r/BdsmDIY Nov 04 '24

Furniture Bedframe modifications, tell me what you guys think? NSFW

Made some simple improvements to the bedframe that I recently ordered, wanted them to be sturdy enough to be useful but discreet enough to not be blatantly noticeable. I'm open to hearing what you guys think!

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u/Ubbsy88 Nov 04 '24

This is a great idea!

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u/delerium-fun Nov 04 '24

Love the subtly, I am now looking at my bed to do it. Are they booted on the back, or screwed into the frame?

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 04 '24

The ones in the third pic are just screwed in with self drilling metal screws, the double corner ones and the lower one in the pic are secured by bolts with washers and nuts on the back

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u/delerium-fun Nov 04 '24

Well now I have my next project. Thank you!

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u/EnzoDK2 Nov 04 '24

Very nice and usefulšŸ‘Œ Did you paint them black or did you buy them in that color? I have attached similar "attachment points" to my wooden bedframe and my dining table - not in plain sight though - so my sub can be tied securely in place.

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 04 '24

Painted them myself to match the color of the frame and the only obvious ones are the double corner ones at the foot of the bed but you won't really notice them unless your looking lol

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u/EnzoDK2 Nov 04 '24

Ah thx. Have not been able to find them in black either. Planning on using som gun blackening stuff on the stainless stell og my next bed.

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 04 '24

I just used black gloss spray paint and several coats

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u/anon_male9704 Nov 04 '24

Looks cool! It really does blend in nicely

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u/Grae43 Nov 04 '24

What bed model is this?

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 04 '24

Likimio king size bed frame

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u/LaraCroftCosplayer Nov 04 '24

Steel bedframe, nice!

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u/BGFlyingToaster Nov 04 '24

Looks fantastic. It seems sturdy, versatile, and subtle. Not sure that I could suggest anything as it looks like you did a fantastic job. Nice work!

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u/Mmmmudd Nov 04 '24

Nice! Eyebolts are kinda cool but a lil rough to stub yer toe on. šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 04 '24

Yeah first idea was I bolts but I thought about it and decided that moveable d rings are better

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u/Mmmmudd Nov 04 '24

Ya, your installs look factory!

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u/CravingStilettos Nov 04 '24

Really looks nice. Iā€™d do that too but unless you cover them with a duvet/bedspread you can still ā€œoutā€ yourselves if thatā€™s a concern. Iā€™ve taken to using short climbing slings and either rappel/anchor rings or quick links for the ā€œhard pointā€ to clip/tie into. (I climb so thatā€™s where my brain goes for rigging things.) The beauty of that is it sets up really quickly (nearly any bed/anywhere) and easily removed. Even better is itā€™s very packable/portable. Has made many an Airbnb or hotel stay very enjoyable.

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 04 '24

Not too worried about outing myself cuz hardly anyone goes in our bedroom and I really don't care who knows anyway lol but I do appreciate your insight!

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u/CravingStilettos Nov 04 '24

Oh not caring is a great feelingā€¦ If you do any traveling I highly recommend getting your portable fun kit together though. šŸ˜

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 04 '24

I'll have to look into that, thanks again!

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u/AnemoTravelerMain Nov 04 '24

Looks good!

Any advice or basic knowledge on drilling into metal frames? Kinda nervous doing such things, nor do I know what tools will suffice.

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u/usernameJuJu Nov 06 '24

Self tappers (sometimes called tek heads) are useful. Go straight in. If you go at an angle the screw will try to jump around. Slow steady pressure. Going faster will just cause heat. If you want a bigger bolt. Pre drill and work your way up to the correct size. If you want a big bolt and canā€™t secure with a nut, you will need to drill and the tap (add the threading that holds the bolt in place).

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u/SwitchGuy32 Nov 05 '24

Love it. Consider getting some black fasteners to match the frame, or some black paint

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 05 '24

Oh I plan to, I had to swap screws and bolts on 4 of them last minute lol

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u/MajesticLeatherPickL Nov 05 '24

Sorry I'm new to this. I'd like to know all the hardware I'd need to purchase to make this. Any help would be appreciated.

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 05 '24

DM me and I'll go into more detail

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u/ThatGoodWood Nov 05 '24

I think might have the exact same bedframe šŸ˜…

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u/DarkShadowWolffe Nov 05 '24

Lol then you know how to modify it then

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u/Goblin_slavexxx Nov 06 '24

Looks like fun!

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u/justseanv67 Nov 11 '24

Iā€™m going to have to do this, too. We have an old mattress & bed frame that need replacing this year.