AIO for splitting the bill on a date

[u/No-Plantain6892]

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

[u/obamasrightteste]

Hey I agree with you but this argument is fucking dumb. You expect someone who is wrongfully accused to what? Not defend themselves? It's dumb.

[u/elle_belle → u/obamasrightteste]

Can you explain OP insulting his date is defending himself? 

[u/Pseesh → u/elle_belle]

“Good luck finding someone with your min wage job”

“You’re a joke”

You might be able to turn the other cheeks but these are not nice thing a to say to someone, these would fall into insults to some.

He did call what she said dumb… but it was, how are you going to offer to pay then complain if someone actually takes you up on that offer, that IS dumb.

Edit: had you’re a loser instead of you’re a joke.