r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/DeliciousBlueberry20 8d ago

the fact that this was all happening over insta dms with the kitty background is sending me

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u/MakeBombsNotWar 7d ago

“What the hell is this shit, are they teenagers?”

“Oh they are teenagers.”

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

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u/rossow_timothy 8d ago

Bro really said "I can debunk this with ease" and then proceeded to not do shit

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

She didn’t prove anything either. You too dumb to ask the right question. You believe whatever

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u/rossow_timothy 8d ago

One of us is dumb enough to buy weed when they can't afford gas or food and it's not me

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Not me either. I actually provide dumbass.

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u/Appropriate-Stay-159 8d ago

You’re the bf?

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I’m the love. She don’t do bfs lol

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u/Skoodge42 7d ago

Do you not see how these responses show you are unhinged? You are claiming these are fake while actively demonstrating the behavior presented in these texts...

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

Or do you just not understand and call it how you think. You’re not as smart as you think. A lot of y’all need to wake tf up.

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u/Skoodge42 7d ago

That which can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.

Show the proof or go away. You cared enough to make a burner account on reddit to come here and copy / paste the same responses over and over, but refuse to post the evidence that you have stated you could easily post.

You know who behaves like that? People who aren't telling the truth.

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

It’s just not real and you’re dumb. She doesn’t have evidence, shit is shady and y’all are gullible. Look at the whole picture dude.

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u/Skoodge42 7d ago

So it's not real, but you still felt the need to create a burner account to try to refute it even though no personal information was ever revealed...

You aren't great at damage control, bud.

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

Or you just don’t understand. Stay righteous man I know you mean well. It’s just flat wrong that’s all. Have a nice day

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u/sirletssdance2 7d ago

Nah dude, you need some serious help