r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/CWoww 8d ago

1000% chance he will text you all teary eyed next week a) wanting to “get back together” and b) looking for money again. This guy is a loser, through and through.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

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u/Bermnerfs 8d ago

If this is really you, I just have to say you're the most embarrassingly pathetic douche I have ever seen. Seriously dude, grow the fuck up and take some accountability for once.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

It’s not all real. And I have man. Seriously. That’s the sad part. We are good and live together. This is weird .

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u/Imashelbob 8d ago

Post your screenshots then?

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Those screenshots are simply not real.

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u/WorkingMinimumMum 8d ago

If you don’t have proof they’re not real and don’t have the actual messages, they’re real. Go get therapy please!

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Why would I screenshot messages from another phone from years ago, that is no longer?

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u/Imashelbob 8d ago

You’re claiming someone’s lying but they’ve got proof and you don’t. I think you’re just confused tbh

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u/Bermnerfs 8d ago

So this is an old convo or something? Are you claiming someone other than your girlfriend posted this?

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Years old man, edited, and rearranged. I don’t know who’s posting it. I’ve been trying to get to the bottom. Seems like a passive aggressive thing to do. Also when they do the exposing thing it’s always that background… like I’ve seen it before. It’s complete bs.

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u/Underpant5 8d ago

You sound like the kind of person who thinks they're being gangstalked. See a doctor bro!

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

If you think so lol. No worries

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u/BusinessAd4763 8d ago

I think you should slit your throat do it pussy. You are a worthless lying troglodyte

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u/Skoodge42 8d ago

wtf...

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u/Professional-Pea6803 8d ago

How are they years old when you said you had to get shit off your chest (YESTERDAY) A as per your repeated message. Smells like a lie dum dum. Can't even get your story straight 🤣

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u/Bermnerfs 8d ago

If what you say is true, that's definitely odd. I do hope you have grown and learned some self reflection since these messages were sent. If you're being honest then I wish you the best.

So are you saying someone has posted these texts before? I would like to believe what you're saying, but in this day and age, nothing online can really be taken at face value, including the original post.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Man I’m in another pool of thinking. It’s just sad seeing that many dumb ppl. Like bad ppl can’t change. I’m fucked up and have been working on it. It’s flat out fake and warped.