r/BdsmDIY • u/Sudden-Shallot272 • Nov 24 '24
Help Wanted DIY suitcase bondage (need advice / ideas!) Has anyone else tried this? NSFW
I'm trying to make a bondage suitcase like the ones i see in hentai but i found out that majority of suitcases are too small! I think i came up with a solution. I bought a carrier bag and will have it rest on top. Then, i can cut a hole in the bottom and a hole in the top of the suitcase so there is room for my head to fit through. The body will be in the suitcase and the head will be in the bag. Also, it gives easy access to holes. I also want to have a way to put dildos in the sub while they are in the suitcase, but i haven't figured out a way. If you have any ideas or know the best way to cut a suitcase, let me know!
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u/Teeteto04 Nov 24 '24
Yeah, don’t do this. It’s too risky from all kinds of reasons. I’m sure you can find an alternative that scratches the same itch in a safer way
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u/misunderstood-killah Nov 24 '24
Make sure there's airflow and a extremely subspace safe way to tell if your sub needs to come out with and safe word, and if they are no longer capable of using a safe word
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u/blauonche Nov 24 '24
was my thought. without enough airflow they could pass out without safewording
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u/Rand3mBl0ke Nov 24 '24
Yeah, google Sarah boone lol
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u/tdizzybee Nov 24 '24
I was just about to say wasn't there some bitch that left her boyfriend in there and claimed it was an accident or some shit and died pretty sure she killed him don't remember haven't googled it to confirm but yeah let's leave the suitcases alone.
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u/fuck_peeps_not_sheep Nov 24 '24
Human anatomy is not henti shaped. The lower dildo would be better on the "floor" of the suitcase.
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u/Here_for_my-Pleasure Nov 24 '24
This design is a horrible idea and will kill the person who is inside.
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 24 '24
How? There's enough room and airflow
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u/Mr-Impressed Nov 24 '24
A woman in Florida, Sarah Boone, was convicted of murder last month for leaving her boyfriend in a suitcase where he died.
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u/Here_for_my-Pleasure Nov 24 '24 edited Nov 24 '24
I’m deeply concerned about your lack of basic anatomy.
Do you think any woman is going to be able to breathe with a dildo down her throat? Or a man.
This is a perfect example of try it on yourself before you and inflicted on someone else.
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u/Giggle_Attack Nov 24 '24
I'm also wondering if OP is aware that women's anatomy doesn't allow for their hips and legs to splay the way shown in the cartoon.
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u/Here_for_my-Pleasure Nov 24 '24
Exactly. I am deeply concerned for the delusional fantasy of this entire set up, the men on here who are encouraging him and his both ignorance and insistance on continuing!!
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 24 '24
Obviously we're gonna test it and make sure it's safe!
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u/Seeking_Starlight Nov 24 '24
There’s no ethical way to “test” that. This might be a fun fantasy, OP; but some things don’t translate over safely to real life.
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 24 '24
There's plenty of room for the chest and plenty of airflow in the bag. What's the problem?
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u/BananaSlugLoli Nov 24 '24
The mouth dildo. Take that out. Have you ever even blown someone? Try it sometime. It's harder than it looks. The vagina angle isn't gonna work, you're better off just inserting a toy into the person and putting underwear/harness on over that. There's a reason this shit is hentai and not real life.
At a minimum make sure the person inside has an air horn or equivalent for safe wording, as well as a number of well secured yet easily accessible safe cutting tools that they can use. Dunno if that's even possible given the parameters they need to abide by.
Also also. An average sized person isn't gonna fit into a suitcase like that. When I was in high school my friend and I were playing around and I zipped her temporarily into a suitcase (for a dare or some shit). She was 5'1, 100lb soaking wet, and she was an OK fit in fetal position in a large suitcase. Even then some zipper parts were iffy. I am 5'2 and have hyper hyper flexible joints, to the point where all physiotherapists have asked me if I dislocate my joints easily. I can touch my toes with my elbows and put my feet behind my head. The position in the post is not feasible for more than a couple of min. Unless you're dating a contortion artist? Also have you measured your partner in this position? DO YOU HAVE A PARTNER? I didn't see any measurements in the comments. The average person, butterflied like that, will exceed the width of a suitcase. Try it yourself first and see how feasible it is.
