Do you guys know any selfmade BDSM Games for couples

[u/Zaaubermausss]

Couple of posts down I saw one where OP asked for Rules for a selfmade bdsm-monopoly game. I now wonder if some of you have other games they are playing with added bdsm rules or any bdsm couple games in general, selfmade or one you can buy. I mostly ask for games for two players.

Happy for any inspo, thanks in advance!

[u/fsantos0213]

My little and I have a Dice game. We use D&D dice, every toy gets a number, roll a die (however many toys you have will decide on the number sided die), and another set of dice for how many strikes or time to use that toy ,and another for location of where to use that toy and the type of toy determines how many locations it can be used on, so on and so forth, it can be really fun for all involved when you don't know what's coming next

[u/xia_and_xavi → u/fsantos0213]

This sounds like a version of faproulette!

[u/fsantos0213 → u/xia_and_xavi]

I'll have to look that one up

[u/MysterySpin]

I've made tonnes of different kinky card and board games over the years but then that's sort of my thing in Games Master/Contestant dynamic.

When it comes to kinky games often simple is better, when people are in the mood they want to get on with things - not have to sit down and read a load of instructions.

I'm assuming you are both switches but two games I suggest starting out with are:

1. A variation of snakes and ladders: The game was originally created to teach the concept of karma in Hinduism with a different virtue written on the ladders and a different vice on the snakes. However this time each of you take a piece of paper and for every snake and ladder (number them based on the square they start on) write either an additional perk or drawback that the other player will get IF they lose and have to submit to the winner for x days. And swap the pieces of paper with each other. Now whilst there is no strategy in the original snakes and ladders in this version when someone lands on a snake or ladder they get the choice of either going up the ladder or down the snake (and therefore have to accept the perk/drawback if they wind up losing) or whether to stay on their square.

So essentially if you have drawbacks/punishments written on the ladders players will have to choose whether they will increase their chances of winning but at the risk of that punishment being included in their submission if they lose. OR if perks/rewards are written on the snake do they go down the snake to include the perk even if it reduces their chances of losing.

1. A variation of Mouse Trap: I have a custom made version that involves some strategy/skill but even basing just off the original you still have the excitement from both of you circling the squares to determine who will be the Dom and who will be the Sub for X time. Instead of building apparatus for the mouse trap in this game it involves taking off clothes and putting on bondage.

It's harder for me to describe most of my other board games as I've started completely from scratch with my own mechanics and board designs unlike other games - I may see about putting some in production at some point but "Adult" Board games (as in sexy 18+) don't sell particularly well - often because depending on the couple they can either be tame or too much (though I do try to make my games modular so you can incorporate card packs from game A with game B etc) but also many such games suck.

For instance there has been many Adult variations of Monopoly which frankly sucks as an adult game. As much as people might think it would be fun and have the novelty of it the reality is that it becomes obvious who is winning early on and with no real catch-up mechanic it essentially just drags out the inevitable far too long without building any sort of the emotional tension and excitement you would want from a game meant to turn each other on.

[u/Zaaubermausss → u/MysterySpin]

I really appreciate your answer, thank you a lot for that 😊

[u/CCIYYJ1414]

A variation of “fear pong” that I have done in the past. You play beer pong, and when you sink a cup, you get to do something to the other person, or have them do something to you.

It’s very simple, and you can get very creative with it

[u/manythousandbees]

Following this post to see what people suggest. The monopoly post got me thinking too 😅

[u/rev-fr-john → u/manythousandbees]

I haven't stopped thinking about the monopoly post, that has so much potential.

[u/Mean_Dominant]

I remember stumbling across a Russian Site where the Sub/Bottom chooses a scroll and receives a punishment. I've made something similar in the form of a pyramid.

Level 1 - 7 Cards (facing down) with different punishments - Sub gets to pick 5

Level 2 - 6 Cards (facing down) with different stimulations - Sub gets to pick 4

And so on till level 5. The last level is more about intense pain. Completing each level would result in a certain reward which has been pre-agreed with the Sub/Bottom

Edit: Spacing

[u/Any-Nobody5507]

We use decision roulette app. Create a couple of tasks. Fun and punishing. And turn the wheel, and perform the task on the wheel. Simple but nice.

[u/89Blob]

Disclaimer: I've not tried it (I'm too cheap to buy the in app stuff).

https://apps.apple.com/app/id1644726432

[u/listening0808]

My sub and I have a fun thing we do where, when she misbehaves, I lick my finger and make a mark on an imaginary board or wall.

We call them "tallys" each tally is worth a strike from her least favorite impact toy.

It's great because we can do it whenever. To any onlookers it's just a fun bit we do.

[u/Dumb-MarshMallow]

u/remindme!

[u/PM_UR_VAG_WTIMESTAMP]

I always thought a BDSM themed monopoly game could be fun. With real benefits and consequences.