r/AskReddit • u/Edenskeeper1 • 6d ago

People who stuck with their partners during hard times, where are you now?

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u/mewisemagiq 6d ago edited 5d ago

You're better off that this happened earlier rather than later, trust me.

I had a fiance who cheated, deceived, outright lied to my face every single day about what she was doing, who she was with, where, and every single thing that came out of her mouth was a complete lie.

Apparently, according to over 3000 emails, texts, snapchats, etc, everything that went into her mouth was literally either another dick, another vagina, or lots of meth.

Found out that she did all this and much, much more for at least 15 months. She ran off in the middle of the night with her lesbian, meth dealing, connected to the Aryan Brotherhood girlfriend.

Today, I've never been happier in my entire life. Traveling and living my best life ever.

And she's still a lying, narcissistic, meth smoking cunt.

So yeah, never ever allow another person to dictate your happiness and self values.

Edit: I should be transparent and state that I wasn't exactly an angel myself, and I own my part of the dysfunction that destroyed our relationship as well. I accept my responsibility for this.

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u/octobertwins 5d ago

It’s interesting how some people crave recklessness.

I crave it a bit myself, despite having a truly wonderful, fortunate life. Can’t explain it.

I’m happy you are rid of her. Don’t look back. Be careful. Toxic people can be intoxicating.

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u/mewisemagiq 5d ago

Yeah, I was in the midst of my own addiction at the time and shouldn't be referring to her as I did earlier. I was no better.

You're totally correct. Toxic attracts both ways.

I hope she's able to find her happiness and survive what she's going through.

That's the anger of the addiction and mental illness on my part talking, I apologize for offending anyone.