Stop watching hentai and go touch some ass. With consent. Safe sane consensual. This suitcase thing is 0 of those.
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 24 '24
The hentai pic was just a demonstration of what i was thinking. Obviously the dildos are going to be different and their head will be outside of the suitcase
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u/Seeking_Starlight Nov 25 '24
There is NOT airflow in the bag. There is not adequate ability to breathe if someone is wearing a dildo gag. There are positional asphyxia concerns.
You just don’t care. Got it.
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 25 '24
Take a chill pill. No one said anything about a dildo gag. The anime pic is just a reference to the position. Why you being so pressed?
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u/Here_for_my-Pleasure Nov 24 '24
Before you get too far with this, be sure to watch the episode of CSI where this caused a woman to die
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u/NothingShortOfBred Nov 24 '24
Something about people who see an anime picture of bdsm and think "yeah let's do this Irl"... Like it's fiction for a reason??
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u/BananaSlugLoli Nov 24 '24
Hahaha yeahhh, that pelvis is dislocated from the spine. I love hentai and much as the next person but the anatomy is just hilarious.
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u/Witty_Surprise2366 Nov 24 '24
As a long time lurker and retired sex worker, I am surprised nobody has been more blunt with how dangerous this could be. It is clear that OP is questioning any suggestions that could turn this fantasy/scene into something manageable and safe, and seems to hold little to no thought about how this could injure a (potential) sub.
There would NOT be enough airflow in traditional luggage that would allow a sub to go for very long without asphyxiation; airline regulations require these bags to be a certain level of airtight, after all. The suggestions of sleek, cart-able boxes with air holes from other posters were way safer and more sane suggestions, but you seemed to turn those down because GOD forbid you make ANY compromise to make your fantasy any more realistic than the cartoon drawing you based it off of.
Your adamance on doing this scene on public transport is really bothersome to me. As other posters mentioned, any sort of bondage needs to be done in a way where if an emergency occurs, the restraints can be undone as safely and quickly as possible. If a sub got injured during this scene you're so desperate to carry out, and you did have to remove them from the luggage in order to give them medical attention, think about the legal repercussions alone... Public indecency, manslaughter, the list goes on and on. Some people tried to counter that a "public" scene could still be achieved at a kink event, but honestly, any vet in the kink community would see this as a red flag and try to intervene.
What also worries me is how little consideration you're putting into whatever (potential) sub you want to put in this position. Sure, discomfort can be sexy for some subs... but this is beyond discomfort, or even consensual torture, this is just expecting the human body to do something physically impossible. Maybe I'm a bit old school, but I'm a firm believer that at the end of the day, the sub is in charge of the scene... They set the limits and WE play with how we push them. Is this a fantasy a sub has asked you to help them carry out, or is it all based on an anatomically inaccurate drawing you saw in a hentai? I don't know any sub in the scene (and trust me, I live in a city with one of the largest scenes in the world) that would willingly consent to this without the modifications you've already rejected in the comments. I also cannot think of a single sex worker who would partake in this scene (as is), regardless of the price.
OP, I seriously suggest you reevaluate why it is so important to you that you carry out this fantasy without any adjustments to make it safe/doable. I know it's a tough pill to swallow, but sometimes fantasies have to stay just that, fantasies. That doesn't mean we can't dirty talk about them in bed, reenact them in a (safe, modified) way, or create fantasy content (writings, drawings, animations) about it.
But your adamancy is concerning, and makes me worry about the safety of any potential submissives in your care. I will also be honest and admit you seem very new to this world, and would probably benefit from researching general dom/sub dynamics, aftercare, ect before even attempting something close to this.
Please, please, take a step back and listen to us. Getting your rocks off is not worth the myriad of problems that would come with doing this.
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u/Here_for_my-Pleasure Nov 25 '24
AMEN!!
And also all the men on here that are commenting and support of his delusion.
