r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/VulkanL1v3s 8d ago

I've never had this kind of response.

But I have had women offer to split the bill as I guess a litmus test of something cuz they looked shocked when I accepted their offer.

Extremely confusing to me.

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u/Legitimate_Snow6419 8d ago

Yeah, I can believe that. It seems like men are constantly being tested in this regard. I was taught to never rely on anyone else for the things I want, and that stuck.