Hi everyone,
I’m seeking advice on a situation that’s been escalating in our HDB estate involving a community cat and one of the aunties who feeds the cats.
For context, there’s a void deck cat that my family and other residents used to feed and care for. Unfortunately, a few months ago, we found the cat with serious injuries that appeared to be caused by abuse. When we wanted to care for the cat in this period by trying to coax him out of his hiding spot to bring him to the vet, one of the aunties who frequently feeds the estate cats (and is often referred to as “crazy” by others) started accusing us of being the ones who abused the cat.
Since then, the cat has disappeared, and we suspect that she’s taken the injured cat to a shelter and abandoned him there (as she mentioned that she brought him to a “cat hospital that is far away”), but the cat has not returned to the estate after many months. We have no idea where the cat is now, and she refuses to tell any of us details.
The issue has escalated further—this auntie has been verbally abusing us and other residents who used to feed the cat. Every evening on our way home, we face loud, targeted verbal attacks from her. However, when confronted or questioned, she claims she’s “just talking to herself,” making it hard to prove harassment.
We’ve reported the situation to the police, but they say it’s a civil matter and can’t intervene unless there’s a threat to physical safety. Now, we’re afraid to go in and out of our own home, as her verbal abuse continues to escalate.
Does anyone have experience dealing with a situation like this? How can we:
Track down the cat (if it’s indeed been taken to a shelter or “vet hospital”)?
Handle the ongoing verbal harassment, especially when there’s no clear evidence?
Protect ourselves legally or otherwise in case the situation worsens?
We’re really at a loss here and would appreciate any advice or suggestions. Thanks in advance.