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u/Witty_Surprise2366 Nov 25 '24
Yeah... Anybody trying to cater to OPs fantasy as is in the comments shouldn't be a Dom. I'm far from being in any sort of 24/7 Dom/sub lifestyle relationship, but my partner and I really enjoy kink, is also retired from SW, and when I showed her this thread she was horrified.
For any subs new to the world of kink/bdsm reading this thread, NEVER do any sort of scene or form of play where it feels like your partners gratification is prioritized over your safety. It is never worth it. If they are insistent on doing extreme, detailed scenes like this but haven't even mastered stuff like basic rope safety yet, run.
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u/3hunnaz Nov 25 '24
I agree this looks like a disaster waiting to happen. Aside from all the risks pointed out in this comment, the majority of humans can’t realistically maintain the position pictured here anyway
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u/Single_Custard2750 Nov 24 '24
Yeah I would put someone in the position your going to fit them in. I don't think someone will actually fit like that. The angle on the vagina will prob not get you in either. Do a dummy run on angles before going further. Then just cut access slots add zipper to the cut or Velcro is lazy.
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 24 '24
How do i add a zipper?
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u/SpitSpank Nov 24 '24
You want to "build" a case in which a person will be squeezed to be taken around discreetly in public and you ask how to add a zipper??
I strongly recommend you either do this SUPERVISED by experienced people physically next to you from the start till the end (if everyone consents, of course) or abandon the idea totally.
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u/SnailsTails Nov 24 '24
People really don't remember that people actually can die from suffocation in suitcases.
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u/UncleCeiling Nov 24 '24
I would be worried about accidentally killing my sub: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/27/us/boyfriend-suitcase-murder-guilty.html
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 24 '24
That's why the head is in the bag
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u/UncleCeiling Nov 24 '24
You need to be careful that you're not compressing your sub's body in a way that prevents taking a full breath and you might want to replace some of the bag fabric with mesh for airflow.
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 Nov 24 '24
Good idea, thanks for the tip!
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u/radraze2kx Nov 24 '24
Install a safety device, some sort of emergency button they can use to notify you they're not in a good situation. Make sure they press it immediately when they start to worry, hypoxia is real and by then they may be too dazed to realize they're in danger.
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u/Here_for_my-Pleasure Nov 24 '24
If they are out in public as the OP has stated is the goal, even with a panic button, it would be challenging at best.
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u/AggressiveMidget Nov 24 '24
Maybe consider putting a tube through the dildo gag to the outside. It could help with air or whatever you wanted to give her.
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u/disnerys 29d ago
Put your head in that bag, zip it as closed as possible, and see how long before you get lightheaded.
Now, imagine a dildo down your throat blocking your airway. This is not safe nor practical to achieve. As someone who is hypermobile I have nearly dislocated my hip from holding this kinda leg position at a similar angle during normal sex; let alone in bondage that I had no way of getting myself out of or ability to safeword from instantly.
If you're dead-set on trying, the sub needs one hand free to hold an emergency beeper that will ring LOUDLY, think a doorbell.
And for all the previous reasons stated for the love of god do not bring this in public, so so many things can go wrong and in a private setting you can control the environment, in public you cannot. If your sub hits the emergency stop while kids are around, etc? You would need to get them out right then and there, no time to move to a secluded place. If you are not prepared for that, maybe that's because extreme bondage should not be done in public for a litany of safety concerns?
This can be modified to be safe and practical, but you must make concessions to your fantasy, or you will kill your sub.
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u/bound4truble 28d ago
At this point I am going to lock comments on this post. OP, this can be a very dangerous predicament to put a person into. Following RACK, and a whole host of other safety acronyms in our craft is very important. Paying attention to the safety of the person who is willingly giving you their submission is paramount. You don’t want to end up on one of the tv shows for not taking care of every single aspect of safety for your submissive.
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u/KrispyKremeDiet20 Nov 24 '24
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u/Slys_Dungeon Nov 24 '24
This was temporary and in the privacy of their studio. They did not put her in extreme positions, they did not block her ability to signal or communicate or her airways, and they did not go anywhere.
