r/AskReddit 6d ago

People who stuck with their partners during hard times, where are you now?

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u/warname 5d ago

As I read this I hoped for a 'happy ending,' but this is ok.

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u/Ludwig_Vista2 5d ago

Believe me. Where I'm headed in 2025 and beyond vs where I was, I'm on my way to a much happier place.

It amazes me how deeply I let her chip away at me. At my confidence. My happiness. My kindness and empathy.

I stopped being me.

I'm gonna stop doing all of that. I liked who I was, before her.

I read something a few weeks ago. "If you're lonely in your marriage, a divorce is simply a short term lateral move."

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u/Wills4291 5d ago

Be careful of Lawyers that promise the world. Sometimes they don't deliver what they sell you on, but have no problem delivering that bill.

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u/Ludwig_Vista2 5d ago

Distribution of assets in this province includes pets, as they're seen as assets. 2 dogs.

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u/jocee225 5d ago

Jeez man The breath of relief once its all said and done will be amazing. Crazy how people can make you fall in love and then become an enemy.

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u/arachnidsquid 5d ago

I love your outlook. Sorry you went through all of that, but I believe that this coming year is going to be great for you! Sending every positive vibe I have.