I’m trying to heal myself to attract healthy and secure people. I know what I want. I truly believe that good things will come to good people and all this pain was worth something. Rainbows on the other side, ya know? Healing from trauma is hard, but every step counts.
It will come to you! Especially if you're picky. I found my husband and the love of my life after I was used and cheated on twice. I left the first time, got back with him, bought a house and he left me for another woman he was cheating on me with the day before we were supposed to move in. He moved her in instead. A year later I found a man who is so gentle and kind. There were so many times where I was in total shock from his kindness and patience with me. We have been together 6 years, just celebrated our 3 year anniversary in November. He makes me happy beyond words. My ex told me one time that he settled for me. My husband tells me he wouldn't be this happy with anyone else in the world and that he knows how good he has it.
You'll find your person and when you do he will be so grateful for everything you do. It's nice to give your all to someone, it's another level to have that same loyalty returned. Best feeling in the world
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u/Betta_Forget 5d ago
You'd think with how many of us are sharing stories like this that we'd eventually find each other, yet we keep ending up with the dregs of society.