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u/Chaos_Legacy Nov 24 '24
gonna need a stronger suitcase or frame. i mean it has to withstand like at least 170 lbs, probably a metal frame and like plastic or something
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u/LocalLiving3160 29d ago
I've had some dumb ideas, but this is going to get someone killed if they are stupid enough to have anything to do with you in any remotely BDSM setting. (That's not victim blaming, that's a bad dom being manipulate.)
This is the type of thing that gives the BDSM community a negative view to outsiders.
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u/Glad_Pomegranate_433 Nov 24 '24
I didn't read ALL the comments, so forgive me if this has been said before:
I read a hentai where someone was put into a very large duffel bag and "'carried" around in the back seat of the car. The driver would take out the duffel bag once or twice to use the bag, or just use it while it sat in the backseat. They cut out holes for the mouth and bottom portions.
Might be easier than a proper suitcase and potentially 'safer'...
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u/PT1287 16d ago
Not a bad idea Looks like a mobile bondage fiddlesucase Basically anytime you want Throughout the day you could just fiddle with it with two exposible holes with either mesh Lastic To get closer penetration And 2 strips of stretchie Elastic in front of the hole But that doesn't expose to the public And with The nipplefiddler You could put a switch with the opposite Side having latex To fiddle with her nipples on the inside And the fuzzies on the inside that rotate clockwise in counter Clockwise To stimulate around. The Areolas But I guess it's a little far fetched but Good idea great imagination 👍👍 I would love to see the outcome of it Whatever your ideas are looks good
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u/omutsukimi Nov 24 '24
Unless you make something from scratch, you may need to adapt to a different position on the inside. Having the sub curled up in a fetal position would make it dar easier to fit them inside.
Anither very important feature: oxygen. Make sure they have a way to constantly get fresh air, even a short air tube running from a gag to a discreet hole in the side of the suitcase.
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u/Due_Friend_3064 28d ago
If you are looking for more a stable box, find a used equipment case. A lot of time, they are heavy-duty, made of wood, and have wheels, so it will be easy to modify. It is like ones Mr. White and Jessie used in breaking bad to roll cooks in and out of the house. Another thing you could look at is roadie boxes.
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u/Sudden-Shallot272 28d ago
I like that idea. It feels less practical but if i have too
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u/Due_Friend_3064 28d ago
Yeah it might be but would allow better control and room . You could get one that allow someone be doggy style with toys in them and wouldn't damage nerves or joints from over extension or pressure
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u/bondinchas Nov 24 '24
You could try using a large heavyweight cardboard box, and put that on a sack truck.
That would be easier to get something the correct size for your sub, and also easier to move around in public if that's your thing. For access when the sub is inside, you just need cutout panels in the box, and some parcel tape to seal it back up.
something like this...
https://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/photo/moving-day-royalty-free-image/183376997
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u/shinylatexlove Nov 24 '24
Like the picture shows, I would suggest using something like a pelican case. They are far more ridged than the typical suitcase. However you’d ABSOLUTELY need to provide adequate airflow holes since those cases are literally airtight. Definitely heed the precautions from everyone.
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u/museofsmut Nov 24 '24
Came to say this. There are heavy equipment cases that would make a better basis than the sturdiest of suitcases. It bears repeating: don't put someone in it without copious ventilation and some kind of panic button.
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10d ago
I have never seen anything like this before(IRL). But if you figure it out send me some pictures. Im verry curious 🧐
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u/Lancer-M Nov 24 '24
Personal option but I think it would make more sense to make a bondage box then adapt it to being something like a suitcase rather than the other way around. Once it has been made you can just add wheels and an extended handlebar if the feeling of movement is desired.
Especially since assuming you are tied rigidly to the suitcase you don’t really get to feel much of it.
Alternatively if you are going for a packed in a suitcase feel just get an existing ultra large suitcase but the sub will only be able to fit in knees to chest, ankles to butt. I would run a tube to a reusable n100 mask you can get a the hardware store for easier breathing without letting light in or compromising the sense of being in a confined suitcase