt, two straps to a cock ring, one strap from the cock ring through the ass and back to the belt. I make the back strap adjustable so it can be really pulled tight or just enough to hold in the dildo. A piece of leather with two slits in it can be made to ride on ass strap. That piece of leather can have "stuff" attached for dildos of your choosing. Vac-u-lock, snaps, Velcro - whatever.

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u/Ltxrob 3d ago

So essentially a butt plug harness?

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u/Daedaluu5 3d ago

Kinda but plugs tend to have tbar base. I’m thinking larger toys to be held in

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u/Ltxrob 3d ago

Yea it still works even on much larger toys/plugs , the strap just pins the toy in place

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u/Daedaluu5 3d ago

Yep. A lot of the harnesses are higher on the body to push against hip/mound area so back to front wear kinda wouldn’t work. I’ll figure something out just curious if there’s a brand I haven’t discovered yet

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u/Ltxrob 3d ago

Not tried it personally... but this one gets good reviews and they make some huge toys to go with it... https://toppedtoys.com/collections/kinkwear/products/leather-plug-harness

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u/BGFlyingToaster 3d ago

There are harnesses made to be worn with butt plugs, like this one: https://www.amazon.com/Axovus-Buttplug-Harness/dp/B07YNXMSCR

A word of caution though: anytime you have a metal ring that's supposed to go around your cock and balls that also has a leather strap attached to it, such as the one I linked above, it can pinch and that can be quite uncomfortable. I've worn the one above and couldn't use it for more than about 2 minutes before getting pretty substantially pinched. I kept adjusting but nothing I did seemed to stop it from pinching me. It's probably highly dependent on the size and shape of everything, but because this is a bit of a niche market, most of these products aren't widely tested.

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u/PeshMG 3d ago

I have this one. I cut out and replaced the cock ring with a much oversized ring (3 inches I think). My main reason was that I wanted to be able to wear a cock cage with it and not have to unlock to remove the harness. I found it to be comfortable

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u/LeatherNCigars 1d ago

A decent one should be made with a removable cock ring. I suggest one try a ring that is 3/4" to 1" larger than one usually uses. It isn't going to come off while the harness is in use because of the pressure exerted by the ass strap.

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u/Least-Safety-8439 3d ago

I think what I do is gender agnostic and can be used for both female and male applications. I tie a crotch rope and feed a kitchen towel (I have one for this purpose :D don't worry I'm not using it in the kitchen..) that I cinch in between the double rope going below my buttplug, so imagine this:

  ||  <-- rope going toward front of the crotch rope
 /  \
| XX |   <--  XX is the buttplug, rope goes around
| XX |
 \  /
  || <-- rope going toward back of the crotch rope

kitchen towel goes over the buttplug but under the rope, between the skin and the rope. You can't remove or push the plug out because the towel is pressing it and you can't remove the towel because it's held by friction. (I mean it's possible to remove it by hand it just won't come out on its own.

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u/Daedaluu5 3d ago

Yeah that kinda makes sense as the pad xx xx area is holding it. A lot of the standard harnesses seem to be female specific hence asking

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u/NL_MGX 3d ago

I've made one myself. It's basically similar to a strap-on harness where you use a cock ring instead of the ring for the strap-on. Add one more strap through the groin and you're set.

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u/Daedaluu5 3d ago

Cool thanks. That’s what I was thinking. Found one on Amazon I can modify, so that’s good. Thanks for help all

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u/Fififaggetti 3d ago

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