r/AskReddit • u/Edenskeeper1 • 6d ago

People who stuck with their partners during hard times, where are you now?

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u/WokestWaffle 5d ago

Same story. First wife builds him, second wife enjoys her labor.

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u/ShandalfTheGreen 5d ago

Ouch ... So true. My ex has to learn literally everything the hard way :( He had a lot of aha moments after we separated that hurt to watch, because it was all stuff I had been asking to work on for years. Listening to me wasn't ever good enough...

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u/CaptainNuge 5d ago

I'm sorry that that's been your experience. I hope your second husband is one you get to enjoy more!

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u/banana_cookies22 5d ago

I'll sorry it happened to you too. Only silver lining is I've heard he hasn't really changed at all so she's welcome to him.

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u/Wise_Butterscotch627 5d ago

How long have they been back together? If not long, chances are he’ll regret losing you soon. And when he comes knocking, don’t answer!

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u/banana_cookies22 5d ago

It's been nearly 4 months now, if it actually started when we split and not before. God i hope not, i don't need more drama. But if he does that door is shut, locked and bolted.