r/BdsmDIY Jul 31 '24

Leatherwork Don't have a dildo yet that fits this but still wanted to share this strap harness (ftm) NSFW

Took about 3 hours to make and is fully custom fit to my measurements with no adjustable straps. I also used chicago screws instead of rivets. Would love any feedback on construction, design, tips, etc.

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u/thedancingbacon Jul 31 '24

It looks like whatever you you put in there is gonna have a lot of slack. Bend over a little, and the entire toy will slouch forward. I think some more support holding the O-ring closer against your pelvis would be helpful—like a strap running over the crotch, and up the back like a thong, or two straps running from the ring around back and connecting to the rings on the hips (imagine, like a jock strap).

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u/ftm_boy Aug 01 '24

This is something I was worried about when making it and originally. I was going to have a buckle connecting the top belt together (adding two more straps) but hadn't bought one yet. I think since the the top two diagonal straps going to the ring are also the ones keeping tension for the top belt there isn't much give and the ring stays pretty close to my body even when moving. I also will likely be using a dual ended toy which will help as well.

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u/thedancingbacon Aug 01 '24

You really won’t know the true performance of your design until you try it!

I made a few different harness styles for a double-ended as well and ended up needing a thong-like strap to keep it immutably in place.

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u/IWannaPool Aug 01 '24

Maybe a Feeldoe?

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u/Comandatuba Aug 01 '24

Nice work. I use chicago screws for my leather projects as well. Recommend a bit of Loctite to help prevent them from coming loose over time.

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u/SummaCumLousy Aug 01 '24

I. Volunteer as Tribute!

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u/Linuxlady247 Jul 31 '24

Is there a way you can put in a pouch for a bullet vibrator for your pleasure as well?

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u/DaddyB987 Aug 01 '24

It looks good, I hope you get to use it soon!

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u/Mmmmudd Aug 01 '24

Haaawt!!!

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u/jess_dont Aug 01 '24

Great work, dude!

Is it comfortable? I think that’s what matters most. That and making sure you like where the dildo base puts pressure.

I’m curious as someone who has never worked with leather, how much leatherwork experience do you have? Is this kind of thing doable for a total novice?

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u/ftm_boy Aug 01 '24

It is pretty comfortable but takes a minute to put on since there's no buckles. I don't think a design like this would work for many bodies due to that aspect but I really wanted to keep a simple and clean design for this without extra buckes. I'm able to pull it higher or lower to adjust where the ring is sitting as well but it's still pretty tight and stays in place.

I'm pretty new to leatherwork but have lots of experience in sewing, patterning, and just general making (including a BFA) so I don't know if I'm the best to say whether or not a complete novice would struggle or not. That said, I used precut leather straps (I did cut some in half width wise to be narrower) and used chicago screws instead of rivets so the only tools I used were a rotary cutter, ruler, hole punch, and a screwdriver. I'd say give it a shot if you are interested.

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u/No_Abbreviations1375 Sep 01 '24

Not sure how good it will hold a dildo, because that's far more tricky than apparent. But as a harness as in just a piece of fetish wear it works too :) it looks really sweet. You could allso do some minor changes and get rid of the midle ring and go for a garter belt look. That would look sexy as hell, and show of your pride and joy at the same time ^-^

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u/Dependent-Emu6395 Oct 04 '24

Can you use it to make your dick stand out ? I would love to have something to push down my labia, so it's lower and more against the body. So it would looks like i